Who's willing to admit to their worst personality trait?
I’ll be the first to admit my worst personality trait is that I’m very dependent
Hard time admitting fault , among others
Lol, are YOU gonna admit yours? I guess mine is easily irritated. I have a big temper, but rarely act on it, but it's still a big temper. I just remembered, I am not modest either, but for a long time I've thought it's ok to think a lot of yourself as long as you can back it up and I can. How about you @MrC9? BTW, welcome to cc. I wish I lived In LA.
I expect the best out of people and become disappointed and critical very quickly if they don't live up to their word.
@Mecit That may be my worst quality. It's hard for me to accurately judge the worst.
@achetocuddle as somebody who knows and has met you , I have a hard time believing you have a temper
Sure ~ I've been informed by others I have an overwhelming abundance of self depreciation and I'm often asked to repeat myself without using words from the negativity bank.
Aparently expressing the humor one finds in their own shortcomings makes other people feel uncomfortable when done too often (including to me when others do it to themselves... whoops!)
@quixotic_life next time you can’t find good things to say about yourself call me and I’ll say them for you 🤗
Daww... @pmvines 🤗🥰 ~ Thank you!!
I'm disorganized, I say things without regard to the audience (both a pro and con), and I have a temper (try to keep a lid on it).
My worst trait is I see dead people but don’t talk to them. I just don’t like to be ghosted.
Overly sensitive, and forever remembering being offended even if said person doesn't remember offending me. Lol
Easy. Impatient and indecisive.
@Katota Ah so that’s why you be lookin at me sideways !
Definitely impatience, if someone's like 2 minutes late I'll get annoyed as heck.
Also the still unknown trait that makes people disappear rapidly😅
Procrastination😞
I’m not like that at work only outside of work
@pmvines Lol! Only when you snore...😆😆😆
@Pmvines Lol! Besides it is better to side eye you VERSUS you waking up seeing me standing over you like THIS😁:
@pmvines Lol! 😆😆😆
I've lost a few friends because my morals can be strong to the point of triggering me badly when they are crossed, and I can't deal with it when people in my circle cross them. Examples being one night stands, and unsafe/unstable people trying to be sole caregivers of a baby. These sorts of moral conflicts seem to be so triggering to me that I can't work through it or see past it, and that does not go over well with those engaging in said acts.
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Oh boy. Mine is procrastination. 🤦♀️ Especially with adulting things, like making calls to utility or insurance companies. I have to put it on my calendar, prepare what I'm going to say ahead of time, maybe even rehearse it in my head a few times. It gives me such anxiety. Belch. 😭. Good question! 😁
As of last year, I would easily say that I give too much. I have always wanted to make everyone happy and feel hurt when others are unsatisfied. This has led to decades of misuse that only after a recent year long therapy session I realized how I was being taken advantage of even by my own family. I would not just seek but pine for approval in every vapid sense. I would destroy myself when even a single social interaction was less than perfect. I would never spend on myself but rather give fully to others and it lead me to deeper pits of despair. I can't even begin to describe how elated I have been in the past year once I seized back my life. I am still a giver and do the charity work that makes me feel fulfilled, but I am not beholden to exploitative people and protective of my own emotional well being. It still feels weird just simply standing up for what makes you feel comfortable after decades of emotional manipulation, but I can honestly say, I am happier for it.
@lesmis33 I am so proud of you! That is a tremendous change you have managed to make!! 🫂
I suffer from low self-esteem. I tend to be very self-conscious and this can be exhausting for some people. I also have a really hard time opening up and being vulnerable. Sometimes it feels like no one, not even my closest friends know and understand my true self because of this. I've been trying to remedy this through therapy.
Overthinking, probably
@JoyfulHeart Lol! This is me as well, it's something I work on constantly within myself. I just try to find something ELSE to overthink on, before I really lose what marbles I have left. 😄
Stubbornness, I guess
Again, worst is highly subjective, and would usually say my uncanny ability to procrastinate, but despite the procrasticination I somehow manage to pull things through at the last moment - at least so far. So I'd probably say it's my social ineptitude - I don't really know how to make friends all that easily (typical nerd) and don't really know how to chit chat on a superficial level. I prefer deep meaningful discussions about pretty much anything
Internet Rage. Obviously.