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embrace_comfortembrace_comfort
edited March 2023 in General

I have 4 full body photos on my profile (all recent within 2 weeks) i keep getting people asking for more full body pictures is this normal? I said no because i already have some up. Should i just send the photo or is 4 enough should i add more? At this point i think people are trying to be picture collectors ....don't get me wrong i don't mind sending people another picture for verification but i feel like its going overboard

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  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    Since this is not a dating site, there is no reason to be providing extra photos or for them to be asking for them.

  • RockRollCuddleRockRollCuddle

    you shouldn't have to send any extra photos. Guys ( I am assuming) asking you for extra photos most likely have more than cuddling in mind. Again Just my guess

  • Lisa123Lisa123

    Nope!!! I get requests for additional full-body pics from people who don't have any pics on their profile or send only one of just their face. I'm fine with just a face pic, it's for security reasons- I want to know who I'm meeting!! But I have multiple pics with glasses, without glasses, full body, etc so when I'm asked for additional all I can see are giant red flags 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • HoosCuddlingHoosCuddling

    If a cuddler (I only book pros) has at least one face picture and one reasonably-full body picture, that's enough for me. I wouldn't ask for more -- the person has obviously shared what they're comfortable sharing.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    My favorite was, "You have sexy feet...let's see the rest of you." 🤮 Yep, he's banned now.

    No, you do not need to entertain any such requests. An identifiable picture for safety is all anyone should feel entitled to, which you've more than provided.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    There are people who collect pictures of women from the internet. They get bonus points for collecting pictures that are not public. Such requests are not rare on this site, and you are quite right to say no. I would regard such a request as an orange flag: not quite enough to Block or Report on its own, but very much their last chance.

    Having said all that, and looked at your photos, I would add this. Your current set is lovely and all that anybody could need for verification or anything else. However, they do show you in only one context. Part of the reason I like to see photos of prospective internet connections (for cuddling or anything else) is that they do give some indication of who the person is, and so photos in multiple contexts and of multiple types are valuable. Inside, outside, full body, face, smiling, not smiling, with an animal, doing an activity, formal, candid, smartly dressed, casually dressed, etc.

    The optimum number of photographs (to obtain the best response rate to your profile) is 5-8, all different, so from that point of view adding a couple more would probably be helpful.

  • AllAboutSoulAllAboutSoul

    Picture collectors, boundary testers. Our spidey senses are rarely wrong. Call them out and they'll move on.

  • ChessGirlChessGirl

    The more pictures you send to them as what they told you to, the less likely you will get a booking from them
    Don’t waste your time on them, move on to next …

  • sunnysideupsunnysideup

    I think you have enough photos.

  • mimtheplantmommimtheplantmom

    at first i had about 8 pictures up most of them full body and when i narrowed them down to three i had ppl asking for more pictures or for my instagram. the first person who asked i obliged but after that i would ignore them but only cause it’s annoying lol. one of my biggest pet peeves in the dating scene is when someone asks for photos of me especially when we’ve met in person or online where i already have a bunch of pictures

  • Matt462Matt462

    As a man, with clinical depression, pictures don’t matter! I accept cuddles and comfort from all shapes, sizes, and colors. If someone is asking for full body shots, they definitely want more than cuddles, refer them to tinder, then block them!

  • mimtheplantmommimtheplantmom

    also @embrace_comfort i love your hair! i do grey braids a lot lol i’m currently stuck on red but grey is one of my favorites

  • supadupasupadupa

    4 photos is enough, the most important thing is professionals should have their real photos and also not photos that have bars on their eyes or face cropped out. There’s people in Las Vegas and NYC who do this. Even people that participate in the forums. And that goes against the rules does that not?

  • [Deleted User]MrAdmirer (deleted user)

    You have plenty.

