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You do know this isn't a dating site, right?
I don't know man, I guess I'm feeling a bit down
Sometimes it's like somewhere along the lines I forgot to be myself. I was too busy trying to appease other people that I forgot how to appease myself.
And now I feel like I've been someone else for so long, it's like who am I at this point?
I feel like this a lot But then I go to sleep and I wake up and it’s all better. Sleep Reset. Trying for a long-term reset now I hope things improve for you
Let's stay on topic please. Ladies. How are you doing?
I know
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How am I doing what?
Great
I'm woooooooonderful! Thank you for asking and I hope you are having a restful, peaceful night!
Having kind of a rough week but not terrible
I understand
@WriterGF for real, this entire thread gives me the ick lol
Can't sleep Clown will eat me
Can I still keep a conversation with someone if other part blocked me or deleted their account? Or if they delete the conversation from their side
Yea
What is the meaning of life?
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Life is what happens when you plan other things.
@bobadevotee How are you doing? 🤣🤣😂
@jubal 😂
@Sooson your answer reminds me of the quote, “Life is what happens between the present and the future” (similar thought as “Life is what you make it”).
@JohnR1972 well at least those sound a bit more positive. I love the more sarcastic ones. How about "The man makes plans and God laughs"
Poops is in my immediate future
There goes my breakfest
@Sooson - Better watch it, you might get in trouble for pushing religion with that last post 😉
Here is my overall opinion of most online forums (including this one).
Whatever opinion / comment anyone shares, especially if it ventures anywhere near a hot button issue, runs the risk of becoming a Rorschach Test. Someone else will see their post and get offended at the BLATANT sexism / homophobia depicted in the ink blot.
Others will see that ink blot and recognize it for what it REALLY is… a derivative work of one of Adolph Hitler’s original oil paintings.
People full of insecurities will then blast the OP for whatever they see in the ink blot, and be joined by others who are sensitive / sympathetic to the same issue / cause.
Other people will be confused at the “arguing” because they don’t see the same thing in the ink blots so they just stay out of it because they don’t want to get attacked themselves.
However, a small percentage of the confused (those who didn’t initially see anything offensive in the ink blot) may start to question themselves… “Am I really a good person if I didn’t pick up on the _________ undertones in the ink blot?” They may then decide, “I need to be on the lookout for those undertones EVERYWHERE and start calling out friends, family, co-workers, and even complete strangers for being sexist Nazis.”
This is why I love this meme so much…
@JohnR1972
You make some good points. I think what I've learned about this forum in particular is that a lot of these things are magnified because what we're talking about, cuddling, is such an incredibly intimate act that it brings out a lot of personal emotions in people that they aren't used to talking about publicly. I've definitely noticed that in myself.
Not sleeping and have had the same song running through my head all week. It’s driving me crazy.
@Will564 Great point. I have met well over 2 dozen women from this site one on one and I attended a meet up last year and met a bunch of site members (men and women) in the same setting.
There are a lot of good people on the site as well as a lot who are hurting inside for any number of reasons (grieving the loss of a spouse, divorce, health issues, anxiety issues, childhood trauma, etc.). Some just seem to read a lot into “ink blots” and find offense where most people would not find offense.
I’m doing great. Had dinner with my babygirl last night. I’m going to the Luke Combs concert at Sofi Friday night. I have a family party on Saturday. Life is lovely.