Getting ghosted on here, anybody else?

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  • [Deleted User]YabYumist (deleted user)

    Naw, man. I never get ghosted. That shit is weird. I usually get replies to my messages a few seconds before I send them. My experience on here has been amazing.

  • "There's 2 sides to every story and truth is usually somewhere btwn." Since we don't have the actual communication to look at (please do NOT post it!), it's impossible to know the whole story. So, here's a few theories:

    • Maybe you're too chatty and they don't have time for it? You're not the only person in their Inbox. Think about it this way, do you want them to send you "WHY AREN'T YOU BOOKING WITH ME?" demands several times a day just because you exchanged a few messages?
    • Maybe you aren't as professional or kind as you believe? Read your messages out loud before sending them. Are you speaking to them (in your follow up messages) how YOU want to be spoken to?
    • Maybe you need to re-read their profile for availability? If they say they're only available on weekends, don't expect a response during the week!
    • Are you respecting boundaries? I stopped all communication here recently with someone who tried twice to get me to communicate offsite before scheduling. He pushed it too far. Nope nope nope. Technically, I ghosted him, but he was warned 5 minutes before. So no regrets.
    • Cash isn't king. Being able to pay for a cuddle doesn't entitle you to one.

    Good luck!

  • 🥱 another post about Pros not following orders from Enthusiasts.
    When will people understand they generally can’t control strangers’ behavior? Why is that such a difficult concept? Millions of people you’ve never met don’t control yours, right?
    Remember this is a social site, it’s not your office. Pros are managing their Cuddle business in a way that fits into their own lives.
    On a personal note, I answer mine usually same day but my life is very different than most Pro’s on this site. Also if their message isn’t directly asking to book or if I want to write a longer response then I might wait till I have more time.
    In the end, make your profile one that someone wants to respond to.

  • @GrayKunz I get messages by telepathy and use the cerebus in my man cave to know where all cuddlers are at all the time. Im in my man chair eating popcorn and playing tetris while mentally cuddling with ten pros right now.
    Step your game up bro 😂🤯😂. Ghosting is for DC fans..

  • @carrieanne @AllAboutSoul ...exactly. All what you ladies said is on point.

  • There is literally nothing in my area. It could be worse for you.

  • I am sorry that’s happened to you, and would love to restore your faith in us professionals. I treat clients like I want to be treated, no ghosting on my watch ❤️🤗❤️

  • This reply is my favorite ❤️

  • @NiKole228

    I look confused rather than scary.

  • Since we don't have the actual communication to look at (please do NOT post it!), it's impossible to know the whole story. So, here's a few theories:

    Setting aside the issue of whether OP was actually ghosted, the large majority of men's messages to women do not receive a response, regardless of what the message says, and ghosting is very common too. Coming up with theories about what OP did to cause this isn't really warranted - it's the common, expected result.

  • Ghosting is very 'unprofessional', but people do have lives and other things and people to take care of. I check messages when I have time, but not here 24/7. I kind of treat it like a side gig, not my full time job.

    How about the no picture profiles and they keep deleting their accounts and then a couple days later they are back? I have one that does that and wants a session, but holy crap batman, what ya hiding that you gotta do that?! To me that would be a ghost! 👻

  • @CuddleWho Calling out OP's admitted entitlement is ABSOLUTELY warranted, he specifically asked for input: "Has anybody else experienced this or something similar?" OP seemed to think he should be immune to the "large majority" because he believes he's professional, he's good looking and he's owed responses on his timeframe. Nope! It's very easy to read btwn the lines, and I gave him food for thought. Like I said, there's always 2 sides to every story.

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