I love that this site does not compel anyone to cuddle. There are so many reasons why a pro might decline a session. For example I remember booking a fancy new Embassy Suites location and I met a pro there who did not like the vibe. The next session I booked a very basic Tru hotel and she enjoyed that place much more. It's counter-intuitive to me, because booking the better place means I care more, but hey, everyone's way of thinking is different. Maybe she had bad experiences in fancy hotels before. I'll never know, and that's fine. The point is that pros on here are fully independent and they make their own decisions. If you want the best chance of a guaranteed good session, pick a pro with extensive karma.
After reading the comments in this and rereading the OP i noticed most people replaced the word aversion with discrimination or preference. Now the words can be similar but are not the same. I have preferences and that's different than the question. When it comes to age: imo i have a broad scope of who I'll consider, age factors in but isn't primary. When it comes to race: when it comes to cuddling, i don't think i have a preference. When it comes to gender: in regards to cuddling i have aversions. When it comes to physical build i likely have aversions, but they are likely not what most would expect. I say all that to say, sure i suspect I've been ignored by people based on the perception of what they see in my profile the same way I've overlooked others, distance being the main factor for me. I dislike being ignored but hey i do it too. Obviously not as often as i am ignored. It's like any other criteria, some ladies don't like to see guys holding fish, looking like they are in hunting expeditions and what can i say, i feel the same if i see ladies doing such. We probably have nothing in common and I'll likely never know. You'll never seeing me wearing a football jersey expressing my love for a team and i don't want to see a lady doing it either, it's less than appealing. But it's not something that I'll disregard someone for. Religion can be a turn off too, whatever you believe doesn't matter but how you believe does to me. Another big one is how i see you interact in the forums, every other aspect of what i see in the profile can be appealing but what you say will totally turn me a way. I know I've gotten the same because i was told ( i appreciate that). So all that happens, it's to be expected. Sometimes it feels shitty but it may be what it is. It sucks when it feels like it's something out of your control like race, sexual orientation or gender identity. I proclaim i am a great black man who is a male that is comfortable being heterosexual of a certain age, if any part of that disturbs anyone i am happy not to interact or cuddle. Any feelings i have around that are mine and i have to get past that. I can't force anyone to see me as anything different because i hope i am seen as i am. What i see in you may not be who you are but i see what i see from what you present or represent. Since this is about cuddles my perception is all that matters initially. I only have the cover to determine if i want to read the book. Sometimes i miss out, everyone ignoring me is definitely missing out but hey there isn't enough of me to go around anyway but there is more that can spread than is requested. But most people didn't buy bit coin when it was $2 and that's why it is valuable now.
When it comes to cuddling, the most important thing is how you feel about yourself. If you genuinely enjoy your own company and embrace who you are, you'll naturally attract those who appreciate your presence and enjoy cuddling with you. Focus on nurturing relationships with people who value and cherish you for who you are, and prioritize spending time with those who bring warmth and comfort to your life.
The last thing you'd want is to be around someone who harbors aversion towards you because of your ethnic background or gender identity.
@Bear wow Bear, you got plenty of cuddles on here. I thought u ain’t getting any cuddles. If I had known how awesome you are, I would be asking for advice from you.