What's the funnest non-cuddle activity you've done in a cuddle session (pro or enthusiast)

KallistaKallista
edited August 2024 in General

One of my regular cuddlees who I had been seeing at least a few times a month decided to switch it up from our regular cuddling sessions, and brought over his favourite board game.

It was such a nice way to spend time together, and get to know one another in new ways.

I find games (board or otherwise) bring out different sides of people that we may not otherwise see in regular conversation or cuddling. It brought out our competitive edges, but we also saw how we could be collaborative and mutually encouraging as well, and we both got to see our more playful, clever, and strategic sides come out. For the record, we still sat close and in some contact during the game, which was nice, neaaaarly close enough to see one another's tiles ;)

Oh, and the game is Upwords. Highly recommend.

And we did resume cuddling after the game, (for half of the time we had booked together), and I must say, it was probably one of my favourite cuddles with him, perhaps because of feeling like we had gotten to see more of / and be seen in more of our multi-dimensionality :)

I'd love to hear your stories!

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  • TxTomTxTom

    Prep food. Cuddle. Cook food. Cuddle. Eat food. Cuddle.

  • TxTomTxTom

    Chess is a perfect cuddle game. Cheating/peaking isn't possible.

  • KallistaKallista
    edited August 2024

    mmm yes food & cuddling. there's a reason why "rest & digest" go together.
    i've heard my own tummy and many a cuddlee's tummy gurgling away during a cuddle -- when we feel safe our brain signals to our gut that it is safe to digest :3

  • TeddyCuddle45TeddyCuddle45

    Watch 90 day fiance, not sure if that counts lol

  • warm_embracewarm_embrace

    I once helped a pro do her income taxes. It was weighing heavy on her mind and it was a wonderful intimate connection.

  • KallistaKallista
    edited August 2024

    @warm_embrace - I am sure that meant A LOT to her.
    I would say that letting someone into your world of personal finances can be more intimate than cuddling.
    last time I met with my tax person, I ended up crying in front of them as they helped me work through some major hurdles! money is a sensitive topic for me, and can be for many people, especially if they are struggling financially...

    @TeddyCuddle45 - of course it counts! there's no wrong answer here (provided it was a platonic activity!) i've never seen that show, but i could see reality tv being a fun thing to share with someone else (with live commentary ofc :p )

  • ChrissyNoirChrissyNoir

    Oh wow these are great ideas

  • Katelyn_BKatelyn_B
    edited August 2024

    I've given motorcycle rides, gone hiking and shown off the redwoods in my area, including "The Giant" and another tree that you can go inside. Have also gone shopping at malls and fun, little shops.

    Have also had people I know from the cuddling world out in the crowd in pro wrestling shows I've performed on.

    I agree that board games are fun--I particularly like cooperative ones that aren't super hard to learn.

  • IneedahugortwoIneedahugortwo

    We played Jenga and it was such a fun experience with lots of laughs before cuddling.

  • AmortentiaAmortentia

    It is an activity to get to know each other. It is similar to truth or dare but is called bad truth or good truth. Both must agree to be honest and to keep the questions appropriate. For example, "Did you ever get detention in school?" And if they said yes then it is a bad truth. The bad truth means they get tickled. If they said no to that question then it is a good truth and they are saved from tickles. I have only played it with one cuddler so far and love it.

  • PurpleAppleszPurpleApplesz

    @warm_embrace did she pay you? Or did you pay her to do her taxes 🤣

  • JohnR1972JohnR1972

    We met at a small, county airport outside of St. Louis and went sky diving together. It was my first jump and her 3rd jump. We were both really on an adrenaline high for hours afterwards so we didn’t cuddle but we had a nice picnic under a shade tree on the airport grounds.

  • Mre_usMre_us

    Walking the streets of London and along the Thames River holding hands on my first evening back in the country. We’ve been enthusiast penpals since my first trip there a couple years ago. It was wonderful catching up and finally meeting in person.

  • calineurcalineur

    We went zip lining at Mount Herman Adventures near Santa Cruz. Fun times indeed.

  • SoosonSooson

    Browsing the CC forum together during a cuddle session. Pathetic I know....

