Whatās the best cuddle compliment youāve received? Iāll go first: A pro cuddler I was seeing retired but said she wanted to keep me. She left this site almost 2 years ago, and I still see her.
"Epitome of a lovely human being" in my first karma notes received š„²
I always appreciate the guys who start stressed and unable to sit close for several minutes but who end up falling asleep in my arms, especially if they have a cute little snore.
The best compliment I got from a pro was that even though I wasnāt her first choice, her two other appointments canceled so I had to do for the evening
I'm not as much of an asshole in person as I am on the forums
Is it a compliment if I start off cuddling someone and end up dating her? No one from this site, of course. It's only happened twice, though. Actually, I think it's three times. Or maybe four.
I think my favorite compliment from my karma is "Her cuddling skills are on point!"
I take every compliment I get to heart haha, I canāt pick just one, no matter how big or small
Personally I feel like announcing accolades given for personal and private moments shared while spending time with somebody cheapens it
I don't need to toot any more than I already do
Whatās the best cuddle compliment youāve received?
"I thought you'd be taller."
āGenuinely kind person.ā It just felt like my partners saw me for more than just a person they wanted to use.
@pmvines @CharlieBear @Jubal and any others from the forum who I am so fortunate to have cuddled! Andā¦Each time I read a karma that someone has written for me, I want to believe they meant it. When they schedule again, I know.
@lonelytauros Donāt sell yourself short. Instead of calling yourself third pick, refer to yourself as the second loser. Itās all about perspective.
@Joe82_ youāre right itās all about perspective. I just see that I was in the top three.
@lonelytauros Exactly! And being second loser puts you in the top two!
When someone books a session, I find out their cuddle preferences. During one session we started off face to face cuddling but I knew he enjoyed laying his head on the chest so I asked him if he wanted me to hold him. The next day he thanked me for asking him if I wanted to hold him because noones ever asked him that before and would definitely book again. That made me feel so good because I know since he's already cuddled with quite a bit of cuddlers, that put me above all those others to ensure that I will get repeat cuddles.
@lonelytauros
if you did not play hard to get and haven't leveraged the situation for a discount, please don't talk to me again.
As for myself, i haven't called a fast-food worker names for almost a month now, so I'm quite proud of myself.
Playing toxic dishonest games like this is likely to lose you a cuddler. It's sad how some people see people as objects to be manipulated.
Someone once told me that they remind me of home because they grew up on a pig farm and I smelled like the pigpen in the morning when sheād go to feed the pigs.
"You smell really good!"
"Wow! Do you always have this much of a spread on your kitchen table for guests when they come by?" ā¤ļøš«š
Lol! So, good personal hygiene practices go a long way even with cuddling. And feeding cuddle buds is never a bad thing!šš
@john5555 It's strange what can trigger memories and emotions. In college, I came home to find my huge football player roommate crying on the corner of his bed. The sound of a chainsaw outside the dorm had reminded him of his family. Every fall, all five of them would go out together to cut wood.
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@lonelytauros Aww, there's nothing wrong with being a second fiddle cuddler. Glad you were still chosen on the end!šš«
There have been times as a pro when I see people who have never experienced touch or hugs although it doesn't seem possible. I get out a lot of emotions in the form of tears sometimes. It's my honor to be there for that.
i haven't called a fast-food worker names for almost a month now
@Sooson
@katota Do you also need emojis to get a joke ? I was just kidding. Now can I have some popcorn with extra butter ?
Tis the importance of the charcuterie board @Katota
The sound of a chainsaw outside the dorm had reminded him of his family. Every fall, all five of them would go out together to cut wood.
I would instantly wonder if I was rooming with one of Leatherfaceās relatives.
If I mustā¦Plucking from my last 2 karmas: āHeās manly yet heās a soft place to landā. (loved her wording on that one) and āā¦handsome, sweet, kind, respectful and so interesting and interactiveāā¦.
OK now Iāll make up a few about myself for theatrical purposes: His gluten-free couch was great for my allergies, but what really stole my heart was his free iPhone chargingā¦.. Everything was great until the SWAT team arrivedā¦.. I never thought cuddling someone in a wetsuit could be so gratifyingā¦.. And lastly, his cuddling was so amazing that I ended up refunding my fee and tipping HIM!ā¦.
@Katota yeah we watched fiddler on the roof together. It still amazes me that people believe my sarcasm.
@katota Do you also need emojis to get a joke ? I was just kidding.
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@Sooson Well, emojis couldn't hurt...But I'll leave you be with that one āŗļø
@Katota yeah we watched fiddler on the roof together.
@lonelytauros Congratulations. šš