@MichaelFJudd - ask before you arrange a cuddle session then if they think it's weird, find another cuddler. Personally, I wouldn't ask anyone to do anything, thus eliminating the possibility of giving offence.
I like the palm of my hands rubbed, while we are holding hands
@MichaelFJudd I guess that’s a risk you take if ou haven’t hashed out expectations beforehand. Doing that in messages let’s the other person think it through, ask some questions about what you have told them you want, and seek compromise or one of you backs out. But shame on that pro...most if that discussion is one she, as a pro, should have initiated. Unless of course she did, and you held back
Having my head scratched makes me melt. I LOVE head and neck scratches and rubs. Collarbone caresses make me fall asleep and I might just start purring! They're the best! Back and arm rubs are amazing too, but anything above my shoulders is gorgeous!
Folks really get a kick of my long thick hair so when I think it’s bothering them they go “oh no, I love it! Let it loose” and they’ll play and gently tug on it from time to time. The tugging is pretty nice I’ll admit lol but head scratching too is good.
Some cuddlers like when i touch their backs with the lightest gentlest pressure touch almost to a point of tickling, watching them smile and giggle, very relaxing, I enjoy getting my shoulders rubbed and head scratched
@stellarosass Hair pulling is actually therapeutic. It should obviously be done the right way with no intent of hurting the person or pulling their hair out.
Caressing my shoulders or the back of my hands
I like it when my hands are held.