What are little things that Pro or enthusiast have done to make you feel extra cared for extra special within the platonic cuddling guidelines ?
Bringing a bottle of water when I first met them (in public on a hot day).
Waiting outside (with a hug!) when I got to their place.
Extra time at the end -- though that's not a requirement or expectation, it's still really nice.
I openly admit to not doing the pay to cuddle gig, however I did see a local paid cuddler here in Bham a couple yrs back, which I'm glad I did otherwise I wouldn't have been turned on to searching for this site. I saw her twice. First time we hung out at her house chatting for about an hr before the session even started, and ate some leftovers that her Airbnb renter had made. After the session ended we didn't immediately get up, just sort of continued on and talking about how cool it was that we met each other and how much we got along etc. After that we hung out on her back porch enjoying each others company for a couple more hrs. Really made it feel like two old friends hanging out rather than a business transaction. After the second time we decided to just be friends and not do the cuddle thing because she didn't feel right charging me. We didn't become cuddle pals though, as when you are cuddling all the time to pay the bills, its not necessarily something you wanna do in your spare time. Like when I was working In the food industry, I enjoyed it, but I did not want to touch the oven when I was home lol . We did hang out a little bit until she ran into some personal issues that demanded her full time attention.
Cuddling a new stranger is always awkward for me and I'd imagine for the pro because they don't know me or anything. It takes me a while to warm up to them and probably longer for them to warm up to me. Some might take a few sessions, a few hours and some never do.
The pros I liked the most warmed up to me within minutes and I even forgot that it was a session.
Free time while not expected is always appreciated since it makes it feel like they want to be there because they could have left already.
I had a Pro bring me some great herbal tea once since they knew I loved to make hot tea and I've had another bring me a KitKat from Japan during her trip there as KitKat has dozens of different flavors there that we don't get in the US. Both were completely unexpected and were greatly appreciated. Beyond small gifts.. lots of eye contact, actually listening and being engaged in the conversation, enjoying the time together over clock watching or checking their phone every few minutes, and talking beyond only setting up and confirming cuddle sessions
Free time is amazing. It tells you that the pro genuinely enjoyed her time with you. I’m talking the ones that don’t give free time for the sake of giving free time but the ones who look at the clock and are like wow we’ve gone over 30 minutes and instead of getting up and running out, they snuggle right back into the cuddle. They didn’t even realize they had gone over. I notice this happens much more at my place than when the pro hosts. A timer is still the word thing ever.
I had a client ask first what my favorite drink was and my favorite scented candle if any .