I was blocked and I have no idea why.

edited March 2023 in General

So I had scheduled a cuddle session with a pro a week ago. She sent me her number and we set it up by text. It seemed pretty standard.
So the session was supposed to be tomorrow and I texted her asking for her address.
She messaged me on the site saying she had to cancel.
But then she blocked me.
I have literally no idea though why she blocked me.
We barley communicated at all.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

Comments

  • Yes. Happens all the time. Just move on with your life and don't take it personal

  • Did you schedule on the site?

  • @Niceguy1197 who knows why people do anything..there could have been many reasons in which had nothing to do with you. Me being a pro im thankful when they cancel the day before and not the day of..i would not think about that too much as you will probably never get the answer as to why..when things like that happen i always try to think positive about it..there is a reason for everything we may not know why it happened but thank god it did..im sorry that happened to you,i hope you can find another pro available for tomorrow night to give you all the snuggles you need 🤗

  • Thanks for the feedback everyone.

    I guess I'm just a little shocked because I would only block someone when they're being offensive, insulting or if they're harassing me. It's a like a virtual restraining order.

  • [Deleted User]LovelyDee (deleted user)

    I am a free cuddler. I just rejected a guy because he kept asking for more and after he kept insisting I blocked him. Its about as much as you can do as a non professional when you get creeped out. My account was "paused" because I was reported as a pro even though I wasn't and I wasn't charging people either. People don't know how to take rejection or communicate so it's best not to dwell and look forward to the real sessions.

  • If she sent you her number before you made a booking on the site, that’s a no no. You can only swap socials or numbers after a booking is made on the site.

    I’m not sure why she blocked you but we would have to hear both sides to make a reasoning.

  • "I’m not sure why she blocked you but we would have to hear both sides to make a reasoning."

    I very much would like to know her side also. I texted her and asked her why she blocked me. But she did not reply.

  • [Deleted User]SivaSky (deleted user)

    As most have mentioned already, i wouldn't take it personal. There's always 3 sides to every story. All in all, it could just be a misunderstanding, I suggest just move on. It does wonder to your mental health not to take it too personal.

  • edited March 2023

    Maybe she had an emergency in her family, and blocking her clients was the only thing she could think of at the moment.

  • There's 100 reasons it could be, and perhaps none of them have anything to do with you. That's on her, it's her business, and there are plenty of other cuddlers out there. Just shrug it off and move on, because that's all you can do.

  • People on here post this kind of shock constantly when someone does something they didn’t expect. In real life this happens all day every day. Why should we expect to know why someone (especially a stranger!) does anything without consulting you first? Preparing you for their actions? Or anything else. Why is this so hard to understand? It’s LIFE! Things will happen a million times during your lifetime that will be worse (and better!!) than being blocked on CC.
    My favorite post on here the other day from I can’t remember…and paraphrasing -
    “The only things you can expect these days is someone posting to TikTok or ordering cheese pizza”

  • I know it's hard, but when someone blocks or stops communication, you should cease messaging. For whatever reason, they need space or distance. All good, just be your cool self and keep reaching out to more pple. Good luck .

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