Oh. He should know his providers are promoting drugs and 'favors'
At this point you are being a troll
@pmvines Good night. I will no longer comment here.
@koolkuddle - Excellent! I think we would all appreciate that. Be well.
I could use a drink tonight, I know that much.
Hahaha what on earth rhymes with “patriotic” ????? Get your head out of your ass, I was making clear to all sane indivduals that I don’t judge the way others choose to alleviate their anxiety. It’s not my fault you have the social skills of a doorknob.
If anyone showed up drunk or with drugs of any kind i would immediatle leave.
@caitleesi let it roll off girl!
She said, let it roll
Be the bigger person, don't resort to insults, and then just walk away. You defended yourself, no one else is saying you are doing anything wrong. Talking that way to him makes you look just as bad as him, IMO.
imagine having to put up with that whining in everyday life ... i've cuddled with @caitleesi and she was so cool from the minute i got there , i had a great time and i didnt even get a patriotic lance or get high
@Morpheus You're on fire tonight! lol
I’ve had a couple pros show up and I could tell they smoked some weed before session and that didn’t bother me. I’ve never had one that smelled like alcohol though. It’s all really no big deal to me unless they’re obviously hammered.
koolcuddle has now chosen to contact me via PM. He has not appreciated my comments. I can appreciate that.
My last message to him was the following: "But it is quite immature to publicly announce that you are not going to comment further (in the public forum) and then message me privately. What is the expected reaction/outcome that you are hoping for?".
Sadly, I do not see koolcuddle lasting long on here.
Rhymes with "patriotic lance." That's a tough one.
Hyperbolic rants? Symbiotic plants? Catatonic trance? Psychedelic pants?
Come to think of it, it seems nothing quite rhymes with "patriotic." and I have no idea what OP is accusing the cuddle pro of, and on what basis besides gossip. "I heard?" Humbug.
For being in a profession or hobby where understanding and accepting others is a key aspect, the behavior going on is disappointing.
Why the need to engage in a digital lynching, gang up on and insult the guy? And post public information from a private message?
The guy has a difference of opinion on whether pros should be posting that they're 420 friendly or not. He may have made some further assumptions that we don't have the details behind, but people's response to him could be in better taste.
Just take a minute to breathe and relax. I'm sorry, but I really hate it when people gang up on people in such a way. There really is no need.
I feel like I'm on Facebook, with how mean people are on there, instead of the safe cuddle friendly space this is supposed to be.
Even though I agree with most of you on this topic, I also agree with @ubergigglefritz There were several forum rules broken in this thread and it’s really not okay.
Btw the auto username populate update, outstanding!!!
I don't even remember the forum rules, lol. I just generally try not to ever send digital messages or posts of any kind when I'm annoyed or angry. If I do, it takes forever as I read over and change what I've written to try not to be harsh, ha. I'm not perfect, and sometimes I fail, but that is my goal. It can especially be hard to do so when you are feeling the power of the group, which tends to really escalate these things, as happened here...
Everyone's opinions duly noted. I felt I was being civil. Perhaps I violated a forum rule in 'outing' his private message to me. If so, I apologize for that.
Perhaps I should not have done that. However, I did not appreciate him contacting me privately when he had just publicly announced that he would not longer post on this this thread.
Mod Notice: As this thread has gotten out of hand, here are the rules of the site and of the forum @koolkuddle.
1. The CSA clearly states under the Miscellaneous section under listings 16 & 17 that "The Cuddler will not break any federal, city, state or county laws, statutes or regulations while performing services with the Client. The Client will not break any federal, city, state or county laws, statutes or regulations while with the Cuddler." This would include drug use that is deemed illegal in your state. Several states do classify marijuana as legal for recreational use or legal for medical use. Just because it isn't legal where you live doesn't mean it is where they are. 2. Someone stating on their profile that they are "420 friendly", like @caitleesi said, means that where they it is considered legal and they are ok with you using the substance near/around them during a session if needed. It is not an advertisement for illegal activities since it is not illegal where they are.
I am closing this thread though as the valid points for this topic have been stated and the @koolkuddle has been banned from the forums.