Can anyone recommend a book, pamphlet of the many cuddle positions & their names?
@Vin909 the only one I know of is the Cuddle Sutra. It's not great, but it's better than nothing. It's pretty widely available if you search for it.
Some cuddle professionals bring a copy to sessions, so that inexperienced clients can have a look at it and see what attracts them. Not all professionals will do all positions, and some positions may not be suitable for the first session or two. Some positions require two people of the right proportions and may not be practical with every pair of people. Cuddle positions only work if both people are truly comfortable with them.
moving to general chat
VERY cool helicopter @Vin909 😊🌼💛
Here is a link. It’s a great little book and tons of helpful ideas and thought processes.
Thank you for having such a fabulous and thoughtful profile. The Eagle Scout always be prepared motto seems extremely applicable.
https://uonlgbt.weebly.com/uploads/1/2/3/1/12319249/35078612-the-cuddle-sutra.pdf
As always @CuddleDuncan does an amazing job with info AND insight!!
For my next cuddle sesh, I am planning to attempt this cuddle position with my partner.😊 As I did text and shared this pic with him to ask his opinion on it first.👍
It's called 🐝🦵THE BEES KNEES🐝🦵, such a cute name😁, it's pretty basic and involves laying on your sides, with bended knees and leaning each other's heads against each other's knees. To ME, it reminded me of the yin-yang ☯ symbol. Lol!😁
So I WAS calling it "the yin-yang" 😜 until I read up on it more and saw it is called "The Bees Knees"...Which is even cuter and better!😁👍
@Katota last time I posted that cuddle position it was immediately flagged and reported I guess the idea behind it was that it was for romantic couples🤷🏻♂️
@lonelytauros it's a well known cuddle position. It's called "67"
I think in this photo the face is more on the side of the thigh instead of right up in the buttcrack
instead of right up in the buttcrack
Are you saying dogs would be banned on this site? Fido is banned for sniffing boundaries.
@jplemmon in all fairness that one was part of several that were taken down but this one specifically was also part of the offenders. It’s the same thing when you posted that spider meme and then sunset posted the same exact meme and hers was taken down and yours wasn’t…so yeah
@Katota
Just to be sure...
@lonelytauros Oh was it?🤔
Well I didn't think it offensive, but if the Mods wish to delete it they can. I have never cuddled in a way as "The Bees Knees" before, as it looked different (and again CUTE🥰) to me. The site that I found this on claimed it to be one of many ways to cuddle platonically speaking.😊
However, as I have said I found it to be cute but if the Mods find such a position to be not part of Cuddle Comfort position standards then they can delete it. I won't dispute it, I'll take it as a lesson learned here.😊
@jplemmon Yes! Exactly, that's how I'm seeing it except I see head on the knee.😊 Then again, I reckon different body heights will play a factor in where one's knees and head-leaning can end up too...🤔
Definitely no buttcrack here in the pic!🤚🤨
Lol! If this position turns into a total loss, whether on my end or my partner's end, at least we can have a good laugh about it!😆😁
@Sooson Lol!😆 Stop it! No. No! Smh...😌😏
@TxTom Lol!😆 Thank you, I think I'll be fine. We're not gonna fall asleep this way, so we'll be fine Tom. 👍
@Katota the head position should be ideal for avoiding the passing of gas
@jplemmon I agree. But just in case...😉😄
I can always try one of these too...😁
Ya see, it TAKES THE BAD PART OUT of farting. Lol! 😄
Make Farting Great Again
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Bwahahahah....carbon filters
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@Katota I totally agree with you. I think it’s totally platonic and it’s one of my most requested cuddle positions from my cuddlers but ever since it was taken down I had to remove it from my repertoire because you know I’m all about the platonic cuddles. 😇
@lonelytauros Why thank you, and so am I.😊 That is why I ASKED (as well as shared the pic) with this particular cuddle partner (seeing as he has been the MOST reliable and communicating cuddle partner for me lately) about it and to hear his thoughts about it. His response was positive and willing to give The Bees' Knees a shot.👍
Obviously I have gotten comfortable (friend wise and cuddle wise this past year) with this partner enough to start "requesting cuddle positions" now.😁
I OBVIOUSLY WOULD NOT DO The Bees' Knees position with a NEW cuddle partner, until I have gotten really comfortable (and vice versa on his part) with said new cuddle partner first. 😑😊
I'm sorry your pic was taken down, like I said if mine gets taken down for the same reason you mentioned then I'll know not to mention that position again here on CC.👍
@lonelytauros Hell, I may not be able to do it...LOL!😄 I mean look the lady in the pic is WAY smaller then me, with her HEALTHY BENDY KNEES HAVING SELF! LOL! 😄😁
SHE "TEASES" ME WITH HER KNEES,TAUROS!😄
LOL! I'm getting silly with self esteem problems and cuddle night hasn't even happened yet.🤦♀️😆
@Katota you’ve got nothing to worry about! You’re a natural when it comes to cuddling! You can always improvise! You got this!
Oh how this derailed to farts haha
@BashfulLoner better to just address the elephant in the room lol
Someone mentioned "cuddle night." What is that? And more generally, is there a forum for group events?
@lonelytauros Lol! You're right, Coach!😄👍
I can do this, and if my bad knee starts acting up then I'll just switch over to my good knee. Lol! Love the pep talk, thanks a bunch!🤗
@BashfulLoner Lol! You can blame @TxTom for the fart derailing.😆
Honestly it could have derailed in far worse direction, so I'm not complaining.😄 Lol! It really has been a fun, positive, informing, uplifting and YES gas passing thread. Lol!😆 I really did enjoy participating in it indeed.😁
@lonelytauros Oh hey, I'm now noticing in the pic they're clasping each other's hands like they're "kinda holding each other in place"...Huh? I didn't notice that before. 😯😁
That is too cool, can't wait to try it out!😃 Yay!🤗
@jplemmon Elephant? Or elephant farts?
Lol! 😄😃😀