Does the older person have to pay the younger person?

acoolerclimateacoolerclimate
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Recently, a much younger person contacted me to cuddle with them. Neither of us are listed as Pro's. We talked about cuddling, and how we both like it and need it. He asked if I would visit him to cuddle. I agreed, and I was clear about my age. Well, then he asked me to pay him. I was surprised. He said that is how it works here. The older person pays the younger. Is that true? We both are getting a cuddle, and there is no sex. Why would the older have to pay the younger? Am I being stupid or naive? This has really put me off of this app.....

Comments

  • Mike403Mike403

    Lol. He's full of it. Report him. Nobody who isn't a pro should be asking for money.

  • Katelyn_BKatelyn_B
    edited April 2024

    Mike is right. Age has nothing to do with it here, at least so far as the rules of the site goes. Only people marked as "Professional" in their profiles should be asking for money to cuddle through this app.

    I've cuddled multiple people through CC, and I've paid the pros and not paid the "enthusiasts."

  • TxTomTxTom
    edited April 2024

    Faux Pros are illegal here.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    He's a scammer. Report him

    Don't let this experience put you off. There are a lot of nice people here. But this is the big bad world and when you are new you are targetted by nefarious people. The mods are very good at weeding them out and banning them, but they have to be Reported first.

    The mods always say, if in doubt - Report.

  • DWill3957DWill3957

    There are a lot of people that have a false view of how this site really works. If they aren’t listed as a pro they shouldn’t be charging you. I have somewhat of a similar experience. Several females on her don’t list as a pro but just reading their bio you know they intend to charge and once you start talking they make it clear that they do charge.

  • SoosonSooson

    @DWill3957 oh trust me they know exactly how it works.

  • sillysassysillysassy

    @acoolerclimate I was going to say "welcome to the site" but you are not new! You are kind of an OG around these parts.

    I'm suprised this hasn't ever happened to you before honestly. There are a LOT of people who are here for nefarious reasons. So glad this is a first experience for you.

    I will echo what everyone else has mentioned. Report it. They need to become a Pro if they want to charge or get banned if they are just trying to take advantage of people. I would love love love to see people consistently getting reported so the community can continue in a beautiful way.

  • DWill3957DWill3957

    @Sooson honestly that makes it worse

  • SoosonSooson

    @DWill3957 100% sir. And it will stop happening when Pigs fly.

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    No age is not a factor, only pros are allowed to charge and have a pink P, on the profile.

  • CharlieBearCharlieBear Mod

    Please report them as an untagged pro. If they do not have the Professional tag on their profile and are still trying to charge, they are most likely intentionally trying to avoid paying the fee the site charges. It also puts you at more risk of getting scammed.

  • KatotaKatota

    Definitely report that person, age has nothing to do with well...Nothing!🤷‍♀️😌

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Young Sheldon strikes again.

  • pmvinespmvines

    No ,but you do have to pay per pound just like at the deli

  • Sunrise_SnuggleSunrise_Snuggle

    Age has nothing to do with it. They are an untagged pro. Report them.

  • [Deleted User]zerogone40 (deleted user)

    Thank you everyone. This conversation was really enlightening. I’m new in here so it’s always handy to pick up little life hacks like this. :)

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    Omg, if that were the case here. I owe people a lot of $$$$$$$$$
    I read a lot of strange things here, but that has got to be the weirdest. So sorry you ran into one of those!

  • LadyVelLadyVel
    edited May 2024

    Definately not. Also, as others have said, if someone is not a pro, they can not charge.

    "Older person paying the younger person" sounds like something else I've heard of but that isn't related to this site or cuddling.

  • KatotaKatota

    @Pmvines 😄😄😄

  • TheMidnightOwlTheMidnightOwl
    edited May 2024

    @acoolerclimate
    Nope. Should anyone be paying any other non-pro-accounted person, regardless of any other characteristics? Also nope. Like everyone has said, report the scammer, please.

  • RedFox16RedFox16

    Sorry that happened to you @acoolerclimate .... that gives the icks, big time! 🤢 And I agree that sort of thing would definitely put me off too!

    Hope you are able to try again tho since you've been on here awhile 😎 Good luck! 🍀🤞🤗

  • MonkeyNeedsAHugMonkeyNeedsAHug
    edited May 2024


    The younger pays the older, obviously.

  • Katelyn_BKatelyn_B

    The younger pays the older, obviously.

    I would absolutely pay to cuddle with someone who is 100 if they were willing to share stories about their life with me.

    @MonkeyNeedsAHug Enjoyed reading your profile; it made me smile. 😄

  • SnuggleMuffin95SnuggleMuffin95

    Love from Ohio <3
    I feel the age thing shouldnt matter, I'd of spoke about it prior to going. I'm a pro, and I just wouldn't do it if someone wasn't a pro.you got to protect yourself, I met with someone and I didn't ask for the money upfront and because I wouldn't sleep with him he man handled me, then I went to restroom to cool off because he litterly was told to get off me three times, two hrs into a session he up an leaves, so at least he didn't up an leave ya. Like my awful ses went. I wish u the best of luck moving forward,

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