Cuddling in virtual reality actually works

UKrobUKrob
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In a world where physical touch is often limited or unavailable, virtual reality (VR) has emerged as a new and innovative way to connect with others. And for those who are unable to meet in person, cuddling in virtual reality can provide a wide range of benefits that can improve physical and mental well-being.

Here are some of the key benefits of cuddling in virtual reality:

  1. Reduces stress and anxiety: Physical touch, even in virtual reality, can help reduce stress and anxiety. When we cuddle, our bodies release oxytocin, which is a hormone that promotes feelings of love and well-being. This can help lower stress levels and promote relaxation.

  2. Improves mood: Cuddling in virtual reality can also improve your mood. When you engage in physical touch, your body releases endorphins, which are natural mood-boosters. This can help you feel happier and more content, even if you're unable to meet in person.

  3. Enhances social connection: Virtual reality cuddling can also enhance social connection. When we cuddle with someone, we feel a sense of closeness and intimacy, which can help build stronger relationships. This can be especially beneficial for those who are unable to meet in person, as it allows them to connect with others in a meaningful way.

  4. Provides comfort: Cuddling in virtual reality can also provide comfort during difficult times. When we're feeling sad or lonely, physical touch can help us feel more supported and cared for. Virtual reality cuddling can provide a similar sense of comfort, even if you're unable to be together in person.

  5. Offers a safe space: For some people, physical touch can be triggering or uncomfortable. Virtual reality cuddling offers a safe space to engage in physical touch without the fear of discomfort or triggering past trauma.

Overall, cuddling in virtual reality can offer a range of benefits for those who are unable to meet in person. From reducing stress and anxiety to enhancing social connection, virtual reality cuddling can provide a meaningful and enjoyable experience for people looking to connect with others in a unique way.

I'm up for cuddling in VR if you are.

Comments

  • TxTomTxTom

    I think the world needs more real, less virtual.

  • Mr_Cuddle_BearMr_Cuddle_Bear

    I spend my entire day on the computer or on the phone.

    Spending more time connected to the internet would only make my stress worse.

  • [Deleted User]MrAdmirer (deleted user)

    may work for some people, certainly not all

  • [Deleted User]Mman (deleted user)

    This has been discussed ad nauseum. MrAdmirer summed it up.

  • wrenchwrench
    edited May 2023

    Until its like the body suits of Ready Player One where you actually feel someone. No, it doesnt work.

  • StructuredQueryLanguageStructuredQueryLanguage

    I definitely enjoy cuddling in dreams, kind of similar. I also can taste food like pizza or steak in dreams too!

  • PrettyLuvPrettyLuv

    I’d cuddle in virtual reality. Why not. For those that are too far to ever meet. I think it would fit there.

  • UKrobUKrob

    You won't believe how much virtual reality has transformed my life. It's been an absolute game-changer for me during a difficult time. When the pandemic hit and my relationship broke down, I turned to VR as a form of escape and it exceeded all of my expectations.

    Initially, I was a bit apprehensive about immersing myself in a world filled with strangers, but I quickly got used to it and found it to be incredibly therapeutic. The level of immersion is mind-blowing - it's like you're really there with someone else. And the best part is that there are endless activities to choose from.

    One thing that really surprised me was the phenomenon of phantom touch - it's like you can actually feel the other person's touch through the virtual environment. It's so real that I've had to stop people from walking through me because it feels like they're really there!

    And the worlds you can visit are just breathtaking. Specifically designed for cuddling, these worlds are filled with relaxing music, soft cushions, and cozy spaces to chat and even watch movies together. It's a truly immersive experience that you have to try for yourself to believe.

    Trust me, don't knock it until you've tried it. This is something that has truly changed my life and I'm so grateful for it.

  • Cuddlebugg971Cuddlebugg971
    edited May 2023

    Hello! I don’t normally post on the forums but I’ve been checking more recently and found this interesting.

    Overall I agree with Tom: everything is already so plugged-in, I’d much rather have IRL cuddling. BUT. Then I read Ukrob’s experience and perspective and, well, it may be beneficial to some people in some circumstances.

    Should it take the place? Ofc not. But we’re living in a time of extremes, dehumanization, constant VUCA (volatility, uncertainty, complexity and ambiguity), and it’s stressful AF living through one of the most transformative times ever, constant history being made. So, people are lonelier than ever, as well as being touch and community-deprived. Paying for cuddling was the next natural step in this evolution-is virtual and robot cuddling now threatening to take even this?

    But sometimes, especially during times of low trust and high stress, you just have to see what can meet your needs, even if it’s unconventional.

    The thing that concerns me is that there are already some people living pretty insular lives, allowing technology to be the thing that meets a need, but really, it’s not providing true human-to-human interaction and often precludes it. Do we really want to get all our needs met through a screen? That’s so scary to me. So virtual cuddling, robot sex dolls, AI that can write poetry-what else is technology both threatening to help but may also harm? What about our souls? Where do we draw the line?

  • [Deleted User]uxecud (deleted user)

    There are pros and cons to cuddling in VR vs In-person (just like most things in life). Those that like it or are open to it should absolutely go for it and those that would rather cuddle in-person should cuddle in-person. I only cuddle in-person but will encourage those that are open to VR cuddling to go for it.

  • MonkeyNeedsAHugMonkeyNeedsAHug

    Thanks, @UKrob for sharing your experience here. This is so good to hear. Music to my ears!

    🐒

  • [Deleted User]Mman (deleted user)

    @UKrob I am happy that you found something that meets your needs and that has made such a positive impact on your life.
    I wish you more of the same.

  • Dulcie7Dulcie7

    @UKrob I've recently purchased a VR headset and I've met so many wonderful people. We talk in group circles, share stories. Sometimes with smaller groups, then it's like a mini therapy session with great friends 🥺
    I haven't necessarily cuddled in VR, but I've done hugs, head pats etc. I've even found a hairbrush that makes noise when you hold it!
    I adore the cozy intimate worlds/rooms!
    Is it weird that I've been close to someone and even felt nervous/excited butterfly feelings? 🦋

  • UKrobUKrob

    @Dulcie7 I think that the majority of people that say it doesn't work haven't tried it because almost everyone I have spoken to in VR said how real the experiences feel. It's very important to find a group of people that you can be with and that you trust. I did have a group and we would often have a cuddle puddle in front of a mirror but we've all moved on and I miss that. I'm trying to connect with like-minded people especially ones that like to experiment with virtual touch and cuddles in VR.

    As for feeling the excitement nervousness and butterflies, I get that too because it feels so real. They say that the brain can't distinguish between imagination and reality, so I'm guessing that VR would come somewhere in between and that is why it's so powerful.

    If anyone uses VRchat and would like to add me as a friend I'm Catisfaction

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