Forgive me if this has been said before: I see too many people signing up for Pro status who I suspect are just doing it to get their profiles to show up at the top of the homepage. They seem to treat the Pro account level as more of a “premium tier / featured profile” membership than an offer to provide a service. I see evidence of this in profiles that say things like “I’m going through a breakup and seeking connection.”
Maybe do something about inactive profiles, all I ever see are inactive, or people that are nowhere near me, and yes I've adjusted the filter, I get it I live in an area where not much people want to cuddle. But I'd rather have no suggestions, than people that I need a plane ticket to get cuddles from or inactive peeps
Also another thing I have noticed, how are there pros that are constantly active yet have ZERO karma, seems like there is money not making it's way to the site. Some paid mods wouldn't be a bad idea, if everyone is actually paying their fees shouldn't that be feasible?
Just honest curiosity
I do enjoy all the lovely nice people on here, and I love the discussions, granted I don't comment on everything, I enjoy reading and learning new things and getting a good chuckle in.
Don’t know if this has ever been mentioned but an add to calendar option would be great.
@nurturingman So are the pros you are referring to not actually doing any business? Because most pros become a pro to make money doing something they already wanted to do anyway.
what am I missing here? what's up with all the deleted users ??
ok I see these are 7 years old why ?
If not interested, a HIDE button on someone’s profile so they don’t show up in future searches and such.
@Jack62 Deleted simply means the person has chosen on their own to leave the site.
@WriterGF maybe the site has changed, or maybe I was mistaken, but I thought the people whose faces showed up in the carousel or filmstrip at the top of the homepage were only pros, yet I looked just now on my iPhone, and they were all enthusiasts (at least all the men were). Almost all had just joined this month. I was under the impression that the profiles featured at the top were only of pros.
@nurturingman - for me it's all enthusiast women who just joined this month. I think it's showing the newest profiles.
@Mike403 just curious: did you only click on the women or did only women show up? I saw various people, but just clicked on the men.
@nurturingman - You cuddle everyone per your profile so that's probably why both men and women show up for you.
@Mike403 oh, that makes sense.
@nurturingman I get pros or enthusiasts along the top depending on which tab I hit.
It would be nice if the Repeat badge appeared on a client's karma page, too. Perhaps there's a reason it doesn't, although I don't know what that is.
And, again, having badges for higher multiples would encourage site rebookings, as would graduated fee reductions for Pros with high Karma numbers.
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@TxTom Yeah, I don't see why clients don't get the Repeat tag, either. 🤷🏻♀️
The idea of a badge for multiple rebookings would certainly make those who achieve it much more appealing.
But the lack of it could deter people from booking with Pro's who travel a lot and don't often see the same clients again, or Pro's who may live in a high traffic area like near an international airport, where the clients are the ones traveling, and don't usually return. It would look like those Pro's see lots of people and no one wants to rebook, when perhaps they're awesome, but just non-traditional in their availability or clientele. Just pondering.
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Kinda curious if someone has already said it, but it is not easy to search 88 pages of this thread. Has anyone suggested better distance measurements? For example, metro cities like Phoenix for me, someone will show 0 miles because they are in the same city, but could be 30 miles or 40 minutes from me. Would be nice for some accuracy within reason. (5 miles off inaccuracy to prevent stalking).
@warmbearhugs I am pretty sure that if you put your zip code in your location in your profile, it will give you a much more accurate location and search. The issue is that every user would have to enter their zip code as well to make this work.
@Morpheus Thank you! I learned something today. Wow, I missed that when I signed up a while ago. Edit: Well, off by 20+ miles, but better than profiles showing 0 miles for the same city. There is a possibility the reference profile may only have the city saved as well.
I’d like to see a “Upcoming Travel” feature. So if someone is traveling soon, they can set their travel itinerary and they can show up on that town’s list of incoming guests. This would replace having to set different home locations constantly. It would also allow people traveling to the same area at the same time to be able to see each other and coordinate in advance.
Can we get a user friendly app pretty please? I’ll pay $2 for the app to get notifications and messages refreshed! I’m sure others will too! If not then they can use the website instead. 😩
@joey012616 That would be nice! I often know two or three upcoming trips, but if I list two travel destinations, it makes people think I live in one of them, so I avoid that, most times.
A workaround I sometimes do is flip my second location between upcoming destinations, so I can start getting to know people in both.
You will continue to show up in search results, if you logged in within the time constraints of peoples' search. (For instance, if I set Nevada as a second location, and then switch it to Minnesota, anyone who searches Vegas for cuddlers who were online in the past week, will still see me for seven days.)
Take out the children section . That definitely makes it feel like dating
@chrissy123xo That's valid. People have explained away the sexual orientation one with the concept that it protects people from bigotry, which makes sense.
But I don't remember any compelling reason for disclosing if you have kids or not. (Especially for Pro's. Rather invasive.)
I don't mind the question, personally, but I don't know why it's there. If people have kids they certainly shouldn't be bringing someone home to cuddle with them around, so it shouldn't matter...unlike pets, where allergies are concerned. 🤷🏻♀️
The questions in Facts simply give a potential cuddle partner a better idea of who you are. It's not about dating or anything.
I have no problem with the "children" question, or any other questions, especially since answering them is not mandatory.
The more info someone is willing to share on their profile, the better.
I didn't have an issue with the children question simply because my child is here half the time, and on those days, I wouldn't be free.
Maybe we should have no pics, no profile, no stats and no about me? I don't think so.
It would be really helpful if you could filter people by some minimum number of karma. Or by age of profile.
Additionally, it would be helpful if the devs would respond here and indicate that they care about suggestions. Better yet, go create a repo on GitHub (simply for the purpose of managing issues and feature requests), where we could have some expectation of an answer of planned/not planned with at least a brief explanation (so that we can be better educated on what to suggest or not suggest in the future) if we post there. And also the automatic search of past issues, when typing a new one, so that we notice if someone already has suggested something similar, and we can see the ensuing conversation, and add our thoughts.
I have a development background and have had plenty of ideas come to mind, but have seen little reason to bother posting here (or anywhere).
Assuming someone will answer this with "oh, they've implemented some ideas that were posted here before," if that's the case, they sure have completely neglected this over the months I've been here.
Pardon my bluntness. If the devs have a better system of discussing suggestions/requests with their users than I realize, I'd be glad to know about it.
@TxTom Some of them are mandatory, but I can't remember which.
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Oops!...I Did It Again! I accidently deleted one of my Favorites.
My one and only, extremely humble wish (besides proving to God that winning the lottery won't spoil me, and owning my very own Star Destroyer) is that a confirmation warning pops up before deleting a Favorite.
Edit: For those in England... favourite.