@cuddlebear262 I don’t matter on this, it’s the mods you have to worry about.
@TheFunCartel @jplemmon has been known for holding other things in pics and "accidentally" sending them to women on the site. A definite clear cut case of need to report.
@pmvines so now we know why he was banned. A full-fledged sausage peddler which is much different than an age adjuster.
@TheFunCartel Actually that's not the reason, though it should have been. But being a creepy weirdo offsite is a difficult thing to be rebuked for onsite, plus you know how women are kinda afraid to report for fear of retaliation on here.
@pmvines I understand why they do it, and to be honest I wouldn't have an issue with it if everyone was an enthusiast, but the site wants pros so that they get their of revenue. Now it's a service you are purchasing and I think the site has an obligation to at least verify things that are objectively verifiable such as picture and age. I prefer cuddling with someone closer in age so we can connect and have conversations. I don't want to lay there awkwardly with nothing in common to talk about because she's old enough to be my mother.
@TheFunCartel if thinly veiled attacks presented as an opinion are an issue, I'll be as concerned as @BrianOcean is.
@pmvines The dude has issues.
@TheFunCartel You and I have both been on here a while and share mutual friends. You know how it be. Sometimes you end up knowing things about folks that make you just want to wash your mind out with soap...
I'm willing to bet a screenshot of this conversation was already sent to his cell
@Sooson Why do you say that?
@TxTom again it comes down to the authenticity of cuddling. For instance there are those on here charging three and $400 for cuddles and I say that is absolutely ridiculous and good luck with them trying to get paid I've also seen those that do that their prices tend to come down over the course of time. Because if a person is really looking for a cuddle it shouldn't cost that much if we're sincere in heart and spirit. But we know that other things are going on and those things understood need not be said. I'll leave it at that.
@WriterGF Oh I totally agree I would never consider paying some of the amounts that is being charged period but if we're just being honest about the conversation are these really pros question mark I mean what training have they gone through to be proven to be a pro. Titles are beautiful, good self esteem boost. 🙃
@TheFunCartel
Because people are people, and I assume he made some friends here. The amount of offsite gossip that goes on is beyond unreal. but that's a whole other conversation. Just to clarify, I did not make that comment based on a specific knowledge that actually happened. just playing the odds. I got yelled at once for commenting about a banned pro.
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@ExclusivelyHeal
...there are those on here charging three and $400 for cuddles and I say that is absolutely ridiculous...
Who are you to say? Who am I to say? The value of a product or service is what someone is willing to pay.
I've also seen those that do that their prices tend to come down over the course of time.
So there you go! The free market works--problem solved.
@cuddlebear262 It was certainly not my intention to accuse you of any "creepy Shit"-I made an observation about your post.
You stated that their was a 7 year age difference- I don't find that very significant- It is OK that you do but now you are implying that there was a gross misrepresentatinon of age which manifested in the Pro's appearance.
That is a different matter I am sure we could all agree. Probably needs it's own discussion.
7 years is not that big a of a deal-That was my only point.
I am extremely comfortable with I do on here so I am not offended by anything you might say about me and I mean that sincerely.
it seems a WHOLE lot more of the story came forward then just some Pro changing their age on a profile.
You obviously met with them and were not happy about the session-{ The reason for that was they seemed older than you thought} That is obviously your right to not want to see them again.
It was personal- I think that is abundantly clear.
I am not in the custom of defending lying as has been suggested. I merely gave my opinion that I don;t feel it is that big of a deal- Some agree and others disagree. For me it is not personal.
Your post was really about your personal expereince meeting with a Pro who really misrepresented their age and whose appearance you felt deceived by.
Not about a 7 year change on a profile.
Why you presented it the way you did is anyone's guess.
@TxTom If everyone on the block sells a large pizza for $20.00 and someone sells pizza for $80.00 it is ok for some to label it ridicules, it is likely that the $80 pizza is not 4x better. No need to complain about prices but also no need bully those who do.
The value of a product or service is what someone is willing to pay.
That is only valid if the consumer of the product showed up for another wallet rinsing session. Until the first visit the value is unknown to them and they roll a dice.
@Sooson I wasn't bullying, ExclusivelyHeal .
He tagged me concerning prices, and I responded. I wouldn't have brought it up otherwise.
@TxTom ok, that's fair! We agree on a lot more than we don't.
@TxTom me and @Sooson will let it slide this time we’re stepbrothers like the movie stepbrothers we both have curly hair. He’s the drummer and I’m the singer.
LOL I'll take any hair at this point.
I mean I still have hair kind off.
Thanks, @lonelytauros . That was a good movie. Except that Jim Carrey and Jeff Daniels don't have curly hair. 🤪
I wish y'all would write like this every time I wanted something good to read. The last few pages have been great. I recommended them to another member who also has a sense of humor.
@achetocuddle well, you know we try to fit some humor time in but most of the time we’re busy flagging posts flagging members flagging this and that climbing flag poles and saying the Pledge of Allegiance
@lonelytauros I know that's right! Lol.
What a Pro charges is what she wants/needs & thinks her time is worth. Really it’s not up to you anyway so get over it and move on - is my opinion. I’m no longer a Pro, but when I was, my rate was average or below but there were some people - Some who exposed their Awfulness right here on the forum - who I wouldn’t want to spend 1 minute of my time with, even for $million an hour, so there you go. Each has their own reason that we don’t need to judge. Seriously move on. A Pro is technically Required to cuddle “Everyone” But still can make a personal choice obviously.
BTW About the age, Did you try to understand the motive and be more pragmatic, logical in your thinking? And If you weren’t thorough with screening then that’s on you. ⭐️ Just require a Current With the Date Written On Paper Held in the Hand photo or video chat Before meeting anyone - to be sure you are comfortable with how they look.⭐️ Because OMG wrinkles are so scary for cuddling!! lol. The way that pro thought of life, her POV her mind her conversation, must’ve been so horrible to hear because she might’ve been a little older! How do you know it was changed by exactly 7 years just curious? (Sorry that Pro might’ve felt judged and the need to change her age!) Sometimes someone who is very young might be boring to me. No life experience, not much to talk about or relatable, but that rarely happens because I’ve cuddled ages 24-80 and enjoyed learning about them no matter how old! (Mine is decades older but irrelevant right now because I’m traveling, not cuddling but told on a needs to know basis, if I’m meeting in person).
I still reiterate what I said, some of the pros pricing is ridiculous! I have a right to that opinion just as I think some restaurants charge ridiculous prices. Are ppl gonna not eat their because of my personal OPINION? Probably not. However if I were the owner those prices would move from ridiculous to reasonable very quickly.
Yep, IMO - pretty much life is too expensive in general. Rent, utilities, some restaurants, cars, necessities. Paying for someone to cuddle you might be considered a luxury.
Here’s a thought ➡️ If it’s not in their price range, some people could work on social skills and find a real life relationship, real friends, not go online looking for cuddles from strangers.
And no, I’m not entitled to be able to afford anything. actually I only have what I can afford to pay for. That’s perfectly fine and I accept it. If I need or want more, then I have to earn more money to get it. I can only change what’s in my power and honestly, it’s not worth my time nor of anyone else’s interest to complain about it. But go ahead and have your opinion. It’s a public forum and feel free to say what you want. That’s what I enjoy the most actually is hearing other people’s opinions. And sometimes it might affect the way I think. (Good or bad).