Craziest or Best Experiences from Cuddling

edited June 2023 in General

This falls under the crazy category….
This 24 y/o guy who still lived with his parents who had cuddled my sister before me, had one session with me….basically wanted to start seeing me so he didn’t have to pay for cuddles anymore. haha so manipulative. He was the shy kid in school and so someone showing him a little bit of attention and he became so attached to me. Time had went on and he had a seizure at work but then basically blamed it on me. Made me feel stupid and incompetent for voicing my opinions and concerns. Had invited me over at the same time his parents were diagnosed with COVID and then acted like I was the issue for having an issue with that. For weeks.. wanted to have this talk with me but then ghosted me at the same time? Hahaha so glad to be away from that toxicity and weird behavior.

Thread reported as it could potentially go off the rails quickly. For anyone participating please remember to keep things from getting sexually suggestive. [Charlie_Bear]

Comments

  • After reading your story I have a side question, I am new to the site and have never cuddled before on here, but how do you prevent yourself and your cuddlee from catching feelings over time? It seems like it would be natural and somewhat difficult to avoid?

  • I have stories from both sides of the spectrum….

  • @Iluvcozycomfort I would say the way to prevent catching feelings is understanding why you want to start paying for pro-cuddling would help. For myself I found by paying money for pro-cuddling was a replacement for building romantic relationships in my life.

    If you are going into cuddling to find answers or some type of healing, starting cuddling is something I would encourage. Overtime you will find it could be sustainable or you find your answer and move on with your life.

  • @Iluvcozycomfort Compartmentalizing is how I do it - there's a box in my mind for platonic cuddles and it's very separate from the romantic box or even the friends box. It's a comfortable box where pros are paid to hold space for you, and they genuinely do care in that moment from my experience, but it's also just cuddles - any time your lizard brain wants to put them in another box, you need to push back on yourself and manage the feelings.

  • Some insane client basically implying that he wanted me to replace his ex wife. Should’ve known it was gonna be a bad night when he opened the cuddle session with “show me love!!!!” I gave benefit of the doubt and thought it was due to a language barrier.

    Dude kept saying crazy shit about wanting to take me on trips across the country, cruises, wanting “a woman to treat like a queen” and bringing up his ex wife and all the businesses he owned, etc. IT WAS OUR FIRST TIME MEETING.

    He would also ask me my goals in life, specifically related to marriage, etc, and reacted very negatively when I gave non-traditional answers (ie answers that didn’t play into his fantasy)

    Like. Bruh. If you make so much money just buy an escort with the girlfriend experience. I’m here for platonic services, leave me the fuck alone.

    Also. I have pink hair and live in Portland 😂 Do I LOOK like I’m going to be a trad wife???

  • [Deleted User]MrAdmirer (deleted user)

    These stories (and I’ve heard others from girls I’ve cuddled with) are a stark reminder of the the types of men that frequent the site.

    Of course, not all of us are like this, but if anyone has any doubt as to why most women here charge money, may require deposits, etc, and seem to give blunt replies to some of the whiny topics complaining are pros, look no further than these horror stories

  • I had some real doozies back in the Bay Area lol. I remember one pro asked me to pick her up in a convenience store parking lot in a somewhat sketchy area. 40 minutes later...she shows up and asks if she could have some of the cash for the session upfront, takes the cash, and proceeds to visit another car with the window rolled down. I probably should have fled the scene but I'm a real softie. Anyways, let's just say there were multiple long trips to the bathroom during the session and a lot of sniffles.

  • @bobadevotee - lol. What's with all the clowns on this site? I hope you reported him. This isn't a site to fulfill fantasies.

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