  • CuddleHugs01234CuddleHugs01234

    A comedy show with a cuddler I had seen plenty beforehand. That was an awesome night! One of my favorite nights of my life.

  • TeddyCuddle45TeddyCuddle45

    @Kallista. I hate reality TV but ne an my mom used to watch 90 day fiance all the time and the pillow talk show, just so happens my cuddler also enjoys it, so we watch and have our own little pillow episode lol
    ... obviously it's a platonic activity, it's tv...

  • KallistaKallista
    edited August 2024

    I'm loving all these stories, keep 'em coming! Some of yours are pretty adventurous - @HarleyGirlKate i'm going to have to book you if i'm ever in your neck of the woods, would love a motorcycle ride, or climbing inside trees... and @JohnR1972 - i've always wanted to go skydiving!!

    I've got one to add: another fond memory is this "cards to the heart" game i've played:
    https://cardstotheheart.ca/

    We take turns asking each other these get-to-know-you-better questions - one person holds the deck, the other person draws and hands it back to the deck holder, who then asks, and the drawer answers. Then the deck holder answers the same question. (but there are really no rules about how you use the deck, that's just how i like to)

    The nice thing about it is you can still play without buying the deck, by using the 'digital shuffle' option here:
    https://play.cardstotheheart.ca/ <3

    I've learned things about my cuddlers via these cards that I don't even know about my best friends (and vice versa)!

  • SitaRoseeSitaRosee

    My funniest moment will always be, during a cuddle session, I saw a spider and threw a lamp and the alarm clock at it. My cuddle buddy was like “I think you got it.” I still laugh about that incident. I was so scared. Now if I come across a spider before a session, I’ll ask the person I’m gonna cuddle with if they can please take care of it, so I don’t risk breaking anything 😂😂

  • JohnR1972JohnR1972

    @Kallista - there is nothing else like it. I’ve been scuba diving on wrecked ships in the Atlantic, even cave diving in under water caves in Florida, nothing compares to the adrenaline rush of free falling for over a mile before deploying a chute then drifting back to earth! I highly recommend doing it.

  • wilderdudewilderdude

    Street fighter II

    I show no mercy

  • SweetPeaJenSweetPeaJen

    Walked around an aquarium holding hands, and then cuddled later. 🥰

  • TenderEmbracesTenderEmbraces

    So basically most of these stories sound like a date night

  • goodvibes1919goodvibes1919

    @SitaRosee hahahaha that's so hilarious. Thanks for the laugh.

  • starrynitecudsstarrynitecuds

    I learned how to skip stones and how to choose just the right one. It's a science.

  • KatotaKatota
    edited August 2024

    Attend a drag queen show (at Lips Atlanta💋), so much fun,🥳😄 we ate dinner there as well. Then we went back to my house to cuddle 🫂while watching television until we fell asleep. 😴

    Good times!😁

  • KatotaKatota
    edited August 2024

    Browsing the CC forum together during a cuddle session. Pathetic I know..

    Aww...Nah!😁

    @Sooson Thanks so much, for including my CC comments in your cuddle time, Sooson. Love that!😍👍

    I bet you said to your cuddle buddy, whenever you scrolled down to my comments...😜

    "Oh that Katota, she's nutty indeed...And yet, I would still cuddle with her WITHOUT FEARING FOR MY LIFE...Yes, I will still cuddle with her!"

    That's what you said, right?😁

    That better be what you said!🤨

    😆😆😆😆

  • KatotaKatota

    So basically most of these stories sound like a date night,

    @Quiet_Cuddlez Only to You, they sound that way.😏

  • SolarisSolaris

    With one cuddler, we always cuddled at her place. I would give her status updates on the film I was making. Then a couple months ago, I had her over to my place and showed her the finished film. I also got to show her my paintings and a sculpture in person. That was fun for me as I rarely have an audience.

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc
    edited August 2024

    I am not throwing shade on this post, it’s a fair question, but since I can already do any of these things with my friends and I can’t cuddle with just anyone, for me, cuddling IS the main and sole event. And besides my playlist I’d much rather focus all of my attention on her.

    Having a great connection with a quality woman here is everything I seek so I always want to be fully present for that. (Although I will sneak off to the fridge to grab her a chocolate covered strawberry or an organic grass fed cupcake)…

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