Come to think of it, usernames are far too individualistic.
We need CC assigned designations, à la THX 1138, not usernames.
This isn't a dating site, y'know.
Wait a second are you trying to tell me this isn’t a dating site and I can’t order pizza from here?
@Chuletica Hey, I don't have ANY pictures posted, so no shame/blame here. (I do provide pictures privately upon request). As for a "teddy bear" - that was my wife's nickname for me. I proposed to her in a full teddy bear costume. The engagement ring was tied to a bride/groom Gund teddy bear set.
Stop telling people they don't have the right or preference for a certain body type. I pro may not feel comfortable with a person larger than they are. This whole political correcting people is a pain in the butt and why social justice warriors are so disliked. Why is the option to list it there in the first place and no once is being forced to self describe anyway.
I am that I am, ready and willing to cuddle and send all the cuddle vibes ✨️
@CuddleFantastic I totally get you! I'm obese. I work on my health and I stopped growing in 4th grade so I can't do much about that 😅 we work with what we got!
I just think it's really neato that women get to stay lumped into their little size categories like prepackaged meat at the butcher for them to be rated on a scale of cuddle desirability. Meanwhile I can just shrug and claim dad bod while I pat my belly and nobody cares because it's somehow manly. How prescious.
I think every User on this site has the option to leave Body Type blank if they don't want to be "lumped" into any size category.
Edit: There is a personal preference for every body type out there. There is nothing wrong with having personal preferences.
@pmvines The reason that is because I’ll only speak for myself when i buy shampoo i usually get the three in one like shampoo, conditioner, and body wash, but you know women like to have separate products for their skin, their hair and so on so the website is giving them choices for categories, which I think is neat
Looking for a date on this site.
Not
@lonelytauros you also use the 3 in 1 you cheap @$$ 🤣🤣🤣
@Sooson well, you know, I gotta save money for the cuddles lol 😂
I define curvy as a woman is shaped like an hourglass. She has large breasts, smaller waist and has larger bottom
@TxTom I agree wholeheartedly. While we are at it let's deliberately describe ourselves inaccurately in the About Me Section.
@jags0001 I agree that is the standard definition.
@jags0001 same here. I think its different from being fat or overweight. But definition seems to have changed, not sure if the body positivity factors in that
I find it interesting the connonations of some of these descriptors. I'd comfortably describe someone as fat in my other language as opposed to English! Too loaded and can easily cause offense.
I like the catergories personally. It's nice to be able to match my preference if possible. I personally prefer to cuddle with larger male bodies, it is what it is.
I tend to tick the medium catergory as it seems to be the most neutral. So far, no one has queried this. Then again I tend to video call before a meet up.
stop acting like being fat is such a bad thing to be
@Chuletica 😁😁😁😁
@SunsetSnuggles: In any case, the best way to painlessly weed out people is to have a body shot (preferably multiple) in your profile. Pictures
Agree. A current photo certainly would certainly do the trick.
What this thread has taught me. . . I 'm Fat 😅
@KittyPukka You aren't but that is hilarious.
@achetocuddle Thank you! You're very sweet. I have come fully to term with the fact that I'm a 'big' girl 😆
@KittyPukka And that is perfectly ok. Just be you. It is way good enough.
@gem7
❣️ Genuine is always more important to me than a number on the scale
@KittyPukka
Maybe we need an option for "body shape", with options like plank, hourglass, oval, toroid, pyramid, cube, mobius, etc.
@IronLemon agreed 💯
Well said @Chuletica ! People use fatness as an excuse to treat people horribly and chalk it up to "health reasons". I've been considered obese medically, my whole life and my health has never been an issue.
@KittyPukka So am I, ain't it great?! 😁🫂
like plank, hourglass, oval, toroid, pyramid, cube, mobius, etc.
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@IronLemon LOL! I'm definitely in the plank zone body shape wise.😆👍
I identify as a Tobius-pyramid hybrid lol. @IronLemon 😂
@Katota haha 😆 yes! I have been told that I have the 'perfect body for cuddling' so there's that