Small Town Cuddles

SoftJenSoftJen
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Question for all of my fellow small-town cuddle monsters. How has your luck been in finding a cuddle buddy? There are very few people on this site that live near me and most have not been online for over a month. It is nigh impossible for me to travel as well, so I am, in essence, landlocked. I would greatly appreciate any insight you all have on this dilemma. Same for anyone who has traveled to meet any small-town cuddlers.

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  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited April 2023

    I would travel if I developed a decent bond with the person up to 50 miles in any direction I am in. Maybe list your limitations and possible compromises on your bio.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    Hello 👋 @SoftJen and welcome to CC.

    Yeah that’s a tough scenario. I actually live in not even a small town but what’s called a township here in Ohio. It’s actually listed as a ghost town in some books So I put Columbus as my primary location and just deal with it that way I travel for work and fun quite a bit so that’s how I have met peeps here the most . I met a few people from Lexington areas I realize that’s still a good distance from you though .

    Not being able to travel as you mentioned makes it even more challenging. I’ve been to your city and it’s a bit off the interstate even . So yeah you’re off the beaten path some. Our community is growing though and maybe people near you will pop up from time to time I know a few times I have had some profiles really close to where I live but connections were unsuccessful.

    Wishing the best for you though. Hang in there. It takes some time to pass to connect with people here 😊

  • [Deleted User]1_teddybear (deleted user)

    @SoftJen Do you have a problem with being known around town as "that lady that likes to cuddle" ? If not, then the problem may not be so difficult.

  • CuddleHugs01234CuddleHugs01234

    Possibly make some connections with whomever looks interesting to you. There are those willing to travel. I would just start a convo, and go from there. If you have a good connection with them, they may have a budget that doesn’t eliminate travel.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    The cuddling community is very small, and having somebody nearby to cuddle is the rule, not the exception. It just looks the other way around because we are on a cuddling website. Even in the USA there are plenty of decent sized cities where it is hard for anybody to find a cuddle partner.

    @Softjen the solution is simple in principle. There is no cuddle community where you are, so for one to exist you must create it. Not a trivial task in practice, but very achievable.

  • Lisa123Lisa123

    Everyone I've cuddled with lives at least an hour away from me. It takes patience and planning, but I've met some lovely people

  • LadyVelLadyVel

    @SoftJen I had family that used to live in that area. I can definitely see why you feel it's nigh impossible.

    Even if someone hasn't been online in a while, there may be a chance if you reach out that a notification may get sent to their email and they may check it. I've heard this happened with someone else.

    There also may be people willing to travel to you once you both get to know each other.
    I wish you the best of luck 💙

  • OriginalirishOriginalirish

    I live in a small town but between two larger towns. I'm 20 hours South of Seattle Wa. and 50 mins North of Portland Oregon. That said, Its difficult finding time to travel that far for a session as I need to add in the time for travel. If I want a two hour cuddle that's a large portion of my day so I don't get to cuddle nearly as often as I need it. There was a local lady I was seeing frequently, but for whatever reason She stopped communicating and walked out on a $250 prepay. Since then I cuddle far less due to availability

  • [Deleted User]emiilyy (deleted user)

    I believe those in smaller towns should not have to deal with this difficulty and have to miss out on healing and cuddle therapy just due to were they live, this is why I believe virtual sessions are amazing and I am also more than happy to travel to you with paid expenses. always feel free to message me about any enquires :)

  • HeatinWinterHeatinWinter

    I feel your pain, @SoftJen. I moved to a town in upstate NY that's 15 minutes from the Canadian border. According to the site, there's only one semi-active cuddler within 75 miles, and we haven't made a connection.

    Maybe going off of CC could help. Putting yourself out there on social media might allow you to find a cuddle partner (and plenty of weirdos, I'm sure). I have no idea how I'll find someone, as I'm new to my area and have no ties here.

    Good luck!

  • [Deleted User]kinny (deleted user)

    @SoftJen Small town here, nothin for enthusiasts. Just a couple pros.

  • SoftJenSoftJen

    Thank you, everyone, for your input and advice. As for a few of the suggestions...
    1. Using a pro, I can not afford that, we are on a very tight budget.
    2. Getting on social media and other apps.... tried that and it is a shit show. When I say cuddles only, they hear cuddle as foreplay then banging.
    Thank you for the replies otherwise.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike
    edited April 2023

    @SoftJen Wishing the best for you here 😊. As one of your fellow small town cuddlers hang in there !

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @SoftJen Welcome to the site! I am 80 miles from the nearest Wal-Mart, so well and truly in the middle of absolutely nowhere. There are zero cuddlers in my town; the closest are an hour and forty-five minutes away, and only two of them are active. I've had to travel for every cuddle I've ever had, and only one has been in my state of Wyoming. My cuddles have been otherwise entirely in Colorado, Utah, and most recently, Florida.

    I get that traveling isn't an option for you, right now... The only option then would be to get people to come to you. That means you've got a lot of work ahead of you reaching out to people in a wide radius of you, making strong connections and establishing meaningful relationships such that people will be willing to travel to you.

    Best of luck and here is more of my story on my journey when I began cuddling, if you're interested:

    https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/14443/so-i-started-cuddling/p1

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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