Don’t let the bullies of the world get to you.
You are conflating bullying with a lack of a sense of humor.
Do find actual, reasonable help for those things that do trouble you.
For what? His fear that guys visit his profile? eyeroll
@DancesWSnuggler...I am sure you really dazzle the other men lol , but it probably has to do with that they saw a karma you wrote on a pro's profile and they want to see if they wrote a karma for you as well.
Patient: Dr. men have been visiting my profile. Psychiatrist: And how does that make you feel? Patient: I think they might want to cuddle with me but I only cuddle women. Psychiatrist: Do they know you are a man? Patient: I don't know but I don't have a picture on my profile. Psychiatrist: So they have no way of knowing that you are a man and only cuddle women unless they view your profile. Patient: Uh, I guess so, but I want them to stop. Psychiatrist: Put a picture on your profile or some other object that clearly shows you are a man. Patient: Thank you Dr. Psychiatrist: Your welcome and that will be $200.00. Cash or credit?
Welcome to being a straight guy on a cuddle website. Ive gotten several messages from men asking to cuddle and they even say "i know your profile says not interested in men but would you recondsider?"
If anyone does that just say no or block them
@wrench that's happened to me once or twice. There are men who will cuddle men but don't say so on their profile, so it's not an outrageous request.
I find it somewhat flattering, although I always decline politely.
Ah yes, sorry OP, may your journey to healing begin . I am sorry that I made lite of this travesty of men visiting your profile. I suppose that was bullying? My bad
I really don't like for people to be upset, even for reasons I don't understand, but this thread is hilarious!
@DancesWSnuggler I am impressed on your profile that you hunted wolves on horseback in Siberia and went down the Amazon River in a canoe, but all that seems incongruent with your fear that anonymous men wander onto your profile for unspecified reasons. Why the fear? Does your profile smell of sausage now? Did you have a raging case of cooties from male classmates when you were younger? Just curious why this is the hill you die on.
I mean at the end of the day, who cares?
😂😂😂
I enjoy being noticed by all....much better than being ignored.
The best hugs etc are from those that are open, secure and giving by nature, regardless of their age, religion, sex, orientation, race, etc. Accept those invitations that you want and decline the rest. Don't assume any intentions, especially if they just viewed your profile. Many that have viewed my profile are too far away to arrange a meet, and many have left supportive comments based on a post, etc. Hope you can find some positivity from their viewership and be comfortable with it.
What I find funny is that more men will be checking out your profile because of this. You've created what you claim to want to avoid.
I don't care how far away you are, if you pop to my profile I will, more than likely, drop you a quick Howdy-do. Had some pretty rad conversations with folks from around the world even though there's next to no chance I'll ever have a session with them. I mean I might make it to Australia one day...lol
Come one, come all to my circus of a profile 🤡🎪
@DancesWSnuggler in all seriousness , your profile has no pick to indicate what gender or sex you might be , and your username is kinda ambiguous so some folks may see you on the forum and click to see for themselves what you are . Also , I personally click on profiles often times as a mistake when scrolling through or simply because I see a post on forum, or they have karma or friends wirh someone I click on . Lots of reasons to click on a profile, and many of those reasons have nothing to do with wanting to cuddle with them .
@wrench. Stop bragging. No dudes have asked me to cuddle. The answer would be no, but the offer would be nice. Just saying.
@Nickoli Wanna cuddle?
There is only one logical solution here: new username = DanceWStraightSnuggler ?
I needed this, today. Thank you, hilarious peeps.
@DancesWSnuggler Everyone has covered the endless answers perfectly well, here; I will simply add that the vast majority of users here are male, so it is a statistical certainty that men will visit your profile more than women.
~ Sunset Snuggles
I’m straight and I’ve made some good buddies on this site. I’m sure it all started out by checking out their profile lol
@FunCartel 😆😆😆
Guys have viewed my profile after posting somethin in the forums. I never thought anything of it. As others have said, how do they know orientation without checking, curiosity, or one of many other reasons.
@pmvines Lol! Ohh, that's what it is...Learn something new everyday!😊
I had a recent occurrence that was new at least to me. A male professional cuddler visited my profile and then messaged me if he could use some of my written profile on his profile. I said are you sure? and after messaging back and forth he "borrowed" a lot of it actually. I understand and acknowledge that can be an issue with members here, but truthfully I was flattered a bit 😉
Perhaps the OP is crazy like a fox and this thread is serving some unstated purpose.
I hope you get over it. What a bizarre issue. You realize people of the opposing political party view your profile, right? And wiccans and furries and left-handed people and people who order extra pineapple on their pizzas. GASP!
Extra pineapple on pizza @MrKinder . Those are fighting words. Apologize at once. I am offended that you even mentioned pineapple.
@pmvines No thanks. It's not you it's me. We can hang out though if you make it to the NY meet up. Looking forward to that.
@achetocuddle yesterday @Sideon nailed it when he explained the OP did it for the views …. He can just put the straight male symbol on his profile picture if he wants to be loud about it … or write words to that effect in the profile picture. It just shows how desperate he is for views that may lead to a prospective session, where his plight may be sad at one level … personally I think he did a disservice to himself even with all the views
Extra pineapple! Lizbeth, "It's the big one".
I am going to look at your profile now just because I can.
@GordonBrody Careful. He’s a looker.