@SunshineHug thank you very much, I can't wait to try this and also share with my dad.
I think a nice meal would be a good thing, I'm a single guy who works a lot and would for sure go for it. Going to work, going home, getting fast food, going to sleep then repeating, can all wear you out. But also makes me think about the times I've bought meals for a few pro cuddlers, that there is be sort of a blurry line between just a fun or cool extra thing you with someone you like, and feeling taken advantage of in the monetary type of way. Like I've had pro cuddlers come over and suggest getting a meal or whatever, and so I just naturally and stupidly think they just want to grab a bite as friends, and then feel used and kinda sad after I payed the bill but find out they expected to be paid for the hour or whatever it was. Like why would they think I want to go out to dinner with them, pay for it, and also pay for their time? I'm I'm paying for their time I'd rather just spend in cuddling. I felt ambushed and used and kinda sad after, Just saying to take that part into consideration, like laying the ground rules if there's an extra charge and stuff. But otherwise love the idea and would for sure pay someone to make me some meals. Also shows you care, most cuddlers I know just think of it as a job and you both pretend it's something different, but it's not, which is sort of a bummer, and something like that would kind of break that mold and be truly nice and sweet.
Yeah, I see lots of mentions of dinner, coffee, walks in the park, etc. but, like the website says, I’m really only interested in cuddling. If I were that interested in the other stuff, I’d be at a dating site rather than a cuddle site. To each their own though. The OP seems like a lovely person to cuddle with if I ever move back to Arizona. Hold off on the meal though, please! 😁
I like to have tea as a warmup. It takes a few minutes at the beginning, especially if I have a pot of tea already steeped. Which of course the tea is still poured in front of the other person, and we drink the same tea. Time enough for some pleasant conversation, followed by cuddling with conversation and occasional sips of tea.
Yes, I’d eat whatever you give me.
To be honest, I never know what food is going to upset my stomach. The last thing I want is to get bloated and have gas from some random unknown food right before the main event. I’d rather just go hungry.
True, I ate one time before cuddling and next again. Meal should come after cuddling.
It’s a nice gesture once you’re comfortable with someone. I’ve done it ☺️
Now that I think about it, getting a bear hug 🫂 while cooking sounds fun 😆
I don’t like crumbs in my bed 👀
Even when I do movie theater sessions, I ask the pro that we not eat anything during the movie so that we can focus on cuddling.
If my cuddler has time I often do takeout or a meal outside after a cuddle. It’s a nice touch and makes it even more personal.
I have offered this for the last year on my profile and few of my cuddlers actually take me up on the offer, but I wish more would! I am a trained chef with 5 years of fine dining experience. I charge for the time I spend cooking, just like I do my personal chef clients. It's a service that I love providing when I get a chance!
I only offer cooking with sessions that are booked for 4 or more hours because of how I have it set up. I do require that they purchase the groceries for the meal they’d like me to cook or that they split the cost of the groceries that I purchase with ingredients always run by them just in case of allergies.
I have 3 options offered.
I cook the meal prior to them coming so it’s ready at the time of our session and meal time does count towards the session time booked. This is only offered to my long time regular clients as they are the only ones I host for.
We cook it together / they watch me while I cook and we chat and have music playing in the background. This time also counts towards booked time.
For public sessions 2 hours or longer I’ll typically have a picnic or charcuterie set up offered. However if we are cuddling at a drive in I’ll have more snack baskets (candy, soda, popcorn, water) or pizza if they request otherwise they can purchase their own at the concession stand.
Heck yah. I’m always down to eat.