Cuddle Inertia

Minestrone101Minestrone101
edited December 2023 in General

Have any of you got so into cuddling that you didn't want to do other activities or grow in other areas of your life? My dancing frequency has been kinda trash since I got into cuddling more.

My options were: spend time holding and squeezing another human or drive far away to move and sweat like a pig to maybe squeeze a human. I should dance more!

Comments

  • SnuggleJohnSnuggleJohn

    Ha ha! Totally! I still go dancing sometimes, but any cuddling opportunity takes priority over dancing. And as cuddling opportunities have increased, some of my dancing friends have begun to notice my inconsistency with dancing.

  • Minestrone101Minestrone101

    @SnuggleJohn Sigh. I feel the pain! fight the power 💪 (from the bed lol).

  • JohnR1972JohnR1972
    edited December 2023

    @Minestrone101
    I went through that phase when I first joined this site. It was intense at first but I have leveled out since then. I would say I am back to normal but I don’t know what “normal” means. Instead I will say after leveling out I am better than I was before I joined this site.

    I have learned some lessons along the way, some pleasant and some painful, some about myself and some about my interactions and communications with others. In particular I’ve learned the importance of paying more attention to what others do vs what they say.

  • NickWkNickWk

    Maybe I didn’t have any hobbies before I tried this. I can see how I would want to cuddle all day every day, but after my first session recently and not having that kind of interaction in so long it has so vastly improved everything else I have done that I am really looking forward to resume all the other activities I’ve been missing.

  • Minestrone101Minestrone101

    @NickWk I'm glad it's making you into a better version of yourself !

  • Vocalist100Vocalist100

    I'll let you know if I ever actually manage a (non-professional) cuddle session.

  • HollydollhugsHollydollhugs

    So I think there should definitely be dance cuddle parties. The best of both worlds. I have managed to get the dancing in, but would definitely be up for a dance cuddle party. Not sure how that would work, lol.

  • Minestrone101Minestrone101
    edited December 2023

    @Hollydollhugs if you ever set it up, I'm down! or maybe we can organize cuddlers to meet at dance conferences/festivals and get the best of both worlds.

  • HollydollhugsHollydollhugs

    @Minestrone101 I am brainstorming on how to make this happen. 🤔

  • Minestrone101Minestrone101
    edited December 2023

    @Hollydollhugs That would be so awesome. Even as a separate event , I know enough to teach basic bachata, Zouk, or kizomba. it would be a fun lesson on consent and boundaries too.

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