Thinking about cuddle sessions you have had in the past and cuddle sessions you would like to have in the future, what would you say your idea cuddle sessions are?
I'm curious to hear people's thought on this.
Netflix and cuddle? Actually I don't really have the experience to answer properly, but seeing a movie and cuddling up on a couch sounds like a reasonable starting cuddle to me. Maybe back drawing or hair brushing or whatever they happen to like.
Something more relaxed and light I guess.....but that just might be me being overly caucious or maybe I need to get to know the person better. I don't know yet honestly.
@JasonCuddles Those all sound like great things to do during a first cuddle session. I like back drawing and hair brushing too.
Cuddles while watching a movie or show is always fun, especially if it happens to be a series or movie you and your cuddle buddy both like.
Yeah, somehow I feel that having a movie as an extra thing to focus on would let you get more comfortable with eachother in a nice relaxed setting. Maybe.
I think.. and maybe I'm way out to lunch here... but maybe a walk in a park and a cuddle on a bench, or with a picnic blanket and pillow? Not as comfy as on a couch for sure... but there is a little bit more safety if you don't know the person all that well.... silly idea?
@JasonCuddles I've cuddled with people while watching shows, movies, cartoons, anime shows, and even playing video games in the past. I personally enjoyed the experiences.
@DragonLady_J That actually sounds like an awesome cuddle session. XD Having a picnic in a nice park or something and cuddling would be a lot of fun. It would be nice to walk around the park too.
@DragonLady_J that sounds nice, not silly at all.
@DragonLady_J I agree. Not just for safety, but our natural habitat is outside, and we spend a lot more time indoors in the modern world, so why not a two for one healthy-healthy outdoor cuddle? Especially if it's a nice day.
I haven't had any clients want to watch anything during a cuddle yet. We cuddle with music or the tv just on in the background, but not actually watching anything. Personally, as a pro, I can't focus on tv and still give them a fully present session, but I would certainly do it if that's what the client wanted I just find TV or movies distracting, especially if it's something I haven't seen before and am very interested in watching. Maybe tv/movie sessions would be at a discount since it wouldn't be the same experience as when not watching anything...
Well the ones I did with my friend were awesome, because we became pretty good friends and could do almost anything. We could chill at home with music, go to the mall, the park. And she gave discounts and a freebie lol
I think you have to use some other vehicle than this site to find some one to connect with.
In theory or actuality? Looks like a lot of speculation going on here. This site is a dud.
I like cuddling on a motorcycle ride or under a bridge with traffic passing by. Remember the song "Under the Boardwalk"? Aint happening on this site.
@ubergigglefritz I've had some great cuddling moments while doing other activities at the same time. I'd love to try a skydiving cuddle one time.
@scottsteiner That sounds like an awesome experience. Was there anything in particular the two of you did that you liked the best?
@Redsowner Cuddling on a motorcycle ride sounds fun! But you would also have to be careful if you were out on the road. Maybe cuddling on a parked motorcycle would be the best.
@MoonlightSonata I can cuddle a date while focused on TV. It's another thing to cuddle a client at $70-80/hr focus level while focusing on a movie or show I haven't seen before. It was a little less pressure back when I was starting at $50-60/hr, but I still took my focus very seriously. It's like the long running joke of a psychologist getting distracted while their patient is talking, and then coming back to reality hearing "so what do you think doc?" What I do is a form of therapy, and I can't do that to the full level of my ability while dividing my focus on something else like TV. If it were something I've seen before or wasn't interested in, then I could pretty much block it out and focus on cuddling though :-)
@ubergigglefritz True! It is always good to give all of your attention to the person you are cuddling.
I usually ask my cuddle partner what they want. I can make suggestions too if they aren't really sure how they want to start the cuddle session. However I have found in my experience that the person I am cuddling with always has an idea of what they want.
Before joining here I had a lot of people request to cuddle me while we watched movies, shows, even at the theater. XD I've cuddled about everywhere. Except for in outer space. But outer space is on my bucket list! If there is an astronaut who wants to cuddle with me on the moon, I'm available. :')
You know I used to love playing wrestling with her and letting her hold my WWE replica title. Or tickling her and making jokes to hear her cute laugh. Even though we don't talk anymore she had a really cute laugh
@scottsteiner Wrestling is a lot of fun! I am glad that the two of you had some great memories.
I like it if my partner is the big spoon and wraps around me really tight from behind and holds me in a position where I can watch while he reads the news on his phone or plays a videogame. I like it if he basically just uses me like a body-pillow while he watches movies or whatever.
@cuddlyWA Awww that is really great.
