@MrAdmirer ~ That's lovely! Though for me I'd want them all up in my lap or laying on/next to me, so not quite appropriate at the pub... unless maybe close to closing time... 😉
@Charlie_Bear ~ It was so nice to meet you in Vegas, but we totally need to cuddle sometime!! And while doing so, we can talk about the lackluster experience we're having... No offense would be taken by me (and hopefully not by you), I just think that would be a really funny scenario... "Is this okay?"... "Meh. I guess." 😅
"You go back to that well again and again because the water is unlike anything you've tasted before. But you can get accustomed to even the most wonderful thing and it loses its novelty and luster"~ @WriterGF
~ Heartbreaking and beautifully put.
And @CharlesInWI ~ Your song quote post struck a cord... and I'm so glad you posted it. It was just the push (on the heels of the above), my feels needed to have some trapped feelings tapped to flow... 🥲💓🥴💔😭💦
@warm_embrace Omg I love cuddling - it’s definitely not getting old for me. There was just this dynamic that I have only experienced a couple times times that seems very rare, at least for me.
With pro cuddles, the focus is primarily on me getting my touch needs met. Thankfully the pros I have cuddled with are amazing and I genuinely feel like they want to be cuddling with me. Even if money wasn’t involved, there are some that I am sure would still want to cuddle.
With enthusiast cuddles, I feel like it’s more up in the air. I have had some that are dreadful, others where I was giving more than getting, and some where I was given more than I gave (mainly cause of nervousness on my part - please forgive me, I am an enthusiast noob) But then some you just both give each other exactly what you both need and it’s like magic. Those are the cuddles I am referring to. The ones where all anxiety melts away and you feel completely and totally safe with that person as time seems to stop around you 😌
@quixotic_life Um yes we definitely need to and you are welcome to tell me how bad at it I am 😂😂😂
@Charlie_Bear I misunderstood what you were saying. I thought you meant you were in a “cuddling rut”. Now, I understand that you were talking about how rare those “special connections” are. I agree with that, except I sometimes have them with Pros too.
@Charlie_Bear - I find it funny when men complain about pros being on this site. If it wasn't for them, they probably wouldn't be cuddling at all. I've only met with a total of a few professionals since joining in 2017(booked more than one session with a couple of them) and they've all been awesome to the point where I don't miss the money. I'm not rich and can't afford to book many sessions, but the ones I have has always been worth it.
@warm_embrace That is amazing! I have made some true friends in pros here and it’s awesome.
@Mike403 I very much agree. Plus pros are the reason the site can cover the cost to run the site, so their complaints don’t really seem to have merit.
@quixotic_life
With consent, here is a hug.
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I can kinda relate to this.
@MrAdmirer I didn’t realize it was considered exotic, but now that I’ve looked it up, I have told my child that we do have an exotic pet, because child has been wanting an exotic pet. Thanks for that!
@lonelytauros Given what you said in later posts on this thread, I'm thinking you don't feel excitement because you're lacking a mutual friendship and the joy that comes with that. I could be wrong. But you say you came here looking for enthusiasts and then gave up and started paying. That sounds disheartening and I think a lack of enthusiasm in that case makes perfect sense.
I am not bashing Pro's; I had a wonderful and insightful cuddle with a Pro, recently, that I shelled out my own money for. Just trying to make sense of Tauros' feelings by following the storyline.
@lonelytauros You know I'm here to cuddle you as a friend, anytime our paths may cross. 😊
~ Sunset Snuggles
Can confirm. Never ever turn down a cuddle from @SunsetSnuggles
@SunsetSnuggles all I can say is that you’re the best and you’re 100% right in your assessment
@Charlie_Bear @lonelytauros Oh for goodness gracious. 🫣 huggggs
Glad to solve the mystery, though? Don't give up on enthusiasts, we exist.