Good points there @SunsetSnuggles . Prior to last week I never even knew about such a thing as professional cuddling so it’s all new to me hence I set up my profile not really knowing what to expect or what the expectations of fellow cuddlers would be. I’ll take your observations into consideration.
@JayB5619 Totally legit, and no worries, most people start with a blank profile and take their sweet time filling it in. If you beef yours up, you'll definitely stand out from the pack! Best of luck and I hope you have great experiences, here!
~ Sunset Snuggles
🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover
Right.
Because being young and attractive is the only asset to have worth for touch, cuddling, ECT for an individual.
And unless you're attractive and/or wealthy, you'll never obtain touch or cuddling as a person.
I just threw up in my mouth a little.
This is why cuddling in the community is still treated like a backdoors grey area as a service in the community.
I'm might just deactivate my account for a bit, so tired of this rhetoric.
As someone who is extremely demi, if that's your belief on what you think my worth is as a person because I'm "attractive" and I must be using that as a tool to be not being genuine in my life and approach to the world and those around me, we are not a good fit. I spend enough of my existence to have value outside of my physical self, I don't need it in this community as well.
@sunnysideup ~ I sure am appreciating you this morning!! 🤗
I tried it on this site. There is no market for it.
@MissAdventurous Please don't leave. I have grown rather fond of your daily trivia posts and have found the Christmas series to be especially intriguing! They caused me to pull up some old books in project gutenburg where I researched The Lords and Ladies of Misrule. A rather rancorous lot, but I digress. I too found the whiny misogyny in this thread to be burdensome, but I just want you to know that you do a lot of good for this community and I am saddened that splendid individuals such as yourself are routinely subjected to such drivel.
Geeze we live in a snowflake era where everybody's feelings have to coddled
@MissAdventurous ~ I've been meaning to PM you but... well... Can I just blame my ADHD and not having a specific agenda??
Anywho, your frustration (and that if others here) is so valid. Feeling like if we're just kind, matter of fact, well reasoned, or etc. This time it'll be different. This time those speaking from a place of jaded angst will realize that they need to do some work (inner and/or outer efforts) to get what they want/think they deserve.
But I think sometimes people have a need to live their life full of self-fulfilling prophecies, just so they have some sense of control over their chaos.
Or it could be they actually agree, but get off on being put in their place by strong women?? Which still gives them that sense of control, that they could pull these sorts of responses. Either which way, if that's the case, Wrong site fellas!!
All that said, deactivation is great self-care every once in a while, muting too. And if you'd like to go grab a coffee and go vent into the winds (or do some fun crafts) with me sometime, you know where to find me...
I'm going to send you a PM now in case we both go silent for a night...
@sunnysideup Yup what you wrote is what I see happen a lot. And you guys don't hug females either on your own unless they hug first. And we will hug first lol It is just what usually happens. But just know you are appreciated.
Long distance hug to you!
@SunsetSnuggles
Your idea of a pay wall doesn't exist because the site makes more money this way, not because female Pro's designed the system.
Mustache twirling pros just sitting around in our free time thinking up ways to wreck a peoples expectations from every angle we can. If I had that kinda energy and brain power I'm not sure holding up people on CC for 60$ would be my go to way to spend it.
Edit: I'm not on my phone so the lighthearted laughing emoji's aren't available. Mind reading it that way anyway? lol.
I don't like the idea of paying every month so I can troll the forums without a single cuddle. The current system makes it possible for any guy to get a cuddle.
@stormydaycuddle bahahaha Git 'em, girl!
@Mike403 Yes. And the more guys browse the Pro's for free, the more will book, and the more the site makes, that's all we're saying. The Pro's didn't create this system as the earlier user implied; the site did, for maximum financial gain.
Everyone can stop tagging YiddishSqueeze as he will not be returning to comment further based on his appeal to his timeout.
Poops to that
I am absolutely shocked. YiddishSqueeze seemed like such a well adjusted individual.
@lesmis33 - I hope that was sarcasm. Saying things like the pros are only here to take advantage of men is more like a well trollish individual if not straight up troll.
@Mike403 yes, it was a very sardonic reply. I apologize for not conveying my sarcasm adequately.
@lesmis33 😂
I will never understand why people troll post a banned member when they disapproved of their comments and personal attacks when they were around. They are gone, no sense in adopting their style.
@MissAdventurous Ya' know? I'm really glad you're part of this community! You're the real deal in my book.
@SunsetSnuggles Patrolling the streets this fine day.... howdy. y'all have a good day, ya hear?
@Minestrone101 🤪
@MissAdventurous Please don’t deactivate, the rhetoric you described is indeed shallow and disgusting but not all people think like that. The upset people just whine the loudest.
@SunsetSnuggles Right, and the other 9 people aren’t worth cuddling so they may as well not even count as cuddle opportunities
@quixotic_life Oh thanks good to hear from you!
@Amortentia Yes, as a guy I’ve been socialized to believe that women are terrified of men in general so I don’t go out of my way to touch any woman other than women I’ve known for a long time. Even if I’ve been friends for a while with a woman I still don’t feel that comfortable hugging them but when they come up to me that kind of dissolved the apprehension I might have had
@sunnysideup Just because some guys aren't platonic or good communicators doesn't mean they aren't worth cuddling, just means they won't be a good fit for a lot of us girls who have certain ways of going about things. I do believe that most people are worthy of snuggles and would certainly benefit from platonic cuddling, if they were down for it.
@SunsetSnuggles I have a glasses restriction and I'm always worried I will get questioned. I've never been pulled over (knock on wood and pray to the universe that it doesn't happen) but it still scares me. I always wear my glasses and am a paranoid rule follower (I think that's been established haha)
@stormydaycuddle 🤭 Aww!
@stormydaycuddle
Same reason why men pay for drinks lol.
It would require too much of a cultural shift. People seem to spend their whole lives undoing what happened to them during the first ten years. That includes cultural indoctrination. We do seem to be inching toward a more visionary cultural set of circumstances and at the same time, blowback. There's resistance toward change especially when change is taking place. It will happen, that's inevitable, but when? I can't tell you that.
@PeopleLikeUs posted: "People seem to spend their whole lives undoing what happened to them during the first ten years."
Oof, that cut deep. So true.