  • JohnR1972JohnR1972

    @embrace_comfort - Absolutely no need to send more photos. I have never asked anyone for more photos and I have even had a couple of cuddles with enthusiasts without even seeing their photo before meeting them (they didn’t have photos in their profile but they were friends of another enthusiast I had cuddled with so I had zero safety concerns). I don’t post photos on my profile but I always include a photo when I message someone.

  • RezzRezz
    edited March 2023

    I was asked this before. Sent more pics of me with an ex boyfriend They lost all interest after that. 😉

    You have enough pics, they are either collecting or are alluding to wanting scantily clad pictures.
    Troll them instead.

  • jimboslice5014jimboslice5014

    When your gut says its not a good idea then it really is not a good idea.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    They may also be collecting photos to use on fake dating profiles on other sites.

  • HoosCuddlingHoosCuddling

    If someone is asking for full body shots, they definitely want more than cuddles, refer them to tinder, then block them!

    So @Matt462 , I disagree with this. When looking to book a pro cuddler, I prefer to see at least one full (or mostly full) body picture. I prefer this because sometimes the CC body descriptions are vague and "A little extra" means something different to different people. I've also had cuddlers blatantly describe their body type different from the reality. And I'm not looking for anything more than cuddles.

    Although this is not a dating site, to feel comfortable with someone in the intimate setting of a cuddle, I need to find them attractive -- or at least not find them unattractive, if that makes sense. That might make me sound shallow, and I acknowledge that. But this is an intimate, sensual (though not sexual) service, and if I'm paying for it, I need to be comfortable with my partner. (I'd have much less stringent requirements on a fellow enthusiast, if I could ever connect with one.)

  • CuddleBarista1CuddleBarista1

    I maxed out 15 pictures for a reason so that I get lesser request for that. I have fewer people asking me for more body pictures or any pictures in general and if they ask me for more photos, I just tell them that my most recent up to date photo is my main photo of the coffee photo which was taken last weekend. They still book with me regardless not providing additional photos.

  • supadupasupadupa
    edited March 2023

    @WiserGuy3000 youre right about what is put in a persons profile about their body type (male or female) is often false from even their own photos they post up. But anyway one face and one body photo should suffice that way no one needs to ask for additional but the cuddler can say no.

  • [Deleted User]stdisc0827 (deleted user)
    edited March 2023

    I agree with @WiserGuy3000

    A recent face pic and a decent full body pic should do and it should resemble how they are. Not made up to look better. It’s like stretching…

    And if someone has a face pic and not so clear description then asking them for a full pic is not wrong.

    I would rather think that the description not matching the reality is the reason why people will not send full pictures rather than thinking the cuddlers are picture collectors.

    Internet is full of pictures and in millions. This is not the best site for it. LoL… Trust someone when they ask and why ? The best part is some don’t respond and that’s the end of it and some immediately block. I could never understand that.

  • embrace_comfortembrace_comfort

    Thank you everyone i think i will also but 2 more photos with different context just so people can see different sides of who i am

  • CSnMUS87CSnMUS87

    On the other hand, I do wish I could have more pictures than the current maximum, because I had a hard time choosing which ones to keep and which to remove.

  • [Deleted User]Julesocean (deleted user)

    Man. Oh man, what a shame that people push for more. Your profile is delightful and each one of your pictures gives a perspective of your kind energies
    We are all lucky you added more perspective of who you are. But I am sure what was there before was suffice
    To you and all on here looking for your cuddling experiences, but are met with someone seeking more, I am sorry they are like that, it sucks

    Your appreciated as you are, and what you have presented Is more than good enough🙏☺️

  • CadawinCadawin

    I change my pictures from time to time but I do not share additional pics. I won't book a session without having a pic of my client either. Most of mine have been pretty cool. My area doesn't have much of a cuddling presence, so I get out-of-towners or ones that might be in the area I'm traveling to. Your profile is great, don't change a thing <3

  • [Deleted User]1_teddybear (deleted user)

    For the pictures people have already shared, I notice that the site seems to like square pictures. If they are taller or wider the centering gets kinda wonky.

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