Hi everyone i am just curious to see how many women here have paid for cuddles with a man. I am doing a research for a project publication. Thankyou for your feed back.
It's very few. There is only a tiny number of men professional cuddlers and most of them are very obviously unsuitable. The consequence is that most of the women who are desperate to pay for a cuddle with a man have nobody to hire.
It is unusual for a woman to hire a woman professional cuddler, but it does happen.
I’m not a woman so I can’t help you with your question. Just wanted to give you a heads up that it seems a lot of people are adverse to participating in research on cuddling, especially research that will be published.
I would also point out as a researcher who has been published numerous times (nothing to do with cuddling) that your initial post has all types of problems such as self-selection bias.
Accoeding to my research, about 2 and a half
@Sooson lol Is that the same 2.5 kids per family math there? I prefer to get paid for doing research projects... I have not paid a man to cuddle, but might if it felt like a safer option.
@KaaGee I wish lol.i think we are now down to one child , a cat and a dog. Do you know that in Japan more adult diapers are bring sold than baby diapers? We are slowly but surely getting there.
Safe cuddle partner? In all seriousness try meetup groups. You will find some nice , mannared, well behaved people. You can vet them over dinner or glass of wine even without talking to them. The purpose of the meet up is irrelevant. Could be dinner, dance, hiking, board games etc.
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In all seriousness try meetup groups.
Sound advice.
meetup.com
how many women here have paid for cuddles with a man. I am doing a research for a project publication.
At least this research project seems legit. Much more so than the guy "researching" which Pros violate platonic boundaries.
I'm dying for a female client. I've had my office for almost a month and a half now, but I've only had male clients. I'm not surprised or upset by it, just wishing I could switch it up a bit. 😅 I know how rare it is, though.
Edit: I am in fact a woman, which I know is not the point of this thread - this was more in response to Duncan's observation about the rarity of woman-woman cuddles. 🥴
@PixiePassions I had a conversation with a professional recently who was exactly the same - she is dying to have a woman client. If you do this for long enough, you will eventually. But it might take a year or more.
I've been here for almost a year and a half, and have never heard any female say they've ever hired a male cuddler.
It sucks for the lovely male cuddlers with something great to offer out there, but the fact is, 99% of men on here are offering free cuddles, so most women have tons of choices and no need to pay. Sadly, men are in the absolute opposite boat.
Regarding women cuddling each other, enthusiasts who are active in the community do that all the time.
From what I have seen, Pro's sometimes offer free sessions to other female Pro's, to give each other a mental break, safe space, and of course, shoot the breeze and bounce ideas off each other.
It should be noted, though, that many female Pro's choose to only cuddle men.
~ Sunset Snuggles
@CuddleDuncan - o0o0o0o0o, good to know! Thank you for that insight. 😊 I'll keep my fingers crossed. 😅 And also glad I'm not the only one.
@SunsetSnuggles - That's also good to know! I've seen other female pro cuddlers on here that looked so lovely, I considered booking with them, even as a pro cuddler myself. 😂 Some of them just really caught my attention as highly intelligent, sweet, beautiful, and with an interesting mind and fun personality. I favorited a few of them for the future.
I’ve never paid for a cuddle session and I think it’s crazy that people are paying when this site is free?? It just doesn’t make any sense!!
@PixiePassions I actually did book one such fabulous, intelligent, fun, and very well-trained female Pro. Worth every dollar. 😊
@MsCarissa23 There are some on this site who would never get a cuddle if they didn't pay for it. My first free one was about 4 years after I joined.
I truly celebrate the fact that some can receive them free more often. For myself, every penny I've spent on paid cuddles has been money well spent.
@SunsetSnuggles - Awesome! 🥰
@JoyfulHeart I would venture to say "most", and it's a shame. I wish more girls would stay enthusiasts.
@SunsetSnuggles You're probably right. I feel lucky for the few I've gotten, and I wouldn't have gotten those if it weren't for my participation on the forums.
Any free cuddles I've had are all traceable to CC meetups that I've been to.
@JoyfulHeart Good on you; I feel a lot of people pass by the boards and lose a lot of potential friendships and travel cuddles.
The meet and greets are wonderful. 😊 Group cuddles (MeetUp.com, EventBrite, etc.) are an awesome place to find cuddlers, in a facilitated space.
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I cannot speak for everyone, but one of my curses seems to be that those who I would very much like to get to know, and eventually cuddle with, live 1665 miles away.
Which, granted, is an oddly specific curse.
I must have annoyed a hedge witch who was a part-time mathematician in one of my previous lives…
wonders how many miles I live from @CharlesInWI
I have cuddled with several female cuddlers who have paid for cuddling with other female cuddlers. In fact I would say that that was more common than them pay for male cuddlers. Wish I had never been told has happened. Even more to the point they were professional cuddlers who were paying for other female professional cuddlers. Granted this is anecdotal evidence. It also seems more intuitive. At the same time I realized that probability and statistics are neither of those things.
@SunsetSnuggles
I truly appreciate your kindness and positivity on these forums.
Thank you.
@CharlesInWI 😐 Kindness? Oh my God! I try and try to be cruel to everyone, day in and day out, and what do I get? Accused of kindness! dramatic sob Is there no justice in the world?!
...Ahem. I mean, that is so sweet, thank you. 😊 I will knit your owl little booties. 😁
I considered it with a safe looking pro when I first heard about cuddling. But, honestly, once I signed up and saw that free ones can be just as safe as paid ones, I haven’t paid.