What are the rules between something sexual happening between two Enthusiast? If it happens naturally, and was not the intention when they met on the website? Is it still against the rules?
Has anybody met their partner/significant other on here?
No unless she reports you. I advise you to keep it platonic.
No one should be using the site to hook up. If people meet on the site and a relationship develops and neither is a pro, I don’t think that would have anything to do with the site unless they were using it to flirt or something. Though if something happens that is non-consensual between enthusiasts hopefully they report to help keep the community on here safe.
@CharlieBear You are the perfect ambassador to this site. You’re always spot on!
@Mike403 Report me for what? I was asking because she wanted to do more and seems to be looking for a relationship. I'm not so I declined. But if I was, I wanted to know if it's against the rules.
We had a great platonic cuddle session. But I feel like she's looking for more (not necessarily sexual. Just more) and honestly I wasn't even searching for enthusiast. I just didn't check the "pros only" on my search and messaged her before I realized it.
@CharlieBear Thanks for the clarification. And I hope that is anything non-consensual happens between anybody on the site that they reported to the site and the authorities. Even if it's something as minor as a nonconsensual kiss on the cheek.
We are people not robots. Sometimes things organically evolve and dynamics and circumstances change. That being said , this is not a dating site so the intent of meeting people on here is not the same as that of a dating site. As @CharlieBear said , if two people meet and a relationship develops then that is separate from the site and has moved on to your own perosnal lives and bubbles which reach far beyond any interwebs site . Nobody, including CC, wants to be big brother and tell people how to live their lives. But don't go actively seeking that thing out here because you will be barking up the wrong tree.
This is also touched on in the FAQ on the forums.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/4232/frequently-asked-questions/p1
I am gonna play it safe and lock this because I don’t want it to turn into what I suspect it will, though if another mod sees this and wants to unlock it, feel free.