@WriterGF
Stop just stop, you're embarrassing yourself.
@Sooson
Yes in the first couple of replies you did and were supportive then you weren't. That was my point and again, no one especially me said anyone was making fun of me.
Seriously, you guys need to stop. You can't back track from the things you already said. You probably can still edit them, but honestly just stop.
Move on you three, seriously you're wasting time trying to do right then wrong then cover up for it. Just enough move on. I'm only responding to y'all cause I have the time and I can.
I'm done with you. It's down to 2 now
@MarkusPhoenix. @WriterGF did nothing to embarrass themselves. While you may be a nice guy that really just wanted help, your reaction to some of the men is not making you look good. Women pay attention to things like this. You are showing the chip on your shoulder. Also, you cannot possibly know what the guys here are thinking or what their intentions are based on some of your responses. You are digging your own grave dude. Assuming stuff will get you nowhere fast. I wish you the best, but you will continue to have a hard time if you don't think more about what you say before you post. Forget about all of us and just do what you need to do to have an easier time of things.
@WriterGF I seriously doubt the OP has messaged anyone he deems unattractive.
@MarkusPhoenix my pic comment wasn’t a dig at you, trust me.
@MarkusPhoenix I appreciate that you are trying to figure stuff out about this site and you don’t feel safe being vulnerable. (At least that’s the impression I’m getting after reading through this thread). I also understand how you might feel attacked and misunderstood by some of the men here.
I know you only want advice from women, but if you would like to discuss this with me privately, feel free to DM me and I’ll do my best to try to help you.
At this point, there is no point in responding and I have no point in increasing your agitation. I flagged you and hopefully the moderators can explain some of the policies of this site.
@BrianOcean .... TY for what you said. I 100% agree with you and the other commentors who shared sentiments like yours. Which will likely get me attacked by this aggressive guy as you and others were attacked by him.
As a female pro cuddler, the OP scares me.
I'm glad that he outed himself where others can see. Instead of just in some poor woman's inbox where she had to deal with it alone.
I find the OP scary and I wondered whether I should post that. But the OP is not holding back, is he? Lol. A lot of misplaced/directionless anger.
Dear OP, you might as well delete your account. After several women read this thread it will be almost impossible for you to get a cuddle.
The OP doesn’t scare me at all but I will say that I’ve never felt so utterly lost and confused in a thread. I continue to come back and read it but feel more lost with every new comment.
Hey all! I've been too busy for the forums as of late....but gravitational pull on this one is too strong. 😇
Welcome to the site @MarkusPhoenix ! Sounds like you have some good intentions here and hopefully you can find what you're looking for once you get some things figured out. But just like literally any other social situation in life, you can't just demand that others give you what you want just because you think it should happen. And also yes, just like other social situations, there's still some unfairness and that just plain sucks. 😔
Maybe just understand a few things first....
It might be helpful to take a break before posting any further replies here and try to read the past comments objectively. For example @WriterGF always has a very logical and fair viewpoint and definitely did not insult or attack you. He answered your question in a calm and helpful manner. What he said is true and if you didn't believe it, check out the other hundreds of times the (relatively) same question has been asked and answered hundreds of times already in these threads.
The same goes for most of the other commenters on here, who were helpful and are knowledgeable....but maybe hit some sore spots for you and so might have seemed like they were attacking you. 😔
And @Sooson.... A case can definitely be made for childish.... But "predator" from what he wrote in his comments? Come on....🤷🏻♀️ As far as white knights who always gallop to the rescue of almost any of the men, @Morpheus is the main one. I rarely agree with him (and not now either), but also have to admit he didn't attack you.
You should probably take a few days to think things over and then try again...and I would advise against coming back to the threads for a bit until you gain your footing here a bit better.
Some peeps who had awesome advice and you really REALLY should listen to are 💯 @pmvines (elbow patches and all!) @sillysassy @hoping4snugs @SunshineHug @achetocuddle @bear @WarmFuzzler and a few others.
Would it be awesome if there were situations that were different and everyone "saw" each other for who they are inside versus outside....? Yes! But also maybe ask yourself why would you expect differently here when we all know there's literally NO other place in the whole world that's the way you seem to want society to behave.
I genuinely wish you luck (here or otherwise)! ☺️
Me? Childish ?
Howdy! Pro here. For me, OP - you are increasingly reactionary and I am having a heck of a time sorting out what you are really asking or needing help with. I fear this thread turned more into screaming into the void, rather than anything productive. Some lovely people already gave you exceptional advice and help, so I don't feel I can really add to what they said. But... for your own sake, it may be time to ignore this thread. I don't think anything else productive is going to come of it, and if you are looking for peace or comfort- it seems like this is doing the exact opposite for you. I hope you were able to gain something productive from this.
OP is posting on other threads now, talking about his dogs on one. He won't post here again.
@Sooson haha jk lol 😂
@lonelytauros We are cool my man. I love your comments.
Oh no. What now?
LOL I flagged it. How dare people use the V word on CC?
Jbob is all the way up to three syllable words now and wanted to show off.
@achetocuddle I put "self explanatory" as the reason lol. like what else is there to say Lets see how long it takes
I flagged also. What the heck? He is brand spanking new. I wonder if he thinks his and OP's posts are par for the course on cc? It's mindboggling what people come up with.
Also, LOL, @WriterGF and @Sooson.
My guess is it is a duplicate account. Twice the stupidity for one low price.
I suspect you are right because the remarks are so childish and make no sense at all in a very similar way to OP.
just no
@netrunner @Shake
2 plus 2 is 4
@Sooson Nah uh! 😛
2 + 2= 22
Where you learn "Geometry"? Huh?!😜😄
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I think what the OP understandably doesn't realize is that this topic is not new. There's an "I can't connect with an enthusiast" topic here every other day, and they usually end up the same way. The OP gets a pro (which I do NOT expect this OP to do), they get frustrated and quit the site, or they manage to get themselves banned.
@WriterGF Yep!👍
Just enjoying another entertaining and practically useless conversation about an unresolvable "issue"
@Sooson Popcorn?!
@Morpheus actually came to your defense earlier. See page 2.
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@Sooson I agree, @Morpheus did good with his comment back on Page 2.👍 But, I reckon OP just didn't see it. It happens sometimes!😁🤷♀️ And I read his (Morpheus) other comment with a sarcastic tone too. I didn't think he was insulting OP, but OP took it as an insult.😌
This is why I type with EMOJIS, especially when I'm being sarcastic or a snarky b🤬tch.
Which is what I'm being right now! Lol😄😜
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@Sooson Uh huh, that's what you get for trying to be...Helpful!
I hope you learned your lesson young man. 🤨😁😄
OP is posting on other threads now, talking about his dogs on one. He won't post here again
@achetocuddle Yeah, that's probably best for OP to not come back to this one. 😊👍