Banned Cuddler

boomer76boomer76
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I recently had a session with a professional cuddler. We had a great connection, and planned on meeting again. The next morning she was deactivated and banned. She texted me, accusing me of being the cause for her account being taken down.

I had no idea that happened, or why. She sent be a screenshot of the message CC sent her. It said she was deactivated due to a “previous account closure”. Then she told me she didn’t believe in coincidences like that, called me a liar. WTH is wrong with some people? I have had some experiences with cuddlers that weren’t great, but would never jeopardize their job, or livelihoods.

It really stinks, being we like each other, and everything went great the night prior.

Anyway, just wanted to share…oh attached is the screenshot too.

Boomer76

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  • [Deleted User]Ihavenoidea2 (deleted user)

    She had a previous account that was banned and the mods caught her new account. It has nothing to do with you so don't sweat it.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    Yeah, once you're banned, you can't come back. She tried to pull a fast one and got caught.

  • goodvibes1919goodvibes1919

    Try not to let it get to you too much. She did something shady and got busted. You'll find another cuddle match who doesn't throw a hissy fit (at her own guilt) and be happier for it. All the best :)

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    She could have been Reported as a returning banned account by absolutely anybody who had seen her old account. Additionally, the site has procedures for spotting accounts of previously banned people, although I don't know what they are.

    Attacking a client demonstrates her unsuitability as a professional cuddler.

    Banned people have a chance to appeal, as the screenshot shows. Very few people make good use of this facility.

  • boomer76boomer76

    Thank you everyone, appreciate the support!!!

  • cuudledragoncuudledragon

    Im so sorry you had to experience that! This cuddlers reaction speaks volumes as to why they were banned. Even if you don’t know why it happened to them, its good they didn’t continue to see you and it ended early. They are clearly toxic.

  • great_pillow08great_pillow08

    I had a pro tell me he couldn't wait for the day I tell him to f me all night long- NEVER gonna happen!! It's been impossible to wrap my mind around cuddling with him again. I don't think he'd rape me, but just... What makes people think that's okay to even THINK, much less say out loud?? 🤔

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    It’s just sad that she tried to blame you when I’m sure she knew exactly why she was banned and had nothing to do with you. Possibly she’s very mad and needed to target someone with her anger.
    We all have to accept that we start as strangers and even if we have a couple of hours of amazing cuddles, we never really know what’s going on in someone else’s mind.

    Hope you find an awesome new cuddler because there are so many great people here.

  • wanacuddle85wanacuddle85

    Sadly, I’ve watched it time and time again. They just keep making new account so she’ll be back in a few weeks. Don’t worry about it. lol not your fault..

  • FoxyyCuddlesFoxyyCuddles

    It would be ideal to have some form of verification that only allows one account per person and if you get banned, then that’s it. But I’m not sure they’ll come out with that.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    @FoxyyCuddles
    Agreed and it’s been asked for constantly to have identifying verification to keep this site safe for everyone, to prevent criminals, repeat offenders, sexual predators & scammers having such easy access. And to maintain the integrity of CC. Many of us feel that the owners don’t want to prevent anyone from joining. Is that really the case?

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @g_w_t_w Think about how many guys you've seen saying they won't show any ID at all to a pro. Odds are they won't show it to the site either.

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    @WriterGF

    I would be far more likely to show it to the site to have me on record as verified than I would to show it to random pros.

  • FoxyyCuddlesFoxyyCuddles

    I think having a private verification system in place would help.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    I don't know that I would have much faith in the site's ability to keep data secure.

  • ReltvlyCanshesReltvlyCanshes

    Well she knows why she's banned and why she tried to come back, wonder if she up to her standard of tricks. No pun intended

  • Rocket_ManRocket_Man

    No idea why she would blame you when it's clearly stated why her account was removed. she's obviously not as great as you thought.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @WriterGF
    I would trust a website with a lawyer over random Pro's. @cuddlefaery has described her very stringent and careful process for securing private data, and I would put money down that she is the only person on this site who is even aware of such a protocol, or would put in the effort to follow it, if she ever asked for ID.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

    Happy summer vibes! 🐬 🎹

  • Jack62Jack62

    If I'm hosting, shouldn't the pro be showing me ID ? She's coming to my home, she can find out anything about me from my address, but who is she, really. I would have no idea.

