I’m new here and I thought that I was supposed to find a Pro to cuddle with but people, not pros, are reaching out to me to cuddle. Did I set up my account wrong?
No, anyone can contact anyone, pro or not.
The rules here, as I understand them, are non-pros ("enthusiasts") are allowed to cold contact via DM either other enthusiasts or pros.
OTOH, pros, such as myself, are only allowed to DM members who "show interest" by at minimum viewing my profile.
Thank you both!!
The OP messaged me, said this is a hook up site and deleted her profile smh
Dang! That's too bad. My experience with this site so far is that it reflects what you bring to it and make of it. 🤷♂️
@HarleyGirlKate My experience and the evidence that I've seen would suggest that you are right.
First female member I have seen say she was on here to hire pros.
@HarleyGirlKate Yes, this site is definitely what you make of it. I’m guessing that newer/younger members are more likely to receive inappropriate requests, though. I think a lot of new members take the first few days of their experience here and mistakenly this is all the site has to offer (women receiving non platonic requests, or men receiving no messages back)
@WriterGF same, quite unusual
Another member who should've started off muted so she has a chance to explore without being bombarded with requests!
@WriterGF: First female member I have seen say she was on here to hire pros.
I hired two female pros when I was an enthusiast and was both pretty new here and extremely touch starved. They really helped me get my head right.
Women do hire women. It is relatively uncommon, but it is most definitely a Thing. For example I used to cuddle a woman enthusiast who was also a regular client of a woman professional (who I also knew well
This site absolutely does give you some kind of reflection of what you put in. It's a classic example of 'the more you put in, the more you get out'. At least that has been my experience.
I've hired women. As everyone here knows, enthusiast women are rare. At first, I avoided men. Now, I'm open to cuddling with men, but so far, they all fall into one of these groups.
I also like the way Tom Lehrer put it. "Life is like a sewer. What you get out of it depends on what you put into it."
I haven't cuddled women but would consider trying sometime. I'm not a pro, So far I prefer to cuddle at a hotel. Privacy and safety reasons. I prefer not to be secluded. With a man or a woman.
OP actually never refers to what gender of pro she expected to connect with.
I have only been a member a week. But this is what I believe is the policy on reaching out to send messages.
Enthusiasts (any non-professional): OK to send messages to both other Enthusiasts and Professionals at anytime,
Professional: May only sent a message to other Enthusiasts or Professionals if one of two events has happened: 1) The Enthusiast has sent you a message first. 2) The Enthusiast or the Professional has looked at your profile first.
Hope this helps.