@pmvines ~ 🥰🤗
Biggest difference is the type and amount of whining men do about them
@pmvines Yep.👍
Notice Whining exhibit A⬇️:
@Kense Pros respond non pros don’t.
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@Katota Perhaps you should get a dictionary and look up the definition of whining. Not sure what you’re rolling your eyes about with that comment but it’s a fact. Non Pro’s rarely if ever respond due to the amount of messages they get. You on the other hand seem to whine a lot especially about people in relationships who cuddle.
Perhaps you should get a dictionary and look up the definition of whining
@Kense Lol! You first, cuz that's the tone of your comment: Whiny! 😁
but it’s a fact
No, that's just what YOU HAVE BEEN EXPERIENCING (when messaging Enthusiasts) here on Cuddle Comfort. As a non pro, I DO put in effort to respond back to any messages that pop up in my inbox. Of course, there are Dudebros who "expect" me to respond back "within minutes" to their messages...Lol!😄 Sorry (not sorry)to disappoint them but I DO have a life outside of the internet. So, I can't help they lack patience and chose to delete their accounts in the end just cuz I didn't "quickly respond" back fast enough.🤷♀️
Your experience doesn't equate to fact.
Also as an Enthusiast, I don't get as many messages as you "think".🙄😏
And I'm cool with that, as I enjoy the socializing more and more here on CC anyway.😁👍
You on the other hand seem to whine a lot especially about people in relationships who cuddle.
Lol!😆
I do indeed, when married/attached cuddlers aren't HONEST with their spouses/partners about cuddling with others outside their marriage/relationships. Lol!😁 Yeah, I reckon do whine about that and I'm happy to NOT be the only one who does whine about dishonest spouses LYING to their partners (as well to themselves). 😌
Just an FYI I’m not reading all that. I never said it was my experience. I made a statement based on what nearly everyone on here has confirmed since I’ve been here which is a lot longer than you. You’re acting like you represent and speak for every enthusiast.. It’s a fact , Non pro’s hardly if ever respond.
Non pros don’t answer your massages 🤡
Nope. We're not doing this. See ya in a week [netrunner]
I mean ,non pros answer my messages all the time I don't see what the issue is. Maybe they aren't the problem ...
I made a statement , I never said anything was an issue with me or an issue at all. This is about the differences between pro’s and non pros. How many threads have been on here that people say Non pro’s hardly ever respond. Pro’s respond more because they are getting paid.
There’s a reason I hardly participate in the forums here. It’s full of wanna be comedians and a high school let’s attack the guy who doesn’t post much vibe. I made a simple statement that wasn’t rude or complaining and get hit with eye rolls and clown emojis. I’m not going to sit back and not say anything. There are more threads about people not responding to their outreach than boner threads.
@Kense not gaining up or attacking you . Many of the very people who are vocal about nobody messaging them or wanting to cuddle have profiles like yours . That might be part of the issue . It might be a fact that non pros could possibly be more selective about who they choose to spend their time and energy on , but blank profiles and no pics don't help that cause one bit. That's not an attack , it's just the truth. Either heed advice of so many people in thread after thread after thread , or don't. You have options of hiring a pro either way, which is great option to have for so many on the site who need cuddles. No hate from me or judgment . Just my thoughts on the matter .
@Kense I hardly ever respond to "wanna cuddle" messages here because they rarely follow my guidelines--that they would know if they actually read my profile. It's on me to adhere to the boundaries I set forth, which means the IGNORE IGNORE DELETE cha-cha! If I don't, I'm inviting disrespect. Money isn't my motivator, I more enjoy chatting via DM or on the threads.
I am a pro cuddler but I have a degree in social work and experience as a certified energy healer. I believe though that most men on here pick cuddlers off how they look. I will say that I put a lot of effort into looking like I do and I have to deprive myself carbs That should be worth a nickel lol
@pty1999
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@kense i see what you see. My experience is that the majority of enthusiasts do not respond for whatever reason, but a lot do. It may be my profile or the tone in my "hello". Most i suspect that are in the forums probably do engage.
I suspect in my area of the world is enthusiasts are the ones who haven't figured out how to go pro. I do understand that's not everyone. But i for one would probably go pro if i thought i could make 20 or 30 dollars after expenses, but i haven't seen that as a possibility for me. So im just in the forums enjoying the conversation and learning perspectives until a back and for about nothing important happens.
@warm_embrace Thank you
I’ve had dozens of sessions , I only contact Pro’s . Ironically when new here I did reach out to an enthusiast and we had good conversation then she asked for a deposit . Shortly after she was banned so I stopped wasting my time with that.
My profile is basic because of the line of work I do. I deal with Federal BOP, ICE and Other Law Enforcement. I have a high stress dangerous career which is why I cuddle. With that said I’ve always received a response from pro’s I’ve reached out to. My profile doesn’t limit my interactions.
A good non pro friend gave her take on non pros not responding. She said "if you put in some effort to get to know people instead of just expecting results your outcomes might be different ". I believe this is probably how a lot of non pros on here feel. You get what you give.
Regarding the pros vs non-pros debate, and only speaking from personal experience, non-pros seem to not respond more often than pros. Although I've had maybe 10% of non-pros I've contacted actually write back, they usually end up doing so with a simple "Hello" or such, and when I finally read the message a day or two later, they've already been banned (looking at my messages received, all but one of those that did NOT turn pro were subsequently banned that quickly for some reason). It's gotten to the point that I don't really message anyone other than new people in my area anymore (which turns out about one every month or so). The Chicago suburbs seems to have a dearth of enthusiasts.
"if you put in some effort to get to know people instead of just expecting results your outcomes might be different "
@Pmvines THAT'S a good take!😁👍
It’s full of wanna be comedians
Actually, I resent that comment. @lonelytauros @Sooson @CaptainChaos are perfectly legit comedians!
@SunsetSnuggles
"Most established Pro's require a video chat, before booking."
I don't think that's actually true. Some of them require a video chat. However, I have never done a video chat with a pro prior to a session. I have done phone conversations prior to a session, as well as an in-person meet-and-greet prior to the actual session. But never a video chat.
@MountainCuddles I have booked tons of pros and enthusiasts and have yet to do a video chat either. Don’t know where people get their information from.
Same,not even once. .
There is no difference no training. Most seem to be just a money grab as evidenced by ever increasing hourly rates as the site grows...
@Mulder35 I have some words for you from a moderator’s perspective, but I’ll just say I reach out to pros and enthusiasts in a completely platonic way and I have never encountered what you are claiming. Yes sadly some people are here to scam and we are doing what we can to remove them from the site, but they do not represent “most” pros here.