    I bring this up because a while ago I had something stolen from my home. It was there one day and gone the next, after a cuddle, could have only been her, but I didn't see her take it. A small personal item from my childhood, has no value to anyone but me. I wrote her a friendly letter asking for it's return, no questions asked, just please return it. I got a nasty reply. It happened that a one point she went downstairs, after a minute or so I called out for her and it took a couple more minutes for her to return. In her nasty reply she said she was charging her phone. WHAT TF...............

    Do you think I would get happy responses if I stated I wanted an ID check upon arrival, before you ask that $$ be paid before any cuddling began?

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    @SunsetSnuggles If AT&T can get hacked -- with a massive amount of money to put toward cybersecurity - I'm pretty sure CuddleComfort could get hacked. Not sure what difference having a lawyer would make, since they rarely catch the people who do this.

    @Jack62 Why not just say you want to be a guest? Then you'll know her address.

  • Mike403Mike403

    @WriterGF - Yes but who is hacking a niche website such as this? They're going after the big boys with a lot more data to steal

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    @Jack62
    100%, men/clients have as much right to ask for whatever makes them feel safe, as women/Pro's do.

    @WriterGF
    Anyone can get hacked, but a business who writes policies up legally and implements them professionally are far more likely to take care of sensitive data than a random 18-year-old who just joined last night and signed up as a "Pro". 😬

    If I were a client, there's no way I'd be handing my ID over, in any form, to a Pro. A professional website...maybe...maybe...

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🦄 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Fiend 🐘 Animal Lover

    Happy summer vibes! 🐬 🎹

  • JasonCuddlesJasonCuddles

    Giving a bunch of sensitive info to this website comes with the risk of that info being used for ill. That's just how it is.

  • Mike403Mike403

    @JasonCuddles - You don't trust the owners of this website but you'll trust random pros?

  • JasonCuddlesJasonCuddles

    @Mike403 I wouldn't trust either.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    Any website can be hacked. Small websites like this, and presumably large ones too, are in fact under constant attack. Cuddle Comfort has, in my four or so years, an astonishing record of security. Its up time is comparable to Google and for a long time was a ahead of it. That isn't far short of a miracle.

    I don't know the ins and outs but CC takes credit card data from professionals. Data regulation in the UK, where the site is based, is pretty strict and I would guess that the site takes it very seriously.

    In other words in my opinion your data is as safe here as it is on any small/medium website.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    To those of you who think it’s too risky, I imagine you might “take a risk” in other areas already, even possibly using a debit or credit card at a gas station? Or do you walk into the gas station to pay cash? Life is full of risks, driving your car is a major one.

    But if you hire a Pro to cuddle, think of the multitude of risks she takes to make you happier! You are paying her for the risk she takes to be alone with you.
    And ahe has her personal info saved on the site,
    And there are many really good guys here but she doesn’t know in advance what she’s going to encounter.
    There’s an awful lot of men here who will gladly be the Takers/Payers to get what they want. No matter how much you pay her, she is still taking risks that your money doesn’t cover.
    But you should not bother with worrying about your personal info, because I’m pretty sure CC will never take a chance on losing the men here. The men are their income, your $$$.
    They aren’t likely to start asking men for their ID verification.
    Too many men here are embarrassed to be on CC, Embarrassed that they can’t get a relationship on their own, don’t want their wife or family to find out. Some don’t want a relationship and love the convenience of hiring a Cuddler without having to make any commitment.
    Some are embarrassed that they have to ask or pay for the company they want. I get it, it’s human nature, Many women also don’t want to date, love the idea of safe cuddling without the baggage,
    To whoever feels concern about having a pro come to your house, then don’t hire her. Don’t have a Pro or any other stranger come to your house. Remember, this is voluntary. No one is making you invite someone into your home.
    especially if you’ve been burned before and you don’t trust…(but then don’t complain if you choose to).
    Instead, Have a session in public or rent a hotel room. No one is making you do this if you don’t feel comfortable with someone coming over then don’t do.

  • ReltvlyCanshesReltvlyCanshes

    Oh wow.

  • SoosonSooson

    Now let's carry on

  • [Deleted User]MaverickLegend (deleted user)

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