Goodbye all, and thanks for those who were kind.
edit made to include content on profile of OP
I hope this isn't what I think it is
where's the react button
What’s the context of the goodbye ?
"I give up" as a profile pic scares me. Can anyone reach out to him personally? Telling us we're jerks is one thing. Cryptic message, plus actually doing it, is another.
To me, it sounds like he is just leaving the website. I don’t have his contact info, but the last couple of sentences state he’s leaving the website.
Don’t worry. He’s okay, he’s my buddy.
From private messages with him, well I understand why he’s leaving. That’s all I can say. Too many people here want something that they should not want and they won’t get and then they will leave. “Anti-male vitriol” refers to some men’s behavior, some of their misogynistic comments, does not apply to everybody. But specific to their comments, it does apply to some. Unfortunately, the ones who need to read it have a big mental block in their heads, and they will never recognize themselves.
He also private messaged me some weeks ago out of the blue and I understand why he left. It’s probably the best decision for him. He wasn’t happy with certain “attitudes” and probably wasn’t a good fit for CC. .
Sounds like he was hoping to form a deeper connection with someone, but it didn't pan out and he is moving on.
People come and go on there all the time , they just don't usually announce and draw attention to it . Normally I would say to respect their privacy and decision, but he announced it so obviously doesn't mind it garnering attention . I'm sure that if there were anything to be genuinely concerned about his support circle would be there to intervene. Didn't really know the guy but wish him luck and all the best with all of the things .
Thank you for the updates. Totally understand and wish him the best.
Maybe he was seeking a therapist? Depression? I hope he is ok .. I hope he finds someone he can speak with/connect with on a safe, healthy and comfortable level..
He’s fine. Don’t worry.
@1_teddybear As you know, I'm sorry your experience on the site didn't go as well as you had hoped. Many men don't receive replies, and do not find cuddles, as you mentioned. I believe it's not often the man's fault, simply the way society works right now...a numbers game. And you are correct, there is a lot of unchecked sexism toward men, here.
You were always respectful and kind to me and I enjoyed getting to know you here and there. I always appreciated your patience with me being perpetually behind. I hope you find the warmth and mutual friendship you seek. It is most certainly out there. 🫂
~ Sunset Snuggles
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@Morpheus Well I’m glad to hear from you that he’s fine, And that you’re with him now (?) so you know firsthand. thanks for the update! Anyway I’m hoping that we all can recognize when it’s not a good place or we’re not in the best state of mind for this forum or this community. I’ve felt that at times, Maybe it applies to a lot of us.
I'm surprised anyone thought he might be leaving the world. He only left the site and wanted everyone (the ones this applied to) to know how disappointed they made him feel. He posted in a particular style to get attention. I surmised? this from DMs.
@achetocuddle he deleted his account, so I believe he can't see the attention he would've gained from the post. I'd assume it's for closure. Dude seemed troubled. He also just said "goodbye, everyone", the bio was added by a mod. From his page
I agree with @Andrew_1
The fleeting, transactional nature of this site is wholly unsatisfying if you're in need of a deeper connection.
OP probably just needs a girlfriend, or at least, a girl friend, to develop a more meaningful, permanent relationship with.
@OverTheMooon wrote, "I'd assume it's for closure."
That is what I hope too. I wish him well.
I received a very thoughtful message from him. Sad to see such an intriguing person leave, goes to show how important positive community is.
@achetocuddle I don't regret being concerned about someone who's clearly hurting and wasn't known for being dramatic. He and I shared no DMs, but with a cryptic post like his, paired with a profile pic that says, "I GIVE UP," that's cause for concern. I thank the mod team and his friends here for the additional information.
