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@lonelytauros Lol!😁 I was gonna go with The Beetles until I saw Thing getting his hand holding on. Glad someone thought of including The Beetles in this thread...😁👍
Hand Holding has a totally differentt meaning when we talk about it here at work
One of my favorite ways to ask someone if it’s okay to make initial contact is “can I hold your hand” 🙏🏼😌
Some hands weren’t made for holding.
@BoomSpooner OMG! Scary, but I bet that poor woman could REALLY use a cuddle.
@HarleyGirlKate Lol!😁 Nah Furiosa isn't much of cuddler in a "traditional sense".😜 If one decides to cuddle with Furiosa, expect "cuddle positions" such as THIS⬇️:
And THIS⬇️: Yeah that's good cuddling right there!😄 On the plus side I am SO LOOKING FORWARD to checking her out again (in Mad Max Saga: Furiosa) coming up in May.😁👍
@BoomerSpooner Lol! Oh stop it, you know you wanna hold her hand.😄😜
You guys are wild for thinking handholding is somehow crossing a line. Handholding can be a huge part of cuddling, nothing creepy or sexual about it. Yes, consent is a big thing, as it is with any aspect of cuddling, including putting an arm around someone.
@Katota hey you aren't allowed to post bondage fetish material 🤣
@jplemmon i think you’re forgetting that @Katota is dangerous lol 😂
@lonelytauros if I get taken out, it should be from @Katota ... hopefully it would be quick and painless lol
@wilderdude
Wow. I don't know what "wild" means to you but it feels a little bit like you are trying to say it is unreasonable for people to have boundaries or opinions that are different from your own. I'm going to use a different word and say that feels a little bit MYOPIC.
You guys are wild for thinking handholding is somehow crossing a line.
I have come across a LOT of people that do not enjoy handholding for a multitude of reasons. Please don't deny anyone their experience just because you have a point of view that cannot relate.
"Crossing a line" doesn't have to be creepy or sexual.... it is JUST THEIR LINE. It is about having respect for someone who is willing to be honest about their opinions. Even if yours are different.
Wild notion indeed. This is why there are thousands of threads that talk about how people feel when someone doesn't respect their words.
@lonelytauros @jplemmon This is how dangerous I am! 😊 Come at me, bros!😄
@Katota
@lonelytauros 😁
I haven’t held hands with anyone (except a child) in forever. It makes me think of a first date when really young. Before making out. lol. Young and innocent Imagining it now, I think of sweaty clammy hands and that doesn’t sound good to me at all.
I have come across a LOT of people that do not enjoy handholding for a multitude of reasons.
So the New Modern Orthodoxy now has hand holding slated for the chopping block along with an increasing number of vocabulary words. The list of Verboten! items gets longer by the minute.
Why is the default position now that holding hands is crossing boundaries?
(No need to answer that, I already know. That was a rhetorical question.)
How about the default position be that two or more consenting adults are capable of discussing personal boundaries before the cuddling commences.
@Katota I don't know karate but I know kar-azy 🤣