@SunsetSnuggles yes that is very true, there can be shady characters regardless of where you’re at. I will definitely double check on hosting locations no matter where I’m at. This is kind of off topic but I had a session recently where the pro hosted at a very nice hotel. I am in a company vehicle though and we are not allowed to park our company vehicles in parking structures. I had to walk a mile, not that I couldn’t use the walk or anything. Just saying.
@Morpheus
Meanwhile here's me, puttering nearly 500 miles to most of my cuddles. 😆
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I'd likely never actually want to cuddle indoors. Though I accidently selected the wrong option. I think I would mind if I were to be hosted and vice versa.
Though I'm not yet familiar with it actually. So I don't know what the 3 starts entail. Is it issues with the place/people, area, etc., or just because it doesn't have fancy stuff?
If it's just the latter, then I don't think I'd really mind.
1-2 star hotels typically have doors that lead outside from the bedroom. 3 star hotels have doors that lead to an indoor hallway. 4-5 are like 3 star hotels but they have other services like valet, indoor bar, restaurant, spa etc.
@SunsetSnuggles in my defense, I was in my service area 😊
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@SunsetSnuggles But do you proclaim it or simply declare it? 🦜
@Minestrone101
"1-2 star hotels typically have doors that lead outside from the bedroom."
Oh, I think I've seen that with motels.
"3 star hotels have doors that lead to an indoor hallway. 4-5 are like 3 star hotels but they have other services like valet, indoor bar, restaurant, spa etc."
I'm not really sure, I think it just depends on which I'd feel safer at if I was to ever stay in any. Though if I'm also with someone I trust, then that could help me feel safer. I'd also be considering the location/area, and security camera situations.
I might prefer 3/5 star hotels though. I'm not really big on house type structures. Because I prefer a bit more community feel and overall safer enclosures when considering a place to stay. Like knowing I'll run into neighbors when I'm taking the elevator, etc.
Depending on the weather also being somewhere, especially considering my disability, that I can move around more in like going down stairs or out to the lobby feels better for me. Having easy access to restaurants in that situation may also be super helpful. Then I'd have my ride pick me up to go whereever I need to go after my stay. Because if it's snowing, I can't really step outside to take a little stroll. So that other setting would provide me more range of movements.
I've totally done this 🤷♀️🤪
As long as the roaches and bed bugs are at a minimum.
I prefer to host in an Airbnb, far away from downtown.
@Mike403 pretty much every hotel, even the highest end ones, have bed bugs at some point, and it has nothing to do with the quality of the location. Mid-sized and higher end hotels are actually more likely to have had them recently as they get more international travellers and have more pressure to sell all rooms even if some have not been fully cleared.
Bed bug infestations were super obnoxious to deal with.
Guests would bring them in, they infest the mattress, and the whole room has to be fumigated for several days in cycles as the eggs are really resilient. The fastest fix was to replace the whole damn mattress and box spring, but that would get crazy expensive really fast and didn't even guarantee as all it takes is a single female bug to reinfest.
What made things even more maddening was the number of people who would make false claims of bedbug bites to get free stays, etc. They'd get mosquito or gnat bites outside and then post all over review sites that they got bit by bed bugs - which have a very distinctive bite pattern. We'd inspect rooms daily so it was really easy to verify if they were lying, so we'd ask them to have a doctor verify their diagnosis and they'd all of a sudden disappear 😂
We also had people make claims to get refunds/discounts for bed bugs when we could definitively prove they were the ones that infested the room. Unfortunately the credit card companies often prioritized keeping their long-term clients over the hotels' reputation and truth. 🙄
< 3 star absolutely not. I mean you are inviting some one to have mutually good time why would you do that at such a place.
I would rather avoid one cuddle and put the money towards the better hotel. That’s just me, I think it’s also respecting someone you invite to give them a comfortable feeling.
I like hotels though generally stay at better known ones and I will not visit a cuddlers home or residence. I find hotels safer for both parties, the visitors knows the hotel has their id and personal information. There is security and cameras. It also allows for a public meeting space in the lobby or coffee shop pre cuddling too to get to know one another. I have even given a pro the money owed and chosen not to cuddle because it was not a match while in the lobby.
lol just for future readers to know, the dude who made this thread got banned for very blatantly bragging about how he had sex with a pro 🙄🙄🙄
This is why we don’t trust y’all
Like I said earlier . If someone doesn't trust you and feel comfortable with you , they're not going to be likely to meet you regardless of location . However , If they trust you and feel comfortable with you, then they will more than likely meet you regardless of location . It's about comfort level and safety with you and actually wanting to spend time together . If you're focusing on what amenities the place has , then you're being superficial and are focusing on the wrong things
@bobadevotee To be fair, this one was pretty obviously a predator, asking that question. It's basically "how much do I need to spend to make her starry-eyed and willing."
Maybe a dumb question, but if you see a pro at a hotel, are you expected to pay more than what the visiting fee on there profile? Like extra to split the cost of the hotel or is that already included?
@team_cuddle It should be discussed and agreed upon before. If I were a client, I’d be leery if I showed up and they wanted more money.
@CuddleHugs01234 Ty for your response. Yes, just trying to make sure there are no surprises and no time wasted
@team_cuddle You are welcome!