I’ve noticed that they don’t have any dark skin or plus size people as professional cuddlers. Representation matters. Me and all my friends that are plus size always here from people how good we smell. How our energy is warm, inviting, safe, protective, and feels like home. The amount of messages I get on dating sites from people of all genders asking me to cuddle with them and a platonic way is why I decided to apply to become a professional cuddler. They don’t give a reason as to why certain people are approved while others are denied. However, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see why the site has a particular type of person that they approve. It’s not because other ethnicities, or bigger people aren’t applying to become professional cuddlers. It’s because we don’t ever get approved. Giving a reason why someone is denied would mean they would have to acknowledge their discriminatory selection process when it comes to approving people. 