Guest or Host?!

Do you like being a guest or host? Do you like to cuddle in public or in a car? Where do you prefer to cuddle at?

  1. Host or Guest62 votes
    1. Host
      40.32%
    2. Guest
      59.68%

Comments

  • Everyone's profile lists their preference.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

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  • To answer your question more thoroughly… Although some people do have their preferences on their profile, it’s still a good question to ask.

    When I hosted, it had some advantages. I felt safe in my own environment. I also put a lot of trust into people I met on a website, so I guess them knowing my personal address could have potentially been a disadvantage.

    To me, I have gotten used to being the guest and I really enjoy it. I prefer the hotel cuddles the most just due to the many cameras as well as many people around.

    I think once I have my own place again, I’d still choose to be a guest.

  • [Deleted User]MaverickLegend (deleted user)

    I usually like to be a host or guest at the beach or a pool without socks

  • I prefer being a guest as its easier. I can't host where I live but I'm always happy to host at a hotel if necessary.

  • edited May 2024

    I think being a Host, for men, means an added cost of $65 to $140 in SE Michigan.
    In addition to a hotel cost, there is the problem of check-in time typically being 3 pm.

    If I schedule a cuddle to start between 11 am and 1:30 pm, on some occasions I have had to cancel with as little as 30 minutes notice because no room is ready. On the plus side, motels/hotels guarantee clean sheets, no pet hair, and a degree of safety and anonymity.

  • It depends on the location. I’m glad to be a guest in areas that I’m familiar/comfortable with, but not so much in places that I’m not. Then again a hotel is usually a safe place so I will make exceptions. As far as hosting goes, I will do it in cases where I would like to meet someone that can’t host. Never have in a car though, which sounds interesting lol

  • I cuddle in my house on my bed. I was a guest once and it was fun but time consuming. I’ll never forget her water bed tho

  • I exclusively host. I find it easier to manage.

  • [Deleted User]DulceLuna (deleted user)

    I'm good with either one! ☺️

  • edited May 2024

    I’ve only had one where I went to her house and it was farrrr.

    I certainly can’t speak for women, but my guess is is that they generally prefer to be a guest because they can always leave, as opposed to having someone come over to their house and that person knowing where they live.

    I enjoy hosting, too.

  • I prefer hosting.. I feel there's an added risk that comes with hosting but since I live in a gated apartment community I also feel that reduces the risks greatly. I am so uneasy at a hotel and very nervous going to someone else's house.

  • @LionsFan posted: "I think being a Host, for men, means an added cost of $65 to $140 in SE Michigan.
    In addition to a hotel cost, there is the problem of..."

    Only if they have some reason not to host at their house...like a uninformed significant other.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

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