Do you like to have the TV on while cuddling, or do you prefer to have music playing? What are your favorite shows/songs to cuddle to?
I get too distracted with the TV but TV is fine if we are actively both watching a show or movie.
I've really started to enjoy having some music in the background to cuddle to. Lo-fi has become my new favorite cuddle music.
It is very difficult or impossible to watch TV while cuddling. If you do manage it, it is extremely rude.
It is of course very easy to cuddle while watching TV, but that is a profoundly different thing.
I prefer music, something upbeat if possible. Also just instrumentals depending on the type of day I've had
Neither, I find it distracting
Either some light music or silence. Prefer silence.
No favorite song, but a recent very enjoyable session included sharing songs that were relevant to each others interests. Great way to get to know each other and broaden horizons.
I enjoy music. I enjoy silence. I enjoy having TV on in the background. My only qualm is when the other person is focused on the TV and not the cuddling (as @CuddleDuncan put much more cleverly).
TV tells me how much time has passed if I happen to have a session with a pro, music allows for conversation and a but more of a personal vibe
I prefer music, preferably instrumental. The lighter, the better.
I divert to what the person wants if I’m at her home. If I’m hosting I always have soft instrumental music playing. I always ask if that’s ok, and I can always change it. But I’m never opposed to cuddling while watching a movie either.
It depends on the mood. I can do either. Most times we have nothing on. How about the TV on but with some sort of ambience background like a crackling fireplace burning or a thunderstorm.
I like a little distraction, i can tune the tv out when needed. Most times it's just background noise but i just prefer it.
Either silence or light instrumental music, preferably the former. Though I did have a session with stuff like SOAD, Evanescence etc in the background, that was a positive experience.
Absurd premise to me. If I have a woman in my arms, she gets ALL my attention.
Even this multi-tasker over here knows that.
Air, zero 7, or lofi for me.
Music preferred. TV low as an alternative I like noise in the background.
@CuddleAngel333 💯 plus some Beach House
I don't mind either actually, I think when they're kept to a lower volume level they can actually make things much more comforting and relaxing. Some clients also love having conversation or laughs while together and both TV and music can be great conversations starters as well as silence fillers for those that find silence awkward lol
I prefer music … usually lo-fi, soft r&b, slow jazz, I enjoy experimenting with sensory touch and like to move my hands and fingers to the music while doing so. I have also had some fun longer sessions where we watched movies or played video games
I think this was changed after I responded so I’ll change it to music.
I am a lover of music in general so that would be my go to. Silence is just as well especially if the client wants to chat or share stories. Tv is ok if that’s what the client is into. I can go with the flow to ease tension. Whatever helps create a happy safe space:) One thing I will add that I do prefer is aromatherapy …. The faint smell of something sweet and soothing is the best - wind chimes in the back ground, sounds of waves 🌊 or euphoria frequencies is awesome. (Any relaxing frequencies to let go of the day) Lo-fi is nice too … chill beats
I've had some cuddle sessions where we're talking about a movie or tv show and have to bring up youtube to find a particular scene, quote, or such. But otherwise, music or silence.