Appealing to same gender for cuddles..

doggosandmedoggosandme
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Any advice, or insight on how I can promote (can't think of a better word) myself that I am more than happy to cuddle with women, trans, or they/them gender, also. I know that the profile has the preferred gender of cuddling which can be set to "everyone". Just to let people, who don't have many safe places to go to, that I am a person who welcomes everyone and can help to provide a safe space.

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  • [Deleted User]CharlesInWI (deleted user)

    Sadly, I don’t have an answer.

    We are living in a world, and a time, where the very act of assuring others that we mean them no harm and can be trusted makes us a little less trustworthy.

    Our entire culture is based on the trauma it creates.

  • CuddleWhoCuddleWho

    Setting your "Cuddles" to "Everyone" and including a sentence in your profile stating your interest is about all you can do.

    That said, straight cis men make up the vast majority of potential cuddle clients, and it seems very possible you may never have a client who doesn't fit into that demographic regardless of what you do.

  • TxTomTxTom

    @CharlesInWI

    "Our entire culture is based on the trauma it creates."

    Huh? Where'd you get that from?

  • SleepySheep1SleepySheep1

    I think your profile already looks inviting! Some extras may be adding a few images that show such (some will put some sort of lgbt flag in their profile for example, but there's many things that come across as "safe space for all", so choose what feels right to you and what's safe for your area of course.
    I've found most of my same-gendered cuddles come from me reaching out personally though.

    I initially joined this site because of my amazing experiences with pros, all of which happened to be women, so there's definitely both a supply and demand for it, and I'm sure you'll find cuddlers from all walks of life once you've been on long enough. 😊

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