@Snugglez4Life Not as fancy as your idea, but the Cuddle Requests board is for people to post so others can respond, either publicly, or through private message.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/categories/requests
~ Sunset Snuggles
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Send a courtesy email to all the inactive accounts over 2+ years to have them delete if no longer using their account. Will clean up the search filter
@KuddleKingg You can search based on how recently the person has been online.
The new character limit on Flags is overly...limiting. 🤪 50 characters is between 7 and 13 words, according to Google.
I totally get that the mods don't need to read through peeps prattling on and on in a Flag, but not being able to type a single sentence doesn't make any sense to me. 🫤
There's not even enough room to include a link. (The shortest link on the forum had only a 5-letter title, and was still 65 characters long.)
I like the visitor log. It's tempting to want to visit unnoticed but that sort of defeats the purpose of dissolving barriers between each other. It's sort of like stealing glances a someone, being caught by the person but getting a nice smile instead of a scowl. A visit means "I saw you and took at least a smidgen of interest."
Being able to check a box designating a willingness to do virtual sessions, and having that as a filter would be great. I live in an area where there are very few site members nearby so virtual is a more realistic option.
Could we change back to when we were able to update and amend the date and time of booking proposals sent and not just the length and charge amount? Lots of extra steps and confusion happening causing an enthusiast to give up and move on and often try to schedule without/outside of a new booking proposal before moving on. It was much easier to be able to amend and send back a new time and just have that accepted versus deleting the proposal all together and resending a brand new one.
As one person brought up earlier some people are getting on thinking this is a dating site and for good reason. When you look at some of the provocative pictures I can see why they would think that. My suggestion one would be one or two pictures headshots. I absolutely see no reason to show cleavage and other things unless it was a dating site. I mean what are we doing here cuddling or insinuating something else. The other thing is I think there should be a cap on what people can charge for cuddles. I mean are we trying to make the world better by providing an outlet for people to be held for people to be touched for people to have good conversations.? And I get it that it's capitalism and a person should be able to charge what they want to charge however this is a therapeutic session we're talking here but that's just my thoughts.
I think there should be a cap on what people can charge for cuddles.... I get it that it's capitalism and a person should be able to charge what they want to charge...
I think there should be a cap on what people can charge for cuddles....
I get it that it's capitalism and a person should be able to charge what they want to charge...
Yes, Pros should be able to charge what they want; what the market will bear.
Cuddle caps are anti-capitalist. They reduce incentive by reducing the profit motive, thus reducing the number of Pro cuddlers offering their therapeutic service.
The ability to give posts poops like a thumbs down and an extra poops for thumbs up
Somewhat mystified about the negative comments about the site, generally speaking. I can barely articulate this, but I think this site is set up good. We have our privacy, nothing is overly rigid, more stuff put up with in the forum than what should be (which I consider a good thing), lots of freedom here while not putting people in jeopardy. If half of these suggestions were put in place, this site would not be nearly as good. I'm glad someone that knows more than me created this site and there are many members here that should feel the same way. Just read my last sentence, lol. Feel free to be glad that I did not create this site while hopefully realizing you may not know as much as you think. Carry on cc.
@pmvines
Thumbs Down.
@SunsetSnuggles
The new character limit on Flags is overly...limiting. 🤪 50 characters is between 7 and 13 words, according to Google. I totally get that the mods don't need to read through peeps prattling on and on in a Flag, but not being able to type a single sentence doesn't make any sense to me. 🫤
give the hoes a break lady, stop flagging them. its tough out there inflation is hitting everyone hard.
@Sooson posted: "give the hoes a break lady"
😂😂😂
Maybe another link that filters in the discussions I've participated in (?)
Settings > notifications > forum notifications
@ExclusivelyHeal Pros are not employees of CuddleComfort, so the site would not be able to cap their pricing even if they wanted to. The answer is move on and find a pro you can afford.
CC should send a courtesy email to all the inactive accounts over 1 year and if they don’t log in their account will be deleted. This will clean up the search filter when looking for active cuddlers
@KuddleKingg Why? It's easy enough to search based on when the person was last active. I don't see how inactive accounts hurt anyone. When I search, I look for active in the last week or month.
Hey I’m still new here and I’m exploring but . My thoughts as I’ve been cuddling .
• Public record/ledger: There should be a public section similar to the past bookings area that shows a record of interactions. This would help verify which profiles are real, giving users confidence in connecting with others. It doesn’t need to include personal details but would offer transparency about activity and engagements. • Profile simplicity: Add a button or feature to reduce the amount of information displayed on profiles. This could include only essential details like payment options, with the option for users to expand if needed. Also, offer a scheduling system for pros to display their availability beyond just the booking option. • Engaging inactive users: There should be a way to differentiate between active and inactive users, so we don’t waste time scrolling through profiles only to discover someone hasn’t been online in a while. This could involve engaging inactive users or marking them as inactive in search results. • Visitor section: The visitor section is fantastic please keep it! It adds a nice layer of connection by showing who has checked out your profile.
