@GreatHornedOwl Oh my goodness, your wife was (and is) a beauty! I actually love holding snakes and reptiles, but a wild bug scares the crap outta me. 😆
~ Sunset Snuggles
@SunsetSnuggles - Thank you. I'll pass on the compliment, but I won't really expect her to understand.
@GreatHornedOwl I know you were just making a comment about the preying mantis connotation
Aren’t free cuddle buddies half the point of this community?
More like 10% of the point now.
@1teddybear Thanks man! 💯
A very small fraction but yes! …. Finding a good cuddler is very difficult and then maintaining a long term cuddle relationship even more … but when you do - it is out of this world … and you end up with solid friends for life!
I'm free
Seems like everyone in my area hasent been on in years
I've been on the site a bit and only found 2 enthusiasts. Both were great and we chatted Forever before cuddling and both are over an hour away. We don't really cuddle much but text almost daily to keep in touch and chat.
Female enthusiasts are unicorns. I think it's funny new members join because I always sort by most recently active and the new accounts became pros within days lol. I stated chatting with a few and after a couple days they are suddenly pros. Never a good feeling.
Well, if you like doing something, and you discover you can make money at it, why wouldn't you turn pro if the opportunity exists? If there was a market for male pros, half the guys on here would have started businesses long ago.
I’ve only cuddled with pros and have been looking for enthusiasts too!
I’m in the Los Angeles area, and it’s been difficult to find enthusiasts here.
I’ve asked myself what am I doing to tell the enthusiasts I am safe and friendly so I’ve tried to make my profile reflect that.
Because of social anxiety, I don’t publicly post my profile picture but I do send it as soon as I engage in dm’s here in the app.
Maybe try being inviting and state intentions and it will happen
@WriterGF you're exactly right. If there was a higher demand for male pros, the complaints would be mild for enthusiasts.
As a relatively young woman, there is a ton that goes on in our minds , one being -SAFETY.
Weird and disturbing messages pop up all the time and it’s a major turn off. Most times I don’t respond- or recommend them to a pro because I’m not interested.
I did make a friend who was extremely gentle and didn’t mind meeting for coffee to sense a vibe first.
@Tigerlilly32 Quite apart from the weird messages, I am guessing there are just a lot of messages overall. I had one enthusiast friend on here say she was quitting the site because she just got overwhelmed by the number of people contacting her.
@WriterGF nothing wrong with people deciding to be a Pro.
I'm just saying when you chat with someone thinking they are a enthusiasts then talk about cuddling and then they are a pro and now your expected to pay after that. I would always pass.
I don't have anything against Pros they are amazing and my best cuddle situations so far have been with a Pro.
Just the switch after the fact.
I 100% support a person's choice to do whatever they free and charge. Just like it's everyone's choice to different if/who they pay.
@BlackKalel - Yes, enthusiasts are indeed like unicorns, in more ways than you think.
The Woodcock is a bird that has an unusual mating ritual, and makes even more unusual sounds. For years, every spring, my wife and I would go on organized Woodcock walks, and never once saw or heard a Woodcock. We began referring to them as mythological birds, related to the unicorn. Even their beak reminds one of a unicorn, One day, I was working late, and knocked off just as the sun was beginning to set. Right there, calmly walking around the parking lot were two Woodcocks.
For sixteen months, I searched in vain, for an enthusiast to cuddle with. Suddenly, in the last three weeks, I have found two of them. Don't give up. You never know when a unicorn will show up.
@GreatHornedOwl very true. I have met a couple that are amazing women one actually quit because of the messages and requests she got here. We still keep in touch.
@BlackKalel I don't blame you. If they have a pending approval to be a pro, they should let you know that.
@WriterGF pending approval had a status too. Lol so I even check for that lol.
But ya this site over has been great.
I had an idea for the Admins to think about...What about offering some sort of incentive to pros who occasionally offer a set amount of pro bono work per Month? Per year? That would help promote more free cuddles but pros that don't want to or cannot afford to offer for free wouldn't have to. Thoughts?
@BlackKalel I have that happen to me a lot too, and it used to be frustrating, but there are some tell tale signs I’ve noticed so I don’t get surprised anymore. Enthusiastic for no reason, responds quickly but with shorter messages (enthusiasts will usually want to chat more in depth and respond quicker to more specific inquiries than general hellos).
I'm free! Usually I receive offers to be paid but I don't take money. As long as we connect I'll consider cuddling. I've cuddled one person and it was amazing.
Ur not alone. Only a few non pro cuddlers in my area within driving distance but they haven't been online in at least a year.
I'm free, living in Youngstown Ohio. If you'd like to know more about me please visit my profile and drop me a line.