Have you had any luck finding a cuddle buddy here? ( Not a PRO )
It takes perseverance and a little luck. I spent 16 months searching, with absolutely no luck at all. Then, I found two in the last two week,
In your case, changing your profile so that it actually said something, would help. Women tend to be suspicious of a 1 line profile that tells them nothing about you. Read my profile. Read the profiled of 4 or 5 other men who are active in the forum. Then, get busy and start writing.
When you write to a woman on CC, don't be in a rush to meet. Instead, invite her to talk. Try to say something that shows her that you have rear her profile, unless, hers doesn't say anything either. A lot of women put zero effort into writing their profiles, but they can get away with it. Don't forget that we number them by at least 20:1.
@GreatHornedOwl lol I think that's a conservative number
I have, yes.
Not yet, but I am hopeful
not yet...
@GreatHornedOwl You make some great points. As a woman, I really do appreciate someone who does want to talk and makes the effort to make a conversation beyond just the usual “hey what’s up”. I also like someone who is not in a hurry to meet and not in a hurry for pics. I have been talking to someone on here for over a month or so now and we have never exchanged pictures, just conversation. He is the person I really hope to meet the most because he took the time to talk to me and be very respectful. Granted I would never usually wait that long to exchange pictures, but when the first message is “hey what’s up got a pic,” I’m not interested and I won’t reply.
Talking helps break the ice and establish some kind of a base connection. I don’t feel comfortable with just anyone touching me even platonically.
Also if you can fill out your profile, women would appreciate that too. It’s nice to be able to know something about you to make a conversation and break the ice.
@cerealboxes84 - As you suggested, photos are not at all necessary. Years ago, I met a woman on the craigslist platonic personals, back when they still had personals. Over the years, we have become very close, and have "adopted" one another as step siblings. By deliberate choice, we have never met, or even exchanged photos.
I have, and both have been absolutely wonderful. One has became a regular.
They’re out there… you just have to be patient and not pushy. Put effort into your profile and your messages. And even then, no guarantees, but it ups your chances! Good luck!