I just read a post that think was taken down. I assume it was because when i went to add my 2 cents it wouldn't post. I'm kind of disappointed because the OP was very open and honest and frankly vulnerable. I think some of the content was going to trigger a lot of negative responses but i think it sounded to me like he was looking for help in an awkward situation. But since he asked for direction it seems like he should have been helped. If he was truly being honest then i see no issue. Sure he shared more than he needed to but he could have just showed up to a cuddle with a surprise, and i believe that would have been very concerning to the cuddler he arraigned.....