@CuddlerSeeking Since you had a prior and subsequent professional relationship with these pros, did you ever ask them why they cancelled or discuss any compensation?
I have only had to cancel one appointment last minute due to car trouble while in route. I agreed to reschedule with the client at a 2 for 1 type of setup (essentially a 50% discount) to take into account for the fact that time and a cost was incurred on their end. I feel like any Pro who is a professional and thinks about it should offer a discount to reschedule unless the appointment was cancelled due to a safety concern.
@CuddlerSeeking youve had some experiences, and im not sure I'd return for more punishment after 1 time. I think i counted 4 times you were out a couple hundred dollars, and took it on the chin like a champ and gave it another shot. That's perseverance right there, but i guess if you know what you need and where to get it.
But this is the reason I'd never pay a deposit before hand, because at some point in life that didn't work out for me and now i look at all folks who ask for them the same way. I do understand the request just don't trust the outcome .
But then to also return to the same pros that caused that loss, that baffles me. They must have some great cuddles. Maybe your an evolved human and i haven't reached that level of maturity and emotional growth.