Ambiance Accouterments

[Deleted User]Walker99 (deleted user)
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So I may be hosting a cuddle session (male client hosting a female pro) for the first time sometime soon. The few pros I've cuddled with have all had various accessories to provide some ambiance: light projectors, candles, scent diffusers, etc. Since I'll be hosting should I do the same? Light projectors are fairly inexpensive and I have a few LED candles around someplace.

Pros: would you expect a client who's hosting to set up the environment or do you bring your own accessories that you set up before the session starts?

Comments

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    The only thing you need to provide is a clean, safe cuddle space. I'm sure anything on top of that would be appreciated, but you're paying for the cuddle, so it's about your preferences and enjoyment. 😊

    I've not heard of Pro's bringing anything to a hosted cuddle, and would not expect them to.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

  • Sheena123Sheena123

    As long as the space is clean, I don’t have a preference. Sometimes, I ask if I can bring my stuff to set up. I have a galaxy light projector, a kitty squish light, a 24 pack of flameless candles, and incense if my cuddler likes it 😁 I have a few cuddlers that have their room set up with cool ambience lighting and the air conditioner and a lamp that looks like a flickering candle. And some even have water and snacks at the bed side table lol
    It’s whatever you like 👍🏻
    One of my pics on my profile shows what I make my room look like

  • jillyainjillyain

    I am a pro and I host most of the time - but The few times I’ve gone to someone else’s home, it has been a nice clean space with a comfy clean bed and that is all I ask for or expect-
    😊

  • MeltMyWayMeltMyWay

    Hi Pro here … it’s so thoughtful of you to inquire but honestly … the accessories are more about setting a mood for our clients to relax and enjoy their cuddle experience. I’m sure it would be appreciated and not in the least bit expected. If it makes a better experience for you … that’s what I as a pro would be more concentrated on.

  • MeltMyWayMeltMyWay

    I do really appreciate good background music and I do expect clean bedding

  • Katelyn_BKatelyn_B
    edited May 2024

    You are very thoughtful to ask. I agree with the other commenters--a clean space is all I'd look for as a pro and the same back when I was an enthusiast. 🙂

    @Sheena123: The pictures of your hosting space is beautiful.

  • PinkMalloPinkMallo

    Pro here. 100% agree that all I expect is a clean space and clean bedding. A light source which is not directly overhead and not operating room bright is also great.

    Too- if you have any 'adult toys' - especially any restraints lying around - fully expect your pro will walk out. I wouldn't worry about water or snacks, it is thoughtful but I would never ingest anything provided by someone else.

    Whatever music you enjoy is great, or most pros have a Playlist or two for cuddling. 😊

  • Sheena123Sheena123

    @HarleyGirlKate aww thank you!!! 🌸

  • [Deleted User]Walker99 (deleted user)

    Thanks everyone for the input. I'll try not to overthink it!

    @PinkMallo I guess that means I should keep my samurai sword collection out of sight! ;)

  • PinkMalloPinkMallo

    Lol!! Swords on walls, not a problem. A rack of whips and gags... yea, I ran. 😂😂😳😬

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    @Walker99

    samurai sword

    👀🫢😳

  • [Deleted User]Walker99 (deleted user)

    @Morpheus it's a joke!

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    What?! No bad@ss sword collection? I'm out!

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

  • pmvinespmvines

    @PinkMallo
    Whips and gags can be good ambiance just maybe not for platonic cuddling

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @PinkMallo @pmvines
    To quote Rihanna...

    🤪

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    @Walker99

    Oh ok I thought it was a metaphor 🫢

  • CuddleGuy585CuddleGuy585

    I’ve had a simile experience.

  • IronicMaidenIronicMaiden

    @CuddleGuy585 What was it like?

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    What was it like?

    Like a like fetish.

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