Does anyone else wish scheduling cuddle sessions were as easy and relaxed as a "U up" text sometimes??
Normally when I have cuddle sessions it's a bit of an event, we chat, we see if the vibe is right and if it is we schedule a sesh. We meet, exchange pleasantries, chitchat then cuddle and have a lovely time then part ways hopeful of a next time, but the next time often plays out in a similar way. Schedules need to be wrangled, life gets in the way, you've got an hour here or there to meet and it's lovely, but it's never really aligned with those times when you just really need to be held. Most of the time it's more like having lunch with a friend you don't know well, it's fun and polite and well mannered, but sometimes that's not what ya really need.
Sometimes ya just need that bestie level cuddle. The kind of cuddle where it doesn't have to be all put together and polite, all smiles and sweetness, cuddles where you can be sad, and real, a show up in your frumpy pj's after business hours and admit life's kicking your @ss and you feel like crying kind of cuddle and it's just understood that that's ok both ways. Where you can just be there for one another cuz life sucks and there's no need to pretend like everything perfect all the time.
And I understand that that level of cuddling can often take time to get to, it is vulnerable to admit that you're hurting and need to be held and I imagine most people wouldn't feel comfortable with doing that with someone they don't know well, and that's valid. But still, admitting you're lonely or just need to be held and that you have that unmet need is kinda the whole point of sites like these, so I can't be the only one... Right? 😅