@lonelytauros ๐๐๐Oh definitely check that Playlist and runaway fast if you see THIS SONGโฌ๏ธon their playlist:
Katota dances FROM the corner ๐๐
@lonelytauros Lol! Not to mention THIS SONG RIGHT HEREโฌ๏ธโฌ๏ธโฌ๏ธ, don't even think about the "good side of them as a person"...Lol!๐ Nope just keep on running if ever you see THIS SONGโฌ๏ธ appear on their playlist. Major MAJOR RED FLAG!๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ
Katota doing the cabbage patch ๐๐๐
@Katota there might be something wrong with me, but when I heard those songs, I started dancing like this! ๐
@lonelytauros
Lol! ๐ It's all gravy, I'll join you while dancing like this guy. ๐๐
Honestly, he does a better cabbage patch then me.๐๐
Of course I can always get my "bashful serious" dance on like this lady canโฌ๏ธ. ๐๐๐
Ghosting is fine. Blocking is fine. Booking is fine. Looking is fine. Canceling is fine. Having a good cuddle is fine. Having a bad cuddle is fine. Cuddling for money, for free, paying or not, deposit or none, its all fine.
Treating another person like you are better or busier or more important or even above them. Well that's not fine.
Part of the responsibility of being on this site and the internet as well as earth yes the planet not the link (๐ 2000's joke) is doing the first part infinite-ly while the second part is finite as often as possible.
With all this still people have the right to reserve the feelings they want. So in order to understand this clear and precise communication is important. Ghosting is a reflection of the decline in communication skills.........
With that I shall digress for the good of the for-um ill-u-me-ay-naughty strategies.
I have ghosted one person on here. We booked a session, he asked if he could call to finalize plans, I said he could but I was meeting a friend in a few minutes, he said that was okay then called. When I told him I had to go because I just arrived at my friend's and was now with them, he wouldn't stop questioning me. I answered a question in a way he didn't like and he started screaming at me. So I said "I have to go" hung up and never spoke to him again.
@hey_nikky I think that ghosting people who are crazy doesnโt even count as ghosting, because ghosting is the only correct option when dealing with these types of people.
Weโve all been ghosted before when we havenโt done done anything wrong and it sucks. Iโm not sure how pros can totally avoid it other than requiring deposit so atleast you have something or doing a short video call to get. A sense of how serious the other person is about booking a session
@sunnysideup oh, my friend was immediately like "please do not do a session with him. He sounds abusive"
@hey_nikky I think thatโs more of having a good boundary of how people can treat you. He did an action, and you wonโt stand for it.
@hey_nikky who cancelled the session? You or him? Did you write in the reason?
@starrynitecuds he did. He put the excuse as "work schedule changed" but then continued to text me about it for a few days
This happens to me so much, at this point I feel like oh wells in this world many of us are ghosted until we become ghosts. Its their loss, and its them that are lost. All we can do is pray for them to be found