@mrtechguy posted: "Are we able to report Pro Cuddlers who agree to bookings and accept via site and don't show up?"
Of course, leave Karma to make people aware she was a no-show, and report her, with screenshots.
@Sooson posted: "Step 2: She makes an excuse Step 3: Negative karma removed."
That's depressing. Likely accurate. But depressing. Women are let off way, way too easy. Especially the money makers.
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@mrtechguy is going to be banned any minute for having a previously banned account and per the screenshot spoiler, used some very unfortunate language to another past Cuddler. But people here are chatting and tagging him as if everything is just fine and he’s a normal member here. It’s mid day where I am, I’ve had coffee but I’m so confused. what do I misunderstand?
A lot of the time there is miscommunication. And of course excuses, but we try to verify if an excuse has validity to it, and too many no-shows can result in a ban. I can def say for me, I dgaf how much money they earn for the site.
@g_w_t_w Just me not forum moderating because I cannot do it anymore unless I absolutely have to because I’m gonna go insane. If it was someone dangerous that assaults people yeah, banned immediately. That’s not the case here. Just hoping some words get through beforehand. I’ll try to be optimistic that the whack a mole machine is unplugged though and I won’t have to play again this time.
@CharlieBear i can only imagine how difficult it is trying to deal with all this for the Mods and you definitely need a break. Thanks for explaining the situation. Now it makes more sense. Meanwhile, 1 million hugs to you 🤗🤗🤗
I'll say this, i have caught myself doing it when i was not responded to BUT knowing someone was checking to see when i was active on the sight and getting worked up when not being responded to would give me the creeps. It's weird to do all that monitoring. Again, I've done it before but i had to check my behavior. I also wouldn't message someone several times if they do not respond, that means they aren't worth my effort. I don't know but that behavior seems very unbecoming. I also don't understand why there is confusion l, even if it was suggested to reach out for a cuddle again, the lack of response shows they don't want to cuddle again. Sometimes the answer is the simple one. Unless you get a subscription plan with a pro then they don't owe a damn thing.
I am saying this as a person who is not in demand and don't get a lot of messages. But if someone requests a cuddle i don't want, i may or may not respond.
Dayum I stand corrected 😆
@BashfulLoner Ugh, the profile lurkers are something, aren't they? I have a few who visit mine every couple of days. Like why? But I'm not one of those trigger-happy peeps who's gonna block them.
@CharlieBear
Just me not forum moderating because I cannot do it anymore unless I absolutely have to because I’m gonna go insane.
🥺💙🫂 If I ever end up in your area or vice versa, I have a great big hug for you with your name on it.
lol stop it!!!
@Sooson
@SunsetSnuggles Since you're fairly active on the forums, you're bound to get more profile view because of it.
I recently had one pro ask me to only visit her profile when I was ready to book. Since she travels, I can't know when she's available unless I look at her profile. And it doesn't help since she changes her main profile pic from time to time, and that always gets me curious. To prevent myself from visiting her profile unnecessarily, I decided to block her instead.
@LadyVel 🫂 thank you
@CharlieBear I had almost the same thing happen the other night from a guy who wanted seggy stuff! He said he reported me and I was a ho@ker.. I was a horrible human and popped off in text.. I reported the account and thank god you guys banned him!! I was dead shocked! Like what is wrong with some of these people.. I wanted to be like bruh who made you this angry….. but honestly I was disgusted in his behaviour.. it was a messed up situation and the dude had me a little shook!
Honestly I'm a pro and really don't like to approach first. Maybe that could be it?. I didn't read entire thread though
I had a great cuddle with someone here, and I wanted to cuddle again but there was always something, so I moved on . If she doesn't reply , move on. There are other pros, other enthusiast.. you'll be fine
I agree with @LunaNoir and some others. Just move on and don't overthink it.
Additionally, I'd say that if you find yourself thinking about a pro too much to the point where you are posting in the forums about her maybe "ghosting" you, it might be best to see some other cuddlers and circle around back to her in a few months after you process a bit.
It’s ironic that there are some folks who have reached out to me personally for cuddles, who have now commented on this thread who were upset that I didn’t respond due to a very busy day job. We’re talking about 5 hours of time here I didn’t respond.
Even for a pro - this isn’t a full time gig for a lot of us, and we have lives! Take the hint, and move on. There’s nothing that makes me feel more unsafe than a guy who is mad at me and still expects me to lay next to them in bed.
@NikkiFM - One pro even once said that a guy got mad at her for not replying at like 2am in the morning when she was asleep. I don't understand what goes on through these peoples' heads.
(Some) men have felt entitled to a woman’s “company” since the beginning of time. I hope we are (slowly) moving past that.
Why are you so caught up with it? Her not responding could be for a number of reasons. I think it's odd how you keep checking up on her like that. I would've stopped bothering after the first ignored response