@jplemmon, the professionals who commented earlier in the thread are some of the most experienced, knowledgable and caring people in our community. Nobody is 'better off without them' as you put it. In fact everybody would be well advised to listen carefully to what they say.
I do. And I find that the vast majority of professionals I write to send me a reply. I don't have trouble finding professionals to cuddle: on the contrary, due to constraints of budget and time I have an informal waiting list.
The OP does have trouble finding professionals to cuddle, that's the whole point of the thread. The people who have replied, including the professionals and me, are trying to help him. Why are you encouraging him to dismiss the advice he has asked for?
@mike403 why the thread was created is now ambiguous.
Plenty of Karma will help for sure.
I have to agree with @stormydaycuddle . The OP asked for our (the community's) thoughts on why he isn't getting responses, but then didn't like the answers and so it has evolved into a different discussion. If you don't want open responses, don't ask open ended questions in a public forum.
@stormydaycuddle @cuddlefaery - It sounds like somebody just wanting sympathy without actually wanting advice on how to improve.
I still don't care , yet here I post
@Mike403 sighs in neurodivergence you're probably right. I just wish people would ask for what they actually want and need, instead of getting upset when they get what they asked for. There's no shame in stating that one is just venting and needing support or validation, we all need it sometimes.
@CuddleDuncan [I do not agree with you, however on the topic of usernames] You are right...having "hitman" in the username probably does cause some non-responses. I am agreeing with him that it's stupid and that he shouldn't want to cuddle with someone like that anyways. [I also do not agree with Mike403]
Reported and reviewed. Removed the more confrontational parts of the comment at the beginning and end. [Charlie_Bear]
@jplemmon but he was in last of the Mohicans
Do so and lets be done.
@jplemmon - Okay that was uncalled for. Grow up.
Or its because a woman speaking her mind obviously makes her unsuccessful. However...I know the person making the assumtion has the wrong information because I blocked them for stalking my profile. I'm going to give them the benifit of the doubt and say their fingers slipped a few times.
@stormydaycuddle His finger slips on mine frequently too. Odd behavior from someone who doesn't like us. 🤡
@stormydaycuddle well it is hot outside, depending on what part of the country you’re in and that could lead to sweaty fingers slipping
under age 25 = tiktok fried
You have to keep in mind that pros have to prioritize their safety. I respond to almost everyone. I'm not on constantly but when I am active on the site I typically check messages a few times a day. I see a lot of men sending random requests in the middle of the night though with no introduction and then getting confused when they don't get responses. That to me is a red flag because it kind of seems like someone just looking for something sexual. I can't speak for all pros but I think most can agree we'll respond if you just simply say hello. If you're shy we can help lead the conversation. Or even better, starting with a "hello, I'm interested in booking a session, where are you/can you tell me more/etc?". But the men that send random requests in the middle of the night raise red flags with most of us.
You move along, it's their choice who they want to book a session with
@lonelytauros LOL. @CuddleDuncan What you said.