Lastly. I think you should add a mood section sounds strange . But sometimes knowing the mood of someone else without them needing to explain can be comforting…
@TxTom it isn't really the same thing. One let's me know when there is a new thing. What I am saying is more about presentation once I am here
Outside of that, I accidentally found out there is a hidden menu on mobile. Sliding from the left will reveal it. Just saying in case anyone else didn't know.
.... and if everyone else did know, well then hey, I'm on the same page then ...
@GuyverGordon posted: "another link that filters in the discussions I've participated in What I am saying is more about presentation once I am here"
There are two workarounds.
1.
These links are not a "supported feature", so they can be flawed, but you can see your posts in threads you've commented in, here:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/profile/comments/GuyverGordon
The above will not show any "first posts" you made; for any threads you have started yourself, you will only find the initial post, here:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/profile/discussions/GuyverGordon
And of course the normal way to view your own threads:
2.
You could manually tap the star next to each thread you post on...
Then they will appear in the My Bookmarks section...
I’m just amazed there are 91 pages of comments!
Im still catching up on implementing the suggestions. Allmost done with page 17.
@Sooson darn, you’re a fast reader I’m only on page 15!
How is account verification done re: pros? I watched a pro lower her age by ~ 7 years. Reported the account and no reply/account is still up with the new lower age. I thought pros had to show ID?
Perhaps age on womens' profiles should have the option to be an approximation, i.e. 30ish, 40ish, etc.
Gentlemen never ask a lady her age.
@achetocuddle posted: "Somewhat mystified about the negative comments about the site"
Do you mean this thread? Having a Suggestion Box and a way to let programmers know about bugs and issues is definitely normal.
@achetocuddle posted: "If half of these suggestions were put in place, this site would not be nearly as good."
Good thing it seems nearly all of them go unheeded. 😂
But of course, part of the beauty and purpose of this thread is so people can reply to ideas if they disagree, have an alternate solution for a fix, etc. I also think a lot of suggestions posted in here aren't necessary, or would detract from the site.
@WestsideMarc posted: "I’m just amazed there are 91 pages of comments!"
Since 2017? By the numbers, there has been one post per day over 7 and a 1/2 years.
Doesn't sound like much considering people respond and discuss to support/push back on ideas, the owners and mods pipe in, and individual threads get merged into this mega thread.
@cuddlebear262 posted: "How is account verification done re: pros?"
It isn't. 😒
@cuddlebear262 posted: "I watched a pro lower her age by ~ 7 years."
Disgusting.
If someone is paranoid about their birthday being figured out, fine, shift it by a few days, though only a dedicated stalker would watch your profile every single day for an entire year to see what day it updates. (Yes, some girls have stalkers of some sort, but I'm pretty sure the majority don't need to worry about their birthday being harvested through this method; there are much easier ways.)
I've been told personally by both male, female, Pro, and enthusiast, that they have lied about their age here, specifically to appeal to younger/more people.
Newsflash...lying is not appealing at any age.
If you have to lie to get cuddlers to want to spend time with you...well, you got 99 problems and a snitch is one. Grow some b@lls and some integrity, people.
@cuddlebear262 posted: "Reported the account and no reply/account is still up with the new lower age."
How long ago did you report it? The mods are volunteers, so sometimes things can take awhile. But there is also no follow-up, so unless something changes publicly, we never have a clue if our report has been processed, or if whoever looked at it cared. (The mods are awesome and we don't deserve them, but I'm just spittin' report procedure facts.)
@SunsetSnuggles thank you for your insight! it has maybe been a week or so. hopefully it gets addressed. i had been under the impression that the site screened pros since one had told me it required a picture of her id. It made me feel better thinking you wouldn't be catfished by a pro but i guess that isn't the case.
@cuddlebear262 and @SunsetSnuggles
This is obviously just my opinion and you are certainly entitled to yours. But actively chasing down and reporting some Pro who changed her age by 7 years seems like a bit of a witch hunt.
How do you know the reason?-maybe it was put in wrong initially.
A conversation first before "reporting" would be a better way to handle that.
More than likely it was because she wants to appeal to younger people as you are suggesting. Maybe she is self conscious about aging.
If the clients she meets with are happy with the session-then it’s good for everyone. If they are not-They can report “Catfishing” if that is what they think is happening.
To label that disgusting is a bit of overreaction in my opinion.
We all have self conscious defense mechanisms and people wanting to appear younger is not new.
Also @cuddlebear262 -How do you “watch a pro lower her age”?
Is there something more personal going on here between you and this Pro?