The level of outrage something illicits is always going to be subjective. I don't personally care if someone fudges on their age, but then again none of that matters to me with platonic cuddling so long as they are adults and act like it. If it hasn't been addressed when you report it, it's likely due to the mods and admin seeing it as a non issue and have bigger and more pressing matters to deal with. I realize some people are a bit report happy, and sometimes (not saying that applies to anyone posting on this topic) that can be due to a certain kind of hall monitor need to feel in control. Like a self congratulatory Yelp reviewer who feels they have more authority over the outcome of something than they actually do. There is most certainly a need to report and very valid reasons to do so, I just feel like there could be some more thought put into whether or not it's really something that's reportable first.
There is breaking the site rules, then there is I don't like what you're doing so I'm telling Mom on you. We don't always have to demand appeasement just because we are irked about something. Try counting to ten, take 3 deep breaths, and with eyes closed ask yourself what it is about a situation that bothers you. Once you have an answer ask yourself whether it genuinely worth the bother.
Also opinions are not fact. Using absolute terminology and inflexible logic to apply your opinion as generalized fact doesn't mean you are right, no matter how right we might feel about something at the time.
Age? Who cares. A million other things to worry about. Not me who’s lying.
@BrianOcean and @pmvines Both of you are spot on. Reporting an age discrepancy is overkill and close to a witch hunt. In the grand scheme of things there are lies and then there are damn lies. This doesn’t rise to the damned, but I am sure as we have seen there will be some that will get their panties in a wad over it. The mods job is not to unknot said panties.
@BrianOcean Agreed.
@BrianOcean & @pmvines I agree
@BrianOcean It didn't sound like an "active chase". Just one person reporting an obvious lie they noticed. 🤷🏻♀️
You're right, we minions don't know the reason; that's why mods sort it out. If it was a mistype, no harm no foul.
I continue to cuddle and am friends with those who told me they lied about their age. I can find someone's actions to be wrong without judging the person as a whole.
@pmvines inhale ... exhale 😌 Lying is what bothers me, age is irrelevant. Forest for the trees.
@pmvines posted: "ask yourself whether it genuinely worth the bother."
I don't know who the Pro in question is. I simply shared my apparently unpopular distaste for lying; no bother, no active chase. Looks like I bothered some enough to form a choreographed quartet. What was that about a witch-hunt? 😆
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Also @cuddlebear262 -How do you “watch a pro lower her age”?
A pro in my area came back from a pause a year younger. Go figure. But at least she now has karmas i assume since someone questioned how come she's been around for years with no karma. And she's also younger now:)
Panties in a wad...Not
@gem7 Boxers?
@TheFunCartel Yep, going commando for now on.
@gem7 Arnold approved.
A grid
Panties
@Sooson what style of panties? I don’t think you can pull a thong off at your age.
...a choreographed quartet.
I used to work for the Bureau of Witch Investigations
@SunsetSnuggles I think some of us feel there is definitely over reporting and I think this is a prime example.
You have a right to your opinion and I am not upset by it.
"Reported the account and no reply/account is still up with the new lower age."
@cuddlebear262 -Reported the account- Is obviously monitoring the account and now posting it on a forum thread about improving the site. That is pretty active in my opinion.
Sounds personal to me.
@BrianOcean "actively chasing down" more like someone who I changed my age filter to avoid started suddenly showing up in my searches again.
How do I know the reason? I had scheduled a session with them and noticed that they looked significantly older than the age they had listed. I'm too polite to walk out on someone so continued the session. She mentioned having a daughter that would have put made her a 16 yo mother if you believed the age she had listed at the time. With the new change she now would have been a 9 year old mother.
Whatever your "reasons" for wanting to appear younger, it does not justify out right lying about your age. If someone were to use photos of someone else, it's a lie and called catfishing, why is lying about your age any different. I agree with @SunsetSnuggles and it's sad anyone would want to lie and deceive others. I don't understand what you expect to happen, you lie to secure the booking and then you meet in person and it's obvious you lied. Why do you think it's acceptable that pros can lie when their clients are paying for a service.
@TheFunCartel what do you mean ? I'm not old
@Sooson I think there are a couple of people who probably already reported you to the mods. Liar, liar thong on fire.
@Sooson ok I believe the age, but you’re not fooling anyone with those five stars ⭐️
@BrianOcean please don't project the creepy shit you would do onto me. I don't "monitor" accounts. i had an initial age range i was comfortable with having sessions within. After seeing this provider who seemed much older than I prefer, I changed my age filter because I believed her initial age in good faith and decided I didn't want to have sessions with people that age. She's now showing up on my searches again so I know she changed her age.
I posted on the thread with suggestions to improve the site because I don't believe people should be able to lie about their age or their appearance when you're potentially going to meet with people from the site.
Just my opinion but you seem awfully set on defending the ability to do this, seems like you might be actively deceiving people on here as well.
@TheFunCartel Sheesh, and Arnold went that way the whole movie. Had to be some chafing.
@lonelytauros lol there are the 5 one star karma i received @TheFunCartel not trying to ruin people's evening but I do have pictures of me in speedos from years ago 🤣🤣🤣
I personally have more of an issue with the way that society sexualizes women and places so much importance on youth and beauty. If we people on the site didn't place so much importance on attractiveness to the extent where it creates a sense of competition and self consciousness among the site members and if age discrimination weren't a reality then perhaps people wouldn't feel tempted to lie on their profiles about age, body type, and height. Not saying it's necessarily right, but I understand .
@cuddlebear262 i think you are pretty thin-skinned about this. @BrianOcean said it sounded personal to him. It’s an opinion. You know obvious personal attacks are reportable to mods too. He didn’t do anything creepy. Maybe just ignore the pro and move on. I mean just block her account. Pretty easy.
Besides it was probably jplemmon. Was she holding a fish in any of her pics?
@Sooson Careful, @JoyfulHeart took down my mankini pic.
@TheFunCartel sorry let me clarify that it was "just my opinion" does that make it more ok for you?