Just made an account on here and I see some profiles where it says 'public', only thing I can think of would be public parks to cuddle at? please let me know
Parks, movies - sometimes they're more like a date. I had a very lovely client who brought me to see 'Barbie'. 😊
I would also cuddle in a cemetery, but I'm a goth bish. 😂
Parks, theatres, beaches, outdoor concerts, museums...
For a park, take a blanket or hammock. Depending on the view, find a place (beach, field or other scenic area) for cuddling while watching the sunrise or sunset. Just a few ideas. Good luck!
On a river bank in a state park. The last time I was there with a cuddle partner we got interrupted by these guys (they were friendly) 😊
@JohnR1972 - Wicked! 🦝
At glendale commons where there's couches to sit on and live music, restaurant, bars etc
Movies are popular, I love beach sunset cuddles, my favorite one was literally in the trunk of a hatch back outfited with a bed facing the ocean from the parking lot lol. It was much nicer than it sounds, felt like vacation but took some forethought from my cuddle partner.
Parks either on a bench or blanket, reading nooks, and drive-in movies are my favorite I've also done short hikes and stopped for cuddles at various points.
Honestly, I’ve been wondering this for a while. I could see being comfortable doing this in a private area of a park, but not really anywhere else in public. No judgement, but it feels a little performative? I’m curious too, I could be wrong and don’t want to offend anyone especially if it’s a way of them feeling safer.
Parks!
Just a suggestion...while movie cuddles are a great public cuddle choice, I don't recommend them for a first-time cuddle, as it is extremely difficult to communicate boundaries and consent in the moment, with theater speakers blasting. Of course you can have a discussion prior to going in, but I prefer to be able to give and receive real-time feedback, the first time, and save movie cuddles for an established cuddle partner.
@CableStone I start off exclusively with public cuddles for my safety, and I'm not offended by your comment at all. 😊 Of course public cuddles could be used in an exhibitionist manner, but most do not have this intent, whatsoever.
I think we would all prefer a fluffy bed under the A/C with no bugs around, but sadly, I've learned to reserve that privilege for only very trusted, close friends. Everyone I cuddle now starts in public, and if that's not their cup of tea, that's okay. There are always Pro's willing to meet in hotels. In addition to charging money, those Pro's also often insist on I.D. I don't do either, but I do insist on getting to know people in public.
When cuddling in a park, I'm not thinking about performing, at all. I zone in on my cuddle friend, and focus on our conversation and connection, so that I don't feel anxious about people passing by. Often, cuddlers I've met with have far more public anxiety than I do, and are eager to find a secluded area of a park to tuck away in.
That said, I'm sure there are some exhibitionists on the site. We certainly have all kinds. 😆
~ Sunset Snuggles
@SunsetSnuggles thx that adds up. My first cuddler wanted to video chat first, then meet in a coffee shop, and while we’ve had repeated sessions, we’ve never exchanged numbers, which is perfectly fine. This is a mutually vulnerable situation at the start, so I’m personally cool with almost whatever a cuddler needs to relax with me. I feel like anyone on here who doesn’t feel the same way kinda doesn’t belong. If they don’t understand simple boundaries and empathy, they’d be bad cuddles anyho! 😅
@CableStone If she is a Pro, that is somewhat common, for them to not give out their number. They want to maintain a professional distance.
@SunsetSnuggles that’s my point, it is common, even after building a rapport together over a long time. It’s very healthy, because I know things can get murky here with feelings, and would rather have clarity over any confusion of intent. Likewise, I can’t really enjoy a session with a professional unless they’re able to feel comfortable.
@CableStone Love your approach! 🤜🏻
woo sounds great.
@biancalovecraft - That sounds amazing!
A grizzly took my last public cuddler.
@BoomerSpooner - Oh no 💀💀💀
@PixiePassions Yup. Employee of the NBA’s Memphis Grizzly swept her off her feet. Not a fan.
@BoomerSpooner - Hahahaha ⚰️
i’ve done parks, in cars, outside a coffee shop, movies, and even taken a stroll around a shopping center
Thank you all for the comments so far
@pixiepassions you rock! I would totally cuddle in a cemetery too I love visiting cemeteries!!
@S0RIYA - Yasssssss! 😍🪦
I think receiving a suggestion to cuddle in a cemetery is the one time ghosting would be appropriate.
@Hugginsworth - Hey, don't knock it until you try it! 🤣 The ones around me are beaaauuutiful. I used to sit under a tree and do my homework in my favorite one back in high school. 😁
Or were you making a funny? Cemetery... Ghost... 👻 Bahahaha
Both. It was hyperbole, but it's not for me. Not because they aren't beautiful, but because they are not intended as parks. shrug
I have cuddled in the movies only ones and when I would suggest it everyone else turns it down. I have cuddled in the back of my SUV when I offered it but now I am selling my SUV.
@SunsetSnuggles I am doing something wrong then because I give everyone my number. It is a google voice number though lol 😂
@RadiantBecca Nothing wrong with that, so long as a booking is made on the site, first. Google Voice is a lifesaver!
@SunsetSnuggles Yes I surely follow the rules 😊 I know it is different from enthusiast